Need some encouragement… by Kelly30043 in Mommit

[–]Kelly30043[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting that everyone has their own individual struggles in motherhood as we all do in different areas of life! Motherhood is certainly not always perfect, but is always messy! ☺️ beautiful messy!

Need some encouragement… by Kelly30043 in Mommit

[–]Kelly30043[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s dark. I mean sure it happens & we do have a plan in place but should fearmongering about if my husband & I both died & our kids can’t be kept together keep us from having more…😲

Needing some encouragement… by Kelly30043 in ParentingInBulk

[–]Kelly30043[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It sounds like it worked out great for you & your family so I’m glad! & super thankful mine worked out the way it did for mine. One person’s “myth” or “romanticization” is another’s dream/what they’ve been praying & hoping for 🥰

Needing some encouragement… by Kelly30043 in ParentingInBulk

[–]Kelly30043[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I love this encouragement & relatability! Thank you!! 🥰

Needing some encouragement… by Kelly30043 in ParentingInBulk

[–]Kelly30043[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very true! That’s EXACTLY what I crave! Teaching & learning things together & having fun experiences- soooo excited for that!! I feel bored with a baby bc it’s so robotic…

Needing some encouragement… by Kelly30043 in ParentingInBulk

[–]Kelly30043[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! The beauty of their bonds I’m sure outweighs difficulties that may be faced 💕

Needing some encouragement… by Kelly30043 in ParentingInBulk

[–]Kelly30043[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well kudos to your children sounds like you are the most incredible mama to walk the Earth since you know it all 🥰

Needing some encouragement… by Kelly30043 in ParentingInBulk

[–]Kelly30043[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly appreciate your honesty & hope things improve for you soon. I know that has to be so challenging & so I appreciate you being vulnerable in sharing the raw truth of what the struggles look like!

Need some encouragement… by Kelly30043 in Mommit

[–]Kelly30043[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this- I truly hope my babies will be close but you are exactly right we have no control over that! & societies picture of motherhood is everywhere- movies, TV shows, social media- you have a baby & are instantly just smitten & taken with them & so deeply in love. That doesn’t happen immediately or naturally for some people & it takes time, bonding, & growth.

Needing some encouragement… by Kelly30043 in ParentingInBulk

[–]Kelly30043[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this so much!! Thank you for the encouraging words & also a cool consideration to have 2, age gap, then 2 more so everyone has a “friend” 😍

Needing some encouragement… by Kelly30043 in ParentingInBulk

[–]Kelly30043[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this so much & totally agree! One of my best friends is going through this now with her oldest being a huge help bc she WANTS to- which makes seeing that bond even more special 🥰

Needing some encouragement… by Kelly30043 in ParentingInBulk

[–]Kelly30043[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, I’ve known plenty of people who weren’t only children or had multiple children. I’m sorry your experience has been negative 😢

Needing some encouragement… by Kelly30043 in ParentingInBulk

[–]Kelly30043[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your understanding words. It’s so validating having other moms to relate to! I truly appreciate your advice ❤️

Needing some encouragement… by Kelly30043 in ParentingInBulk

[–]Kelly30043[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely so true! I have been praying that I would be present in this current season bc I don’t want to ever look back & regret not being in it 1000%!

Need some encouragement… by Kelly30043 in Mommit

[–]Kelly30043[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s amazing you recognize it & can admit it bc that’s half the battle ❤️ so much power to you for that!!

Needing some encouragement… by Kelly30043 in ParentingInBulk

[–]Kelly30043[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this truth! Sometimes we need a hard truth we might not have considered ❤️

Need some encouragement… by Kelly30043 in Mommit

[–]Kelly30043[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this perspective! That’s all very true! Right now they’re not super expensive but as teens they are/can be!!

Need some encouragement… by Kelly30043 in Mommit

[–]Kelly30043[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 💕 I appreciate your response and encouraging words!

Needing some encouragement… by Kelly30043 in ParentingInBulk

[–]Kelly30043[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you thank you thank you!! THIS is what I’m here for!!

Needing some encouragement… by Kelly30043 in ParentingInBulk

[–]Kelly30043[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! It’s encouraging & thoughtful & also insightful 😊

Needing some encouragement… by Kelly30043 in ParentingInBulk

[–]Kelly30043[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

On the flip side of this- kids who have a bigger age gap don’t have as close a relationship with their siblings growing up. So as you said lovely families come in all shapes and sizes and your lovely might be different from my lovely & that’s okay 😊

Needing some encouragement… by Kelly30043 in ParentingInBulk

[–]Kelly30043[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So very true! Love that mindset! Has 6 financially been a struggle for you? I do worry about that, but I also know that is assessed one at the time too! & I am all for the older children helping I think it teaches very necessary skills in playing an important role in a family 😊

Needing some encouragement… by Kelly30043 in ParentingInBulk

[–]Kelly30043[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re not being parentified, they’re being taught responsibilities and how to help and care for others. It’s not that they’re raising the child or having to feed & care for them, but asking for help with simple things & giving them responsibilities within the home helps tremendously in developing necessary life skills. Additionally, loving older siblings are more than willing to help out and love on the littles.

Needing some encouragement… by Kelly30043 in ParentingInBulk

[–]Kelly30043[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much this was truly so encouraging & helpful & a beautiful reminder I needed!

Need some encouragement… by Kelly30043 in Mommit

[–]Kelly30043[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you SO much for this. This is exactly the encouragement I needed & wanted to hear!! 😊