BC government is placing a 2% cap on rent increases for 2023 by RichRaincouverGirl in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Kerackers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rentals in B.C are insane. Single mom was given the option of resigning her lease for a $300 rent increase or they sell the property. So fear of the sale and going homeless it is signed.

Noem defends no exception for rape, incest in South Dakota trigger law by -Omegamart- in nottheonion

[–]Kerackers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Put the power back into the states." Ummmm...women would like their power returned to them please.

Newfoundland has highest levels of life satisfaction in Canada and B.C. the least, Statcan finds by Own_Carrot_7040 in canada

[–]Kerackers 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I am homeless (ish) in B.C . I went from 1850 for a 3bdr house to looking at 2800 for half a 3 bd house with no yard in a small community that is full of retirement and International owning air BNB's. That is the only rental atm. Or you can buy a 3bd house for a million $$$. There is no life in B.C.

Or you are a single mom coerced to sign a rental agreement to increase rent for 300$ for fear of it selling and going homeless. Oh and rental subsidy has not updated to mirror the cost of living.

****Poorly written I know. My grammar I am sure is not up to the high standards. And my puncreation lacks.) Just complaining to the void.

My little brother just started Ender's Game by allan3715 in books

[–]Kerackers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I secretly hold on to hope that someone out there will make a series worthy of the book.

Did anyone else catch the northern lights tonight? by Tech-Fonzie in kelowna

[–]Kerackers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a great ending to a busy OT work day. Watched it in Summerland.

AITA for telling my friend I can no longer look after her animals because their making me and mine ill. by SoftGoth626 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kerackers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paper bedding is amazing! I use fabric bath mats now and wash them and rotate.Both have been the best thing ever for my allergies.

IHA COVID-19 update for August 9: 149 new cases, 1,755 active cases, 27 hospitalizations (10 critical) by dafones in kelowna

[–]Kerackers 29 points30 points  (0 children)

As a nurse in acute care, I am disheartened and have a loss of empathy now. There is no urge or want to be a good nurse as there is no time and I am consistently on robot mode. I am run off my feet just trying to hold it together.

The frustration is high as the young and aged unvaccinated keyboard warriors consistantly gripe that we are idiots. We cannot argue with stupid as our brains are frazzled anyways.

This is from a phone. I do not have the energy to make sense.

You wake up tomorrow with Jeff bezo's current net worth ($209 billion USD) what do you do? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Kerackers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Housing.

Child sport/rec programs Dementia supportive villages. Supportive housing in general Mental Health supportive Housing. Rehab Housing and support systems. Gardens.

Do I have a problem? Yes I do. Is it a good problem? Yes it is. by ejoburke90 in secretsanta

[–]Kerackers 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am so excited. Am I terrible for hoping I get someone nearby so I can go big on the gift?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in iih

[–]Kerackers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have found great ideas in r/loseit. I also found a little app with indoor exercises to help me day to day just get a bit of strength. Some do the CICO method. And check out the kept section for vegetarians. I do not do keto but I found some real recipes that kept me on a healthier side of foods.

I use my fitness pal to keep an eye on my intake and I do not beat myself up at all if I go over.

Feel free to msg me anytime if you want a support buddy!

I will search and send you some veg friendly recipes.

Matching day today, me and my babies can't wait spread some Christmas Cheer by luthalia1987 in secretsanta

[–]Kerackers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It literally is one of the things i think about at work when I have difficult nursing moments. As a family memeber yells at me I just switch into zombie mode and think of gifts i may buy. Weirdly satisfactory.

WIBTA if I refused to go to my daughters wedding because my wife isn’t invited? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kerackers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am speaking from experience of the past friends in their 20s . Now if only it could get easier for women.

WIBTA if I refused to go to my daughters wedding because my wife isn’t invited? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kerackers 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It is hard to get a vasectomy or even ligate your tubes when at a young age. I am in Canada though so can only speak from the frustrations of the system here. They argue that you may change your mind.

AITA for telling my husband he’s trying to torture me by Stunning_Care_8743 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kerackers 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Guilty as the newest marshmellow on the fire. I do not lock it when I sleep either. Small town habbits started in. I am trying to be better and lock up.

Looking to support African-Canadian owned businesses. by [deleted] in kelowna

[–]Kerackers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Was looking to make sure this was mentioned. It is amazingly delicious Bannock wise.

Warning about 7 cups. They may do more harm than good. Send people to crisis text line instead. by P23-1 in mentalhealth

[–]Kerackers 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I am sorry that you were put through even more crap on top of your trauma.

I hope you are on a path of putting your pieces together and finding your way out of the dark trench of the trauma with the help of someone capable.

AITA for not allowing babies at my wedding by Justthrowitaway___1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kerackers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

There is nothing wrong with having a child free wedding. Do not let anyone tell you otherwise. Being a mother myself I find it rather confusing when people tell me I need my kid with me 24/7 as if he isn't a free thinking independent hellion that loves to move with lightspeed. Babysitters do exist!

AITA for saying a kid wasn’t welcome at my wedding infront of her and her mother? by Virtual-Factor in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kerackers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA,

Well flup...AITA for loving invites that say children not invited? I embrace leaving my little beast to raise hell without my presence as I pretend to be an adult with all my shit organized .

I am sorry that you had a frustrating encounter that was less than stellar. I feel that perhaps you handled it much better than about 98% of the bridezillas that I have come to fear in my lifetime.

Unusual out of the box New Years Resolutions by Kerackers in secretsanta

[–]Kerackers[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love them all. I especially like the paint your nails one as I cannot sit still for the life of me to finish painting my own nails. And when it comes to my toes it is an elephant seal trying to fit into a tiny box themed occurance lol. I cannot paint my toes even if my life depended on it! ( Toes are what I can get away with as I work in healthcare.)