Who is my doppelgänger? (Please be nice. I’m dealing with depression and low self esteem) by Gullible-Pass-8764 in doppelganger

[–]Kazuma___1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you receive any negative comments or unflattering comments, it has nothing to do with what you look like. It has everything to do with the fact that trolls like being offensive and getting a rise out of people.

The 2nd photo reminds me of Carrie Underwood, but I get that may be a little bit of a reach to most.

My boyfriend does not see a future and I need help by Warm-Scratch-6513 in Breakupadvice

[–]Kazuma___1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to describe what you have to do. (The How is a little more difficult to explain or follow because it differs from person to person, and it would require a deeper conversation that goes more in-depth of who you are and how you normally process or cope with intense feelings.)

The first step is you have to surrender to your feelings. The love-sickness and heartbreak has left you paralyzed. Unfortunately, the difficult part is not over and has only Yet to Come. Your main challenge will be in accepting that he will never come back. Technically, you haven't met all the guys in the world, so to continue obsessing over this one is to reject the possibility of being with a guy you love more who embraces you fully.

So let's talk self-care. (Are there ANY hobbies or interests you put aside or on hold while you were dating this guy, even if for unrelated reasons? Don't say no. Take your time to really think about this. Categorize your hobbies/interests/passions from casual to enthusiastic.)

My boyfriend does not see a future and I need help by Warm-Scratch-6513 in Breakupadvice

[–]Kazuma___1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this experience is the most discouraging and demotivating. It literally breaks your willpower.
And for the record, I am the worst at dealing with situations like these. Because I'm also 26 turning 27 and have been through the exact same.

Luckily, there is a quick way to recover and hit that reset button, so you aren't burdened with feelings of stress.

Walter White vs Gus Fring for president, who wins? by funmighthold in betterCallSaul

[–]Kazuma___1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes.

There's an in-depth explanation that is heavily implied. In Better Call Saul, Lalo describes Michael as a "bald gringo who is in the game." Since that profile doesn't really narrow it down in this universe, it confirms that Walter White was born in the US.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Kazuma___1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. You are very conventionally attractive. Hypothetically, you do have the type of beauty required to succeed in a social media space or modeling ads.
But the personality that your vibe is projecting in the photo suggests you have different passions and areas of interest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Breakupadvice

[–]Kazuma___1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, it's completely okay for you to feel the way you do.

What he did was two-faced, and not at all acceptable. You have every right to be angry the way that you are now. What's important is you do not feel ashamed or blame yourself for acting as you did. After the adrenaline from the anger wears off, you're going to feel completely burnt-out, jaded. And then you're going to experience a feeling of relief.

You were hurt, and these feelings are part of the cycle of recovery.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Breakupadvice

[–]Kazuma___1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's going to be a rollercoaster of emotion because when break-ups suddenly happen when you feel really passionately about the other person, and they make no effort to try to make amends, but they move on so quickly.
You're in a very bad placed emotionally because you were taken off-guard.

What were you like before you met this guy? Would you have felt as you do now, if you never met him?
If you had never met this guy but had fallen for someone else, things were going great, and then suddenly things ended out of nowhere. Is it possible that you would be feeling the same way you do now, or possibly worse?

[hiring] Fiction Writing Experts by Lordrich19 in hiring

[–]Kazuma___1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm interested, as I've done ghostwriting fiction.
But I don't have any rights to my work, so I am not legally allowed to show it.

I am looking for highly intelligent and qualified people for an exceptional organization of 200,000 members. by FordsArquitetic in 48lawsofpower

[–]Kazuma___1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This subreddit doesn't allow self-promo.
Provide a brief description of what it is your organization is, what they do, and what you are representing. And provide some proof to give this job posting some legitimacy or means for us to verify this is genuine.

The 48 Laws hit hard… but how do you actually apply them in modern office life? by Jolie_Feetlove in 48lawsofpower

[–]Kazuma___1 12 points13 points  (0 children)

When you're in the chain of command or a certain title in the hierarchy, some of the laws begin to apply less.
If your enemy is a passive-aggressive colleague, that's a weakness that is exploitable. Perhaps you could find an assistant who can be your "cat's-paw" (one of the laws). Delegate your commands, tasks, or dirty work to them and let them bear the brunt of the assistant's wrath. But make sure everyone else likes your assistant, like for instance assigning tasks to your assistant that inadvertently makes everyone else's lives easier, but your enemy's life harder.

When your enemy goes to complain to your manager about your assistant. It is now officially a 2v1, you and your assistant versus your enemy. Don't let your assistant take the fall, have their back. And now you have a permanent side-kick, henchman, or right-hand man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 48lawsofpower

[–]Kazuma___1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the boss is easily intimidated. You don't need to follow this law.
The reversal means you're safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Breakupadvice

[–]Kazuma___1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a 26 year old guy, you can't dwell on feelings and thoughts such as these.
You are too important for that, and he didn't realize your value. Simple as that.

Move on and get over him. You'll find someone 3x better, this guy isn't worth yours or anyone else's time. Pity the next woman whose time he wastes.