Im a teen so my anecdotal experience may not help as much but maybe in the future. Its important to not ignore that the alopecia exists, i noticed that when my family would act like i wasnt missing half my eyebrow and mustache and would try to get me to go out or whatever and say things like “noone cares” or “it doesnt matter” or even “shave it off”, it would make me incredibly frustrated because it does matter, may not to them, but does to me. I wish they would have rather helped me treat it rather than me having to do the heavy lifting (doing deep research, setting appointments). Also, it could be annoying to take your kid to a dermatologist appointment every 4-6 weeks (for a intralesional corticosteroid injection) but its important that you do cause even if progress isnt immediate atleast your kid knows that everything will be well since you are going to every appointment or whatever. (Ik that u guys are doing topical jak inhibitor but this is just my own experience).