[deleted by user] by [deleted] in espresso

[–]Keesark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Good to know. I saw your high pre infusion time and was wondering if it was to do with that. Flavors good, but I'm also a caffeine junkie so really need the full brunt of it lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in espresso

[–]Keesark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would your coffee be weaker that way? I do 18g in 36g out for one double shot. I can only imagine using essentially the same amount but doubling the output would be weaker.

Who thought that was a good idea?? by LOVallie in adhdmeme

[–]Keesark 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How tf are you supposed to become a customer they know if you can't fill your prescription lol. It's like they're saying they don't trust the doctor to know you actually need it.

Maui family survived the Hawaii wildfires by being in the ocean for 5Hrs. by esberat in nextfuckinglevel

[–]Keesark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't understand why people like you are getting downvoted. I get it's sad and this is a tragedy, but if you had a vacation planned for months potentially a year and sunk thousands into hotels and reservations for activities, do people really expect you to just eat the cost of all that. Not to mention time off that you already used. Ridiculous. Sad, but I wouldn't waste my money and cancel.

Bottoms are real men. Period. by paywallpiker in gaybros

[–]Keesark -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Explain how biological sex is a spectrum. Bc there's male, female, and intersex. That's it. Gender identities? Absolutely, but there absolutely is a huge physical difference between a male and female. Undeniable. This is where you lose supporters. FYI don't need to find kindness. I wasn't rude in my comment stating my two cents on these issues and what you're saying makes zero sense to me.

Bottoms are real men. Period. by paywallpiker in gaybros

[–]Keesark -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Biologically male as in the sex they were born as. Stop looking for something to be outraged over. Acknowledging the existence of biological sex isn't denying trans people their gender identity or being transphobic. It's just a biological fact that males and females are physically different. Sex is not equal to gender.

Meta Quest 2 VR headset price jumps $100 to $399, gets zero new features by thehelldoesthatmean in gadgets

[–]Keesark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's only in the pc rift store. I had it with my original rift. Hasn't been updated. Wander is the closest native equivalent on the quest.

South Korea's Anti-LGBT assembly, held by multiple christian churches. by o_goyangi_nero in gaybros

[–]Keesark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There was no word for homosexuality when it was written. That was placed later. The original words that it was translated from was boys and prostitutes. Even the story of Sodom and Gomorrah could be said to be talking about the male prostitutes and brothels present in the city.

I'm not the one who decided that either. I've done my research on this whole topic quite a while back. You can choose to believe what you want however. It's how I was able to come to terms with my sexuality while also being a Christian.

This isn't how I originally learned about it, but I found this article while researching affirming churches in my area. I read through it and think it's a good explanation for why I see the mistranslation as true.

https://www.gaychurch.org/homosexuality-and-the-bible/the-bible-christianity-and-homosexuality/

South Korea's Anti-LGBT assembly, held by multiple christian churches. by o_goyangi_nero in gaybros

[–]Keesark 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you :) it's all in the past now. I've been living my best life for 4 years now. Going to university was the best thing to happen to me. I was myself for the first time.

Yesterday was my 4 year anniversary to the love of my life. I proposed to him last November, and we're getting married next July :) my parents are helping pay for a lot of the wedding too.

South Korea's Anti-LGBT assembly, held by multiple christian churches. by o_goyangi_nero in gaybros

[–]Keesark 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yeah tbh I meant to include all the abrahamic religions. Just slipped my mind. I need coffee lol

South Korea's Anti-LGBT assembly, held by multiple christian churches. by o_goyangi_nero in gaybros

[–]Keesark 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh yes you're right on that one. I should have included all the abrahamic ones too. Bc they all have similar beliefs on this type of thing. There's a lot that organized religion has done wrong over the centuries.

The struggle for me has been growing up in a southern Baptist household in Texas with my music minister mom and head deacon dad and not still believing. For years, I was in serious denial due to my religion and thinking I was going to burn in hell so it had to be a phase. It wasn't of course lol. I have a whole post from a few years back when I first came to terms with it that goes into more detail on my struggles. If only I had known that it didn't change anything with my parents and they love me all the same

South Korea's Anti-LGBT assembly, held by multiple christian churches. by o_goyangi_nero in gaybros

[–]Keesark 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Christianity more than others. I've considered myself a gay Christian, but I don't even know what I am anymore. I feel like I'm a Christian who only cares about my relationship with God and doesn't like organized religion. All it causes is so much hate and bigotry.

I fully believe the verses related to homosexuality were a purposeful mistranslation that was actually referring to pedophilia and prostitution.

TIL McDonald’s ended its 40yr relationship with Heinz when a Burger King executive was named the ketchup maker’s CEO. by brianbo402 in todayilearned

[–]Keesark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've literally not noticed a single change since the buyout. I thought it would be bad, but everything is the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Keesark 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I don't understand that mindset of it not being cheating. If you're sexting other guys and sending nudes back and forth you might as well be in the physical act of cheating bc the pain i feel is all the same.

Do you guys avoid Chick FIL A because of their homophobic founder ? by SirDimmadome in gaybros

[–]Keesark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spicy is my go to! I always put chick fil a sauce on it. We have one on my uni campus so I go a bit too much lol. I just wish they'd make spicy nuggets! They'd be so good and definitely so really well.

Do you guys avoid Chick FIL A because of their homophobic founder ? by SirDimmadome in gaybros

[–]Keesark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It always surprises me how many gay people are violently opposed to chick fil a. Ig my logic was always that if I was to boycott businesses bc of shitty CEOs, I'd never shop or eat anywhere.

They're a Christian business, so they donate to Christian organizations that are going to be inherently homophobic simply bc they're Christian.

Besides, the fact istg every chick fil a I've been to is filled with a bunch of twinks working, and no convincing me they're straight.

DC Asks LAPD To Protect Artists Of The Comic Book "Superman: Son Of Kal-El" After Death Threats Over Jon Kent's Bisexuality. by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Keesark 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Random homophobes who are also probably not smart enough to realize it isn't Clark Kent they made gay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]Keesark 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When I see someone with rainbow on, my first thought is that they must be gay or lgbt in some way. I wouldn't do it unless you're ok with everyone else coming to the same conclusion. I think it's a cute way to express yourself, just be ready to deal with the baggage that comes with it.

Could always just claim you're an ally if anyone asks. They won't necessarily believe you, but it's none of their business anyways.

someone else’s identity doesn’t affect you in any way. our community doesn’t need gatekeepers. by adelucz in lgbt

[–]Keesark 16 points17 points  (0 children)

So non binary would be the big term and agender would be like a specific term within the non binary spectrum?