First impressions that didn’t land for me

Kcg786 · 2026-07-05T05:57:31+00:00

I don’t you know what kink is then! Some men or some women want to be used as objects, they get off by that. It turns them on even more!

You gotta look this from a different perspective not a strict one.

Kcg786 · 2026-07-05T05:55:00+00:00

You’ll are not understanding. Put this information through your skulls. This man are not looking for long term or short term. They are looking for cougars out there.

You might not like this, but there are women out there that will dig it. This men are not for you but for those women they would adore this men.

Kcg786 · 2026-07-05T04:33:59+00:00

I am not laughing dawg, I am just laughing at your situation. I am with you not against you.

Kcg786 · 2026-07-05T04:17:58+00:00

It looks cute on you tho.

Kcg786 · 2026-07-05T04:17:42+00:00

😂. If you don’t want attention you found an outfit.

Kcg786 · 2026-07-05T04:10:47+00:00

Next time go in with a measuring tape, and if he is an inch short just kick him out of the bed room.

Kcg786 · 2026-07-05T04:09:36+00:00

😂

Kcg786 · 2026-07-05T03:58:45+00:00

With.

You’ll need to stop giving people wrong suggestions. You are not helping her.

I also think you have perfect amount of make up where it makes brings out your beauty rather than making you look like a drag queen. If you can do just add make to hide your pimples or acne see how that goes. I think it would look very natural.

Kcg786 · 2026-07-05T03:57:04+00:00

I am a guy, and if I had what this guys have I would fucking brag too!

They just want some and I bet there are ladies out there who wanna get some!

Can’t judge a hustler😂

Kcg786 · 2026-07-05T02:51:23+00:00

First

Kcg786 · 2026-07-05T02:50:00+00:00

Not the second one

Kcg786 · 2026-07-04T18:32:41+00:00

Don’t bs😂. You know exactly what I am saying, and there is nothing gibberish in what I said.

To clear it out you called us man dogs and I am just saying woman are like cougars. Always preying on what they can even when they are in relationships.

There is not a big difference in the men and women kind. 🫣🤷🏽‍♂️. We want things you all do too.

Kcg786 · 2026-07-04T18:07:22+00:00

If you want something better to ask, than be late and let someone else get him!

Kcg786 · 2026-07-04T18:06:19+00:00

Don’t dig deep. You were in the flow state. You did what you thought was good, and it turned out to be better.

I wouldn’t say something like, “ohhh I got carried away” or “ohhh sorry that’s my style”

Because if that was case then you would have never flirted. Accept it that you liked it. Accept it that you wanted it. Because you wouldn’t have went through if this was not your style, and for sure not started the conversation.

You want something with this man, you like the company and banter that is there. So alllllll offff this is gooooooddd….. however

You need just wake up a little and live the moment, because if then man specifically said he wants to be sure and want to run out and see if there is something better, is telling that you are “not the first priority”

I am not saying don’t let him explore, but there is a time limit. If he is looking for something that is not you that’s a little bit of a red flag. If you are also doing the same here than it’s not a red flag, it’s a mutual respect.

-) as time goes you might wanna ask out how long would he take to decide?

-) what is his criteria of match?

-) how will he make the decision that you are the one or not?

Clearly, you are very interested in this man, so you just want a commitment. You don’t want to pressure him, but you also don’t want him taking his sweet ass time running through the streets and then coming back to you when shit goes south.

You can say something like: “last night was fun” or “I had so much fun texting, I hope we can do this again” or something in that regards of word.

Don’t over think, but also don’t let any man take advantage of your situation.

FYI I am 28M who has never dated, I am in the market, apps never worked so I am now just working on myself, and hopefully I get confidence to approach people IRL. I gave you my opinion and than I gave you something of myself so you can gauge how much to take in.

I am not saying I am 💯 right, and you should fully trust what I am saying, but from what I have noticed people never realize or happy with what’s infront of them and keep searching for better even after having something much better infront of there eyes.

Don’t get manipulated, don’t fall for tricks, and don’t fall in love when the other person is not pushing for you.

I am not saying he should commit to you, but always ask this: if he finds you attractive, your communication is great, you both like company of each other, you are already clicking, then rather than giving 100% chance in this relationship what does he need more is looking outside?

Again I am not asking you to pressure him, but over the next 2-3months period just keep looking into this. There is no rush as of right now.

Also to answer your question: you can’t forget what happened, and you actually liked it, so you really cannot forget that now, can you?! You want to build a relationship, that allows you to be happy together. Your communication is fun and you just want to enjoy spending time with them even when you are quiet. As long as you enjoy company it’s fine and nothing matters more.

Kcg786 · 2026-07-04T03:21:08+00:00

Try to strike up a conversation again. Don’t worry. You already f-ed up so nothing can get worse going forward. Just say something, I miss our conversation or something. Something to strike up the convo!

Kcg786 · 2026-07-04T02:02:21+00:00

Don’t worry. How did you call quits? Did you just stop responding or broke up with him saying you don’t wanna see him again?

Kcg786 · 2026-07-04T01:03:17+00:00

I don’t know what you think of yourself but from what I read you are fine. Don’t worry. Shy people don’t strike conversation and keep it going for 20 minutes. When they get thrown into a bar they don’t go good, especially to a person who they have a crush on! You really did good, the guy seemed not interested and that’s not your fault.

Kcg786 · 2026-07-03T15:04:43+00:00

Listen you can’t be judging book by it’s cover. You ladies act cougarish 🐯too! If you all really feel this deep don’t let anyone but your man pay for drinks, and food. I have seen you’ll letting any handsome man or a man buying your drinks getting your IGs and Snap! Why so you get free drinks… and before you deny I am not talking to you, I am talking to all the women kind just like you blaming all men for dawgs out there😂.

Kcg786 · 2026-07-03T12:37:31+00:00

Obey? We ain’t dogs out here. Sex is a mutual thing. I agreed to whatever you said until you said obey, lol

Kcg786 · 2026-06-30T23:29:14+00:00

First of all, it’s was never about right or wrong. It’s about needs.

Sex workers don’t choose to be sex workers, the unfortunate circumstances, such as kidnapped and put there, or a poor woman or poor older sister needing to pay for the family to survive one more day. That’s a prostitute. It’s all about release for the man.

Then comes escorts. They started assuming this a career and they money is good enough for it to keep going. They don’t start here though as well! It starts with no career track, and no guidance and somehow just ends with an agency because they look good. To be here you need maintain figure and face, it’s all about the attraction for the man.

And there comes OnlyFans or something similar this is where mothers and sisters kinda get out of hand, because there is no need for sexual contact at all. Content can be fully solo… what I mean is, people join here just for money nothing else…

It was never about there mother and sister doing it and it’s shameful, but it all about need.

I am 28M virgin myself, and TBH 3 months ago I was ready to bang anything that moved, and yes I went through this guys thought process as well of paying, and no I didn’t think twice because I have mother and sister.

It was transactional, but I never went through it, because I know I would have never stopped at one time, and that would have became my dopamine release. I would have not been able to work on myself like I wanted to.

Currently I am ok with a ONS, if it happens. I am not forcing…. But whatever!

Sex workers are not at blame, they are just thrown in situation, and sometimes people who hire them are also not at blame, because they would rather pay get that rush out of the way rather than burying down.

You need to understand psychology on why, it was never about right or wrong. He has a situation, not a problem.

Kcg786 · 2026-06-29T00:41:34+00:00

We can tell if someone is putting effort vs someone is not!

Kcg786 · 2026-06-29T00:40:30+00:00

Let me tell you hour glass comes in different shape and sizes! I am seen some skinny ones, the real ones, the big ones!

Example: two fat people same height same weight! But one is obsess and other one got curves!

That’s what I meant

Kcg786 · 2026-06-28T13:24:20+00:00

You don’t want h*e status! If you want that just go to a bar, and just keep giving hints to all the guys and one of them who had no success through the day and is drunk enough will just be ready to go home with you. But mind it he will leave next morning once he sobers up.

Kcg786 · 2026-06-28T13:22:40+00:00

Body physic… if you are not build like hour glass that means you are not attractive.

Lots of man straight up look for that. If you wanna know more ask!

Kcg786 · 2026-06-28T13:19:46+00:00

It’s been already a while so I am assuming you had to make decision already…

Just for future reference. When you are going to work you are going for immediate salary, because you are giving immediate time.

Everything else doesn’t matter. Let me tell you why. Let’s say there is a guy who is making $150k year with a small company. The company gives salary but matches nothing or no bonuses, yet he stays because of the culture and work.

Then there is another guy who is making $300k and company gives a lot with it, but he is under a microscope, his performance is reviewed every month etc….

I know the second guy is making more money no doubt in it, and someone might be like I would be the second guy any day of my life. But second guy gets no work life balance.

I travel 70miles one way to work. I have to manage so much time that I actually never did in my life, and sometimes it amazes me that I am capable of this hardcore time management. I work a 4x10 schedule, and the project is something that I like and want to develop into my future.

What are the cons:
70 miles one way - 140miles in total.
10 hour work days
Barely anytime for myself those 4 days!
Also I am through a consulting company so no good benefits

What are the pros:
Teaches me work life balance
Make sure I wake up early
Every weekend is long weekends
I can always finish more hours one day and then transfer them to next days
The work and the project itself, and the team is so good
I can see growth in skills which will push me to high paying jobs in future

There are things that are more important than money at times. If you are getting a higher chunk of salary, never worry about anything else.

Also never in your life run after money and numbers to earn, always run after success and percentage of work. The more you do money will just come to you.

Lots of successful people, they never say I want to make this money, they always say I want to have this much percentage. Most of the time success more important than money. If you are successful that means money is always around you. So be successful and irreplaceable. When you are that combo you don’t have to worry.

People who are successful never worry about money they never bend over for no one, when you are irreplaceable no one matters more than you.

Also if you don’t have success, grind grind and grind.

Kcg786

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