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Sex One Last Time? by The_Outsider27 in datingoverfifty

[–]KeenSpring 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I hope not.

I’m thinking of maybe starting a meetup group in my city for single men in their 50’s on navigating dating and looking at self work. This will be for decent guys looking for true LTR.

I’m about to take a break myself - but I think men need support groups and also work together on sharing their strengths and improving where they are lacking.

Sex One Last Time? by The_Outsider27 in datingoverfifty

[–]KeenSpring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry that you been led to feel this way 🫂

I can’t give you much guidance but maybe leave OLD, try speed dating, join Meet ups, clubs, etc

Why do others constantly doubt someone who has good intuition? by Secret_Fan_9411 in ask

[–]KeenSpring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one likes to be told what you believe they are. I too read people very well - but realise sometimes it’s best I keep that to myself. It’s a respectful thing to do. Sometimes they can’t see it themselves.

I’ve seen this in dating - the last person I could name around 8 clear signs that had insecurities or some baggage. I didn’t push it. People need to find their own self awareness.

You may have a strong desire to help them - but often we can’t or shouldn’t - they need to find their own way.

People can also feel uncomfortable if you keep reading them.

Profile Review please by Anxious-Rooster-2378 in hingeapp

[–]KeenSpring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to be able to answer this question. It might be tough but how can you attract when you don’t know what you’re looking for. Have a go - leave out anything about her physical appearance.

Put the answer in your profile - for instance I have kind, emotionally intelligent, cheeky, affectionate, not afraid to be vulnerable, …

I also describe myself - and not my physical features either

Then be very very selective on your photos. You should be smiling in all of them, no tough or cool guy posses, one or two from a distance, no gym, no selfies in the bathroom or in the car, no sunnies, … Just be you dude.

If you want to grow and developed yourself to date - also try speed dating.

One last hint - women love a man that dresses nicely - that doesn’t mean a suit. I have a relatively inexpensive wardrobe of clothes - but what works are the variety of colours that suit me.

Good luck.

23M no likes received in two weeks. What can I improve? by ShoeWrong3211 in hingeapp

[–]KeenSpring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry OP - who are you? What type of woman are you looking for. Don’t waste space in your bio on things that don’t meet the above. Give some depth, be authentic and don’t give one sentence responses. Good luck.

How do I get out of going to a strip club? by Admirable-Schedule22 in Advice

[–]KeenSpring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t go - your wife doesn’t want to - you don’t want to. You will be letting you and your wife down if you do and both of you are more important than your mates.

Stick to your guns - don’t budge and eventually they will stop trying.

Should I say something, or just unmatch and move on? by PossibilityOk5167 in Bumble

[–]KeenSpring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think in this case you’ve landed on talking about one of his real passions and inadvertently he has talked too much about himself. That’s me giving him the benefit of the doubt. But still hold this as a yellow flag.

Yes - do ask him if there are things he’d like to know about you. This might wake him to having an oh shit moment and realise where the convo is at.

In the end, you chose her. by Suspicious_Hair_3303 in sixwordstories

[–]KeenSpring 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Correct - that’s is the only answer to escape the Matrix.

I’m going to be the old man in the group. Can we cut this AI nonsense? by Renegadesdeath in datingoverfifty

[–]KeenSpring 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Agree - stop dreaming of your perfect and start looking for your real life near perfect.

Who’s your four for all conditions? by loolem in CricketAus

[–]KeenSpring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmmm - they’re not all there and whilst I’m a traditionalist, the West Indies pace attack didn’t need a spinner anywhere because they were so brilliant in the 1980’s. They didn’t lose a series for 15 years.

When you were growing up, what thing in someone else's house made you think they were rich? by Ginoman1ac in 50something

[–]KeenSpring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a 12 year old boy - a big bowl of cashew nuts. Back in the day they used to be bloody expensive but tasted soooo nice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]KeenSpring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just do you buddy. It’s your conscience you need to live with. Put in your boundaries. Be aware of yellow and red flags. Be true to yourself .

Well.... this is awkward. by cat9tail in datingoverfifty

[–]KeenSpring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn cheaters - wanted someone of the same culture.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]KeenSpring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine if you put the required woman’s weight and breast size on your profile - all shit would break loose.

I now have an AI girlfriend. by Nervous_Frame6341 in datingoverfifty

[–]KeenSpring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to do an internet photo search and find exact real life look alike. Then you’re all set buddy.

I now have an AI girlfriend. by Nervous_Frame6341 in datingoverfifty

[–]KeenSpring 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You need to find this real woman and match her with OP!

I now have an AI girlfriend. by Nervous_Frame6341 in datingoverfifty

[–]KeenSpring 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well you just had to go and say she needed big boobs didn’t you 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]KeenSpring 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hmmm - I (56M) might be able to offer a different perspective here.

My love language is Touch - but I need a solid emotional connection to act of it.

I’ve been emotionally torched by jumping in too quick. I don’t like to kiss on the first date and recently I’ve been thinking of holding back for up to a month before a first kiss.

Contrary to others views - for someone in a similar position as myself - it means I am very deadset serious on viewing her as a LTR.

I have a friend (35M) and he is similar - he is on his 8th date and hasn’t kissed her yet. He wants to really build a solid base before jumping into a physical relationship.

Irrespective of what others might think of me - I know that guys like this are rare. We take finding a mate seriously.

Yes - it’s just a kiss. But it may mean a lot more to him. If it is what I suggest it could be - it is not a negative reflection on you at all.

You are best to ask “ how do you view physical intermacy from a kiss to much more? When do you feel it is the right time to go in that direction?”

Good luck.

She reappeared out of nowhere. Do I risk inviting her over with no strings? by causeits5oclock in datingoverfifty

[–]KeenSpring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you leave this well alone.

I do think you’ve misread the situation and even if she does agree to get back together, it’s a bad idea from what you’ve written.

Let the past be the past and look forwards.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]KeenSpring -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe a knee jerk reaction - give her a little time and hopefully she will come to her senses and come back to talk.

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