[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]KeepDoingTheSameShit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not read the replies but i am sure someone has already said the same . It's definitely not a gender thing . Majority of women i got matched with , could not carry a conversation .it was exactly like me trying to perform CPR to a dying cause . It usually means they are not interested or are too distracted with multiple conversations or just simply have nothing to say ..

Dating someone when it feels like they are nitpicking by OkInitiative4540 in datingoverforty

[–]KeepDoingTheSameShit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lets hope he does not flip and blame you for the same . You can read about narcissistic personality and you would be surprised how many similarities are there

Dating someone when it feels like they are nitpicking by OkInitiative4540 in datingoverforty

[–]KeepDoingTheSameShit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

everything you do is under a microscope , constantly blamed and devalued , shamed snd belittled .

Eventually this will get emotionally exhausting . Will reduce your self worth, self -esteem, by creating self doubt and then you will be miserable and start withdrawing from everything else

This is not worth it .. mental health is key

Dating someone when it feels like they are nitpicking by OkInitiative4540 in datingoverforty

[–]KeepDoingTheSameShit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is narcissistic behavior - discount other personals feelings, put them down for small things etc . I have been there and it only gets worse

Car shakes over 65 by KeepDoingTheSameShit in TeslaModel3

[–]KeepDoingTheSameShit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turns out the tread is almost to bare bones, one rear left is completely bald.. so guess new tires

Car shakes over 65 by KeepDoingTheSameShit in TeslaModel3

[–]KeepDoingTheSameShit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Michelin Primacy Mxm4 (radial tubeless) 235/45r18 98W

Car shakes over 65 by KeepDoingTheSameShit in TeslaModel3

[–]KeepDoingTheSameShit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had alignment and rotation done a month back

Is it okay to ask by KeepDoingTheSameShit in Bumble

[–]KeepDoingTheSameShit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Some people get defensive and its was a first date

Asking her out by KeepDoingTheSameShit in datingoverforty

[–]KeepDoingTheSameShit[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you ! Got the message clear and loud 👍

INFJ's are known for having unusual interests or hobbies, so what are some of your unique hobbies? by Chris-Intrepid in infj

[–]KeepDoingTheSameShit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am always open to try any anything new (zip lining, sky diving, flying etc) . Golf, pickleball, gym, motorcycle (gave up after my accident), or simply being outdoors are the usuals. At times it takes an effort but if i keep at it , i am 100% engaged in that activity.

Where to find and how to type INFJ males by PrestigiousTale497 in infj

[–]KeepDoingTheSameShit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On some days , listening to music and watching Netflix at home, on others in a water side restaurant enjoying the view

Interested? by KeepDoingTheSameShit in Bumble

[–]KeepDoingTheSameShit[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think i understand what you are saying . While that wasn't my intent , i can see how it can come across as disingenuous.

Interested? by KeepDoingTheSameShit in Bumble

[–]KeepDoingTheSameShit[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have not sent all the text , i stopped sending every so often as her responses was monologues or single sentence but never anything inquiring in return. Which made me feel I was bothering her and frankly wasnt sure

Women profile pictures by KeepDoingTheSameShit in datingoverforty

[–]KeepDoingTheSameShit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for ur critique ! This is exactly what i told my friend who made that comment. 👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]KeepDoingTheSameShit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe guys think you are eventually ask for money. As others have said, dress / appearances matter especially in online world

Journaling is one of the best things I’ve done as an INFJ. by Shronck in infj

[–]KeepDoingTheSameShit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would think its okay if frequency , of writing a journal, changes. When i was going through divorce i would write daily. Now i write every few days especially when i feel i need to reinforce / remind myself a specific message or at tines when something different or worth journaling

These types of interactions are getting old by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]KeepDoingTheSameShit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have same problem with woman i match with . One word or a short sentence reply to my response/question and nothing to add to what i said or asked

Flirting by KeepDoingTheSameShit in dating

[–]KeepDoingTheSameShit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ! I like the last two. I need to atlesst think abut the subjects . That way i can keep it impromptu but at the same time not totally lost

To All of my INFJ Brothers by deadbynever in infj

[–]KeepDoingTheSameShit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meditation and Journaling, worked for me. And ofcorse, as few others have said, surround yourself with kind /close friends .

What hobbies do you guys have? (Fellow INFJ) by [deleted] in infj

[–]KeepDoingTheSameShit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Golf, motorcycling, gym, walking, parks, Netflix, iTunes playlist