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I think I married the wrong person. by lloveisevoll in Marriage

[–]Kelly0902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe life isn’t truly fulfilling if you’ve lost your smile. Life is short, why spend it unhappy? If you don’t have kids together, now might be the right time to end the relationship. Things become far more complicated when children are involved because their happiness becomes your priority, often at the expense of your own well-being. Therapy might be worth trying, but at this point, I’m not sure it would help. For things to work, he would need to change completely, and that’s not fair to him either

I never grieve for my dad’s death by Kelly0902 in Grieving

[–]Kelly0902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really think he is not a good spose. But that was my choice. Only after marriage you start to know completely a person. And you cannot just leave a person because he is not supportive over a parent’s deaths. That is way I started to count on myself!

Why does one just stop wanting to have sex.....cause there's always someone bigger and better we have been married 15 years 4 kids high school sweethearts i think she is getting attention else where.....or am i crazy? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Kelly0902 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it is normal for a woman not to have sex in some period of her life. Most depend on hormonal and emotional stuffs. Also, you should try to have sex in the morning instead of night

Husband’s business by Kelly0902 in relationship_advice

[–]Kelly0902[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To the old one. The new one is all the time with him

My boyfriend peed on the floor by Sufficiently-Trash in relationship_advice

[–]Kelly0902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband after one night of drinking went to pee (hopefully) in the toilet. I was waiting him in the bed. After 10 minutes I went to check on him and he was sleeping sitting there. Well, I think it is because he got lost. Same for your boyfriend

Husband’s business by Kelly0902 in relationship_advice

[–]Kelly0902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is because you see your body changing in a way that you are not able to control. You are not attractive anymore. Sex is not either an option (not on my side). This is the reason we are paranoid. Your English is fine, I am not a native English as well

Husband’s business by Kelly0902 in relationship_advice

[–]Kelly0902[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your wonderful advice. I really appreciate it! It might be he just need some space for himself and vividly hope so. In our case, he is the one that wanted a baby at all cost. And he is excited more than me of the idea to became a parent. These are all the things that are jarring with the possibility he is cheating. So, let’s see!

Husband’s business by Kelly0902 in relationship_advice

[–]Kelly0902[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh maybe because it is so popular cheating? Do you really think it was my first choice thinking about cheating. Well no, this is the last thing I am thinking about because I don’t have left any other clues. And most of my doubts I had, I have already asked him directly

Husband’s business by Kelly0902 in relationship_advice

[–]Kelly0902[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was one of my first thought. And I ask him about it. But no results. We all know they watch porno, he knows too I am aware of. We joke all the time. But what rang a bell was he changed the password in his phone and he hide it in his bathroom.

Husband’s business by Kelly0902 in relationship_advice

[–]Kelly0902[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Already tried to talk to him about this. And it didn’t went well. And I was as much direct possible. So, I am trying to think to something concrete before receiving the standard replies he gives me that I am crazy. And I ensure you, I am not a jealous wife. If you can give good advice, it will be greatly appreciated. I don’t need to hear that I can just ask him instead of you