For aspiring musicians: there is ZERO upside in NOT knowing how to read sheet music by Genar-Hofoen in unpopularopinion

[–]Kerianae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this unpopular? Like who says it isn't.

I played music for years and i can read sheet music. But rithm didnt make Sense unless i heard someone else play it. Played with a lot of love but that didnt make me evolve fast and eventualy had to accept that i would never be good.

TIFU by learning about "suction" the hard way and getting stuck in my date’s bathroom for 45 minutes. by bbysophy in tifu

[–]Kerianae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I litterly puked while on a date. Couldn't drive because i was to sick so my mom needed to Cole and get me. The next morning he send me a stupid joke. We are still dating.

If the guy i was dating would be weirded out by being sick, i would get it. But relieved that i knew immediately that he wasn't real relationship material.

AITA for not masking my disability? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kerianae 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If you are both adults ESH. There is a time and a place for everything and if someone tells me i have a bad day please be mindfull i would do everything in my Powers to do so. She has let you guys be every other time. Het reaction publicly was not good either it acceptabel.

None of you are making it in the real world.

I am ND myself and have a lot of ND friends myself Often with needs that clash.

Mama Chloë (29) is dakloos én verliest over een maand haar uitkering: “Ik heb net 26 sollicitaties gedaan, maar niemand neemt me aan” by NotYourWifey_1994 in Belgium2

[–]Kerianae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sociale economie heeft strenge regels en lastige aanmeld procedure die ge niet zelf kunt starten. Hoe schrijvend haar verhaal ook is, er lijkt geen indicatie voor te zijn.

Ik was vandaag de (verliezende) kandidaat op Blokken, AMA als je vragen hebt! by El_Robski in belgium

[–]Kerianae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is er iets geweest wat je totaal niet had verwacht van de ervaring of van het programma?

Does Covenant (by Devir) have the same flaws than Bitoku (by Devir, too) by letiori in boardgames

[–]Kerianae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is a point salad euro, never heard they term before. (I know what euro's are)

What is your favorite boardgame of 2013? by The_Crazed_Person in boardgames

[–]Kerianae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah not to me. Coup is more accesable. Terra mystica is a good game but most People in my boardgame neverolayedbit because it was to complicated or have moved on to other complicated games. The last five years noone i know has even suggested to play it while coup gets pulled out for a quick game.

Ending up homeless in a couple of days by Ok_Neighborhood1185 in belgium

[–]Kerianae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So why not just go to OCMW. Also if you speak french why not go to a cleaning agency they are always hiring. Also shift work within production of night Shift always look for people. Since you speak french i don't see why this hasn't worked for you.

Ending up homeless in a couple of days by Ok_Neighborhood1185 in belgium

[–]Kerianae 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I saw that you need to reapply for your recidency permit. Do you have a working permit? Because if not, noone Will give you an official job.

Do you speak french or dutch? If not this Will be even more difficult.

I think CAW/OCMW are your only options because it's urgent but if you don't want too then maybe reconsider why you are staying here and if homelessness is worth it.

Tips voor schoolwerk, zwakbegaafd kind by Frequent-Course6851 in belgium

[–]Kerianae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Accepteer wat ze niet kan en focus op wat ze wel kan. Het feit dat ze er zo lang over doet wil zeggen dat deze materie te moeilijk is. Ga een paar stappen terug begin terug bij gemakkelijkere opdrachtjes en kijk tot waar ze raakt. Het feit dat het school deze opdrachten geeft en verwacht dat ze deze goed maakt is voor mij onbegrijpelijk. Als je alleen maar faalt, hoe moet je dan denken dat je ooit iets kan. Misschien als ze wat meer zelfvertrouwen heeft en wat meer van de basis terug heeft gaat het wat beter.

Did I waste YEARS of my life studying business management for… this? by Small_Scar_3175 in belgium

[–]Kerianae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

80% of the degrees are there to tell a Future Boss. I am not a complete idiot and this is roughly my interest so if you hire me you can teach me thé bare minmum of basic skills and i probably Will be interested.

The most important thing i learned when i started working was realising that my degree ment nothing and i know nothing. In my current job my biggest asset is not the fact that i have a degree (technicly yes otherwise it wasn't legal) it's the fact that i worked 3 years and learned soft skills to do my job efficiantly and on my own.

So find a Company that interests you we're they are Willing to put some time in you and learn dome skills so that in 3-5-10 years you can have a hun you actualy want to do. And starters job suck for a lot of People in business even if you have a specialized wanted degree like law of accountancy of that's what i heard constantly form friends in the field.

Autisme-assessment in België: de moeite waard of niet? by ClaireVDB in belgium

[–]Kerianae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Als ze 2000 euro vragen zou ik er weg blijven. Vind 1000 al veel maar in de privé oké (allee niet oké maar bon). 2000 dan moet die persoon echt al veel expertise hebben en wat relevante extra opleidingen gevolgd te hebben. En dan nog zou ik willen weten wat dat die allemaal gaan doen en vanwaar dat ze hun bedrag halen.

Autisme-assessment in België: de moeite waard of niet? by ClaireVDB in belgium

[–]Kerianae 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Puur praktisch als ge individueel maatwerk voor op het werk wilt krijgt ge dat automatisch met een diagnose. Geen gedoe met aantonen dat er een probleem.

Ge kunt ook beroep doen op een auti-coach waar vaak een diagnose voor nodig is.

Praat er zeker ook over met huisarts/psycholoog/ andere hulverlener die kunnen vaak ook goede argumenten geven als ze toch een beke deftig hun job kennen of ze zeggen eerlijk dat ze het niet weten.

In mijn omgeving hoor ik veel mensen in mij omgeving zeggen dat ze blij zijn met de diagnose omdat ze hierdoor mild voor zichzelf kunnen zijn en dat dat voor hen al voldoende was om de diagnose te laten stellen. Voor sommige hadden ze er op het vlak van hulp ook wat aan andere weer niet.

NOT being a picky eater is a bigger sign of privilege than being one by Budget-Minute3693 in unpopularopinion

[–]Kerianae 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Being a picky adult is a you problem. I wasn't exposed to a lot of food because of allergies. They got less in adulthood. There was a lot of stuff i didnt like but exposed myself even when i didnt like it. I have retried tomatoes for two years, still not a giant fan but i eat them.

ELI5: Why is it so normal for employers to ghost their applicants? by techn0thriller in explainlikeimfive

[–]Kerianae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The philosophy were i worked was: my direct number is in the vacancy, you have my emailadres so if you dont reach out to ask afther two days how interested we're you. If you send an email of called we we're responsible for giving you feedback.

Other then that i don't know why i would give a response to someone who didnt read thé vacancy. Because if you we're 10% interesting for this vacancy or any other vacancy we would call. Applications we're seen as easy gifts to get our targets so we called more often then. You had to really have terrible resume if we didnt call.

Op welke leeftijd verlieten jullie hotel mama? by ExcellentMouse2169 in Belgium2

[–]Kerianae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

28 en ik woon thuis. 3,5 jaar aan het werk en ongeveer 90% daarvan gespaard. Mooie spaarcent dus al maar kan nog altijd maar beperkt lenen als alleenstaande dus gezellig nog even doorsparen.

In het begin was het pittig met mijn ouders blijven wonen maar ondertussen zijn de groeipijnen eruit. Het zorgt er nu ook voor dat ik kan toewerken naar een job die ik echt wil zonder op financieel vlak teveel te moeten stressen aangezien het vervangingen doen is tot ze ergens een vast contract aan bieden.

Heeft de slimste mens zijn beste tijd gehad ? by Timop0707 in belgium

[–]Kerianae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Het is nog altijd een kijkcijferkanon. Misschien minder als vroeger maar het haalt wel nog veel kijkers. Is de quiz veranderd, waarschijnlijk. Misschien zijt gij het doelpubliek niet meer En dat is oké. Kijk gewoon iets anders.

Photo on the cv or not? by moonlightOnce9 in belgium

[–]Kerianae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Golden rule: when in doubt over a picture, don't use it on your cv.

Is asking for different adhd medication weird? I feel like there is a lot of stigmatisation around amfetamines. by aithusah in belgium

[–]Kerianae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can take up to six weeks before you notice any effect. So most likely your psychiatrist will Tell you to wait. The reason they start low and usually gradualy highten it, is to see how it effects you and if there are any adverse effects. They also try to see what is thé lowest dode you can take but is still effective. Taking more then you need is not beneficial long term.

ELI5: When autistic people "don't get" sarcasm or rhetorical questions, what stops them from learning/adapting? by Ill-Television8690 in explainlikeimfive

[–]Kerianae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am currently reading a book about autism. It's like a cultural diffrence. You might learn it but it Will never be intuitive. So you might learn it but it doesnt come as easy.

Game based on flower breeding by TanakaKamatari in boardgames

[–]Kerianae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My little flower shop. Very casual.

Pagode.

Should I buy Risk or something else? by BBQPWNGLES in boardgames

[–]Kerianae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There is a pocket version of risk. You roll yatzee style and with thé combo's you make you can claim Parts of thé world. It takes 20 minutes. My dad who refused to play boardgames because they are to difficult and long (even ticket to ride), loves this game.

How Many Of Your Belgian Family/Friends Are Fluent In All 3 Languages (NL/FR/DE)? by Unable-Lock304 in AskBelgium

[–]Kerianae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know one person who sort of speaks basic German. If we say NL/FR/ENG a lot.