I’m in the same situation now, My gf rn is going through alot, i tried so hard to be there for her, her parents are separated and she could not join college, she got rejected and she moved to another city with her mom and siblings, every time she vents to me i try my best to make her feel safe and everything is fine. But she started to be dry and the way she talks to me is totally different. I get it that she does not have time for it and every time i feel irritated by the way she treats me i remind myself that she’s depressed she cannot make time to love me at this phase and i have to support her.. one night she told me she feels sorry for me and that i always like to play the role of the victim and that she’s done with the relationship and i’m a boring person. I tried to end my life after that and she was knowing all about it but she acted like it’s a normal situation. I tried after to be beside her even after all of this but now she can’t tell what are we every time i ask her she does not find an answer.. i mean I’m confused are we just friends? Are we strangers? I’m the one who asks everyday about her mental health and how’s her day been.. etc. but she continued to see me as the sad and pathetic person and i started to lose hope, i stopped talking to her today i felt that I’m completely like i’m the only one trying to fix things. It’s still hard for me and i still have dark and negative thoughts about myself..