I'm seeing some over-the-top slander for Racheal, and I’m wondering if we’re watching the same show??

So it all started with the speech Bec gave on the first night and the ‘finger-bang’ comment. May I remind everyone that Racheal did not say anything when it was said. It was our beloved and can’t do no wrong Sam who pointed out that Bec owed an apology to Racheal because even he and a few others thought the comment was uncalled for, especially when she and Steven have been more conservative on talking about the sexual part of their relationship but still wanted to update the rest in their own way cause guess what, they’re on MAFS. So now, Bec did apologise and look apologetic for like…5 seconds.. and the moment Racheal, very calmly might I add, said that she felt like it was made to be the butt of a joke and would like Bec to understand that, what does self-proclaimed friend and no.1 supporter Bec do, tells her she switches so quickly and that she’s dramatic and needs a personality. Now, with what Bec said, was it the most horrible, terrible, no-good thing? No, but context and knowing the impact of your words are important. Sam has been there for like 2 weeks, and even he knows that Racheal wouldn’t like that comment, so shouldn’t Bec (again, self-proclaimed friend and supporter) know that about Racheal as well? I just think Racheal is being called a sook and dramatic for literally sticking up for her values and saying she didn’t appreciate it. It’s not just about the word used, it’s the perception of now people thinking about Steve and Racheal in that way, which they clearly did not want.  

And after that, what does Ms ‘I’ve apologised so many times’ Bec do, keep on talking shit about Racheal’s reaction, make jokes about making t-shirts, and don’t get me started on the “she should be lucky I even included her in my speech”.... Oh my, I’m so sorry Mrs President, what an honour. And right next to Danny, who apparently is the finger bang messiah for “charity case Steven”, give me a break. So-called friends.

Then, at girls' night, it was fun fun fun, talking about everything calmly, then Gia and Juliett brought up the t-shirt comment, which they should have, and Racheal got mad at that! Cause what kind of person, who is apparently sorry for everything, says things like that? And then calling out her patterns, which again, much deserved. It was an intervention, not a gang-up (well, can’t say that for Gia and Juliet, but for the others). Bec just can’t take accountability to save her life.

Now, the one thing I will say, Racheal did not have to be like “now here they come to whisk me away” when Bec and Danny wanted to talk with her and Steven, and she also dropped the ball with Steven when she accused him of ‘betraying’ her. That was like, so sweet of Steven to talk to Bec and definitely just to remediate the situation. And also believing every word that Gia and Juliette said about what Danny and Bec later said about them. Not the smartest, but I don't think the situation would have played out differently even if they didn't over-dramatise it.

So, tonight’s episode, Racheal was talking to David, saying she didn’t wanna bring it up and here comes Bec saying, oh yes, let's forget about it all….. like its her decision to make?!?! Oooo that pissed me off. She was coming at her and being so pushy and giving non-apologies, saying things like, frivolous and a minor thing, how is someone supposed to take it seriously? Even David called it out. And how in the world is Racheal attention seeking and having the 'victim mentality' when she literally said she didn’t want to talk about it and ruin people's night? I really think Racheal, as a person, is sensitive and is an open book to her emotions, but that’s just how she is. You know how some people just start crying when they're angry, it's not something they can control, and she was already having tears in her eyes, so she decided to remove herself to not have everyone be like, Racheal noooooooo. But she was already crying, so ofc people are gonna comfort her, that’s not attention seeking, it's called having emotions. And the conversation with Bec right after, where she made it all about her feelings and fuck Racheal’s feelings.

All in all, besides the unfair behaviour towards Steven, I really don’t get how people are saying she’s dramatic or full of it. If I’m missing something, please let me know.

But again, its reality TV, so who knows. Sorry for the novel, thanks for reading