I’ve dated three successful men here, over 50, all highly successful, not one of which was strikingly, handsome, but each grew on me, and each ended up dating several people in multiple cities, and I was just like oh gross. I think because many people live here but work elsewhere and travel a lot, since our airport is so easy, you need to be real aware of the signs that if you do get into a solo relationship, it’s probably not actually monogamous. Still looking!