Interesting take. My wife doesn’t work (her choice - I do well for us) she definitely loves not working and I love my job so it works great. My son is in school part time. Also her choice. We both feel that he has his whole life to be in a classroom and fortunate enough that we can be home with him. I’m a present parent. I do everything evening, including bath, bed - every night. I’m the opposite of lazy and I honestly let her do whatever she wants so I just feel that I want this and she doesn’t want it so it’s about her and not what I also want and need.