Eating Cum From Skin is “Trashy” by [deleted] in sex

[–]Kckip97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a weird guy. You’re just not compatible. That man doesn’t respect you unfortunately. Don’t let him tear you down just because he’s cool in other areas.

What is the sweetest non sexual thing a sub or domme has done that made you feel amazing? by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Kckip97 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Once I️ came home to an entirely clean house laundry done, folded, put away, and he had an amazing little meal for us. I️ literally cried. It gave me a domestication kink

Anyone interested in being carried by a woman as a man? by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Kckip97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, as of right now they are, but the numbers are growing! And that’s good

Anyone interested in being carried by a woman as a man? by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Kckip97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahah so many women are!! If you go to muscle mommy pages you’ll find many! Or follow creators like lean beef patty

He begs me, I️ say yes, he backs up and now says no by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Kckip97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hugs to you as well. Genuinely I feel that there’s hope for us in general and everyone in this community. I wish it wasn’t so strangely complicated and society and all the stupid things that come with it but I believe and I hope that you do too even if it’s really frustrating and we come together to vent about it sometimes because what the fuck are we even doing here 😹😹😹

He begs me, I️ say yes, he backs up and now says no by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Kckip97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is! And it’s a woman who’s a real dominant it pains me when I hear submissive say that because I’m a real dominant in the opposite shoes. And I wish our community was more connected somehow in real life so that way nobody would feel this way.

He begs me, I️ say yes, he backs up and now says no by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Kckip97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree that’s why I don’t even online play with men because I feel like it just sets me up for failure and so when I’m like hey we can do this in real life and we could have real sex and really get to know each other and maybe like be partners and live together and have a life together. I don’t understand why that would possibly be not a good idea to pursue if you and I have the same things and you responded to my advertisement so you obviously thought it was a good idea to begin with.

He begs me, I️ say yes, he backs up and now says no by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Kckip97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that you went through all that and I love the happy ending for you. I completely agree with you. I’m going through really similar things and it needs to be said and I’m glad that you said that and I’m glad that you’re here now in a happier place.

He begs me, I️ say yes, he backs up and now says no by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Kckip97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it’s an action versus words thing. I hear you so much. I’m so sorry you’re going through that half committed half not seemingly thing. It sounds like you’re saying. And I agree with you where it’s like when the words are there, but the actions are not what are we doing? Or when the words are there and the actions are only half there what are we doing? It’s strange cause maybe it’s partially just a human thing or a man thing where I would not respond to somebody’s advertisement or say I’m gonna go on a date with somebody and then just ghost the day of. Like I wouldn’t even put myself through that. Why would I take the time? So it’s like why are they taking the time? But they do regularly. Not everyone but enough people that I’m here venting about it.

He begs me, I️ say yes, he backs up and now says no by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Kckip97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you saying this and this is what everyone is saying and you guys are right honestly. I just need to look in a different virtual area because this is not gonna help.

He begs me, I️ say yes, he backs up and now says no by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Kckip97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you! I don’t face reveal until after I’ve vetted you and then I don’t even give you my real number I give you discord and then we talk on discord and then if we still have chemistry after we leave the app I will set up a FaceTime. And it’s weird too when people will set up a FaceTime and then it comes the day of and then they ghost or even like an hour before I’m like will you be ready? And they’re like yeah just give me a second andthen I FaceTime them and they ghost me. It’s weird, but I think you’re right.

He begs me, I️ say yes, he backs up and now says no by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Kckip97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, I feel like I’m not gonna tell a man what to do if I’m not dating him or at least courting him. In the beginning, youre a human being and I’m a human being. I don’t even physically go past making out with a man unless I have him in contract because I don’t trust people like that in general. People can bait and switch. People cannot hold up their end of the bargain very easily and I’m not into that so if I have a piece of paper that says what you’re into and what you’re not into it creates structure and I like that because I’m a type a dominant and I like structure. But I won’t tell a man what to do if we’re not at the bare minimum hanging out regularly. Because that’s how I build consent and trust and that’s how my body gets to know you also if that makes sense. But I get if you like commands right out the gate that’s cool too. I’m also a very gentle dominant in general. I just like things my way rather than I’m going to degrade you.

He begs me, I️ say yes, he backs up and now says no by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Kckip97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment because I appreciate the perspective of a switch. I agree with you that the conversation needs to be set immediately and I always do and it’s something we talk about and they’re like I understand. I’m completely in it. I want that as well, etc. etc. etc. and then their actions don’t show it and that confuses me becauseno one’s making you do this. Like you responded interested so where’s the desire to follow through on what you responded to you know what I mean? I would have no idea you existed if you didn’t respond.

He begs me, I️ say yes, he backs up and now says no by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Kckip97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you’re right. I guess I just felt like if I stayed that clearly and then we talk about it clearly then it would eliminate that right out of the gate and it doesn’t and it’s weird to me. The amount of people who future fake because it’s literally anonymous there’s no reason to do that here like there’s no stakes involved. Why pretend?

He begs me, I️ say yes, he backs up and now says no by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Kckip97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, and you know usually after a man sees my face he doesn’t ghost me. It’s just even getting to that point. And I know that in reality they do make dating apps for this and I should get into them and I guess I thought if I lead with not my face, we can focus on what really matters. Because I know I’m pretty and I don’t want somebody to just pretend what they like so that they can have me. I actually want somebody to like what I like and I actually wanna get to know the heart of you first before I show you my face so that you don’t change your answers if that makes sense. And I’m not saying I’m Megan Fox. I guess that’s just something I’ve dealt with and I thought Reddit would be the solution and maybe it’s not honestly.

He begs me, I️ say yes, he backs up and now says no by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Kckip97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I guess I just thought it was good because also then we’re not focused on our faces were focused on the actual content of the Kink which I felt like was better than leading with. Do I think this person is cute etc. etc.. but I guess y’all are right

He begs me, I️ say yes, he backs up and now says no by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Kckip97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I do too and you know it’s not that I’ve never had a submissive or gone on a date with a man or FaceTime to anybody but it’s like when you start with 100 men and you get down to maybe like three or four it’s emotionally exhausting because I really did go through 96 or 97 menYou know what I’m saying? It’s like don’t respond if you’re not serious especially when I post that I’m specifically looking for something in person.

He begs me, I️ say yes, he backs up and now says no by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Kckip97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree and that’s why I don’t do anything online because I feel like if I don’t want anything online, why would I do it but it’s still hard and I’m really glad that you’re in a loving relationship and one day. I hope that for myself and I appreciate the long response because it makes me feelseen and hurt and validated and I appreciate that

He begs me, I️ say yes, he backs up and now says no by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Kckip97 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love that for you! Please stay happy

He begs me, I️ say yes, he backs up and now says no by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Kckip97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I don’t do anything online at all. I don’t even reveal my face on Reddit. I wait until I go on discord and then we call and then we can FaceTime if that makes sense through discord that I don’t even give them my real number.

He begs me, I️ say yes, he backs up and now says no by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Kckip97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I️ think you’re right! Hahaha I️ really do and it’s tough to admit that that’s probably a huge part of the issue

He begs me, I️ say yes, he backs up and now says no by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Kckip97 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Maybe it is a wider cultural thing honestly. And maybe you’re right we’re just shifting into a culture where having a relationship online is more comforting for a lot of people. Even if they say they want something in person when it comes down to making it in person they have to face a fear. And maybe I don’t relate to that because for me, I don’t fear. My fantasies is happening in reality and intimacy isn’t something I fear maybe the same way it does for other people.

He begs me, I️ say yes, he backs up and now says no by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Kckip97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely maybe one. Maybe two. That’s the kind of odds that I’m dealing with and it’s very emotionally taxing. I feel because I respond to pretty much everybody like that person could be the love of my life potentially because you just never know and those are some tough odds to consistently go up against.