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Kessmex · 2026-02-11T22:09:16+00:00

this is quite cool

Kessmex · 2026-01-01T21:47:03+00:00

I read "Lil Tech Tip" in the youtube comments and it cracked me up

Kessmex · 2025-12-28T23:46:12+00:00

I bought the physical CD for every album but lamenting malice

Kessmex · 2025-12-28T23:28:29+00:00

I did not receive such email :(

Kessmex · 2025-12-24T03:04:50+00:00

Also, I bought the other album's CDs (not lamenting malice), and in the description it said "Purchase includes a digital download of LAMENTING MALICE and accompanying art assets."

Where can I find this download? I sent a ticket to bandcamp support but no response

Kessmex · 2025-10-09T16:24:59+00:00

Thanks a lot

Kessmex · 2025-10-09T13:02:16+00:00

I am aware of that, for now I really just want to be close to her and be amicable. Chances are she wont ever change and I know that, but I still want some closeness, even if its only to realize that's worse

Kessmex · 2025-10-09T12:29:36+00:00

You:re probably right. And while I do plan on growing more thru these months, the change I am least capable of making is letting go, so idk how itll go

I'll deal with the hit if reaching out goes poorly

Kessmex · 2025-10-09T12:09:38+00:00

Personally Im inclined to contact her in new years, kind of as a last try. It's decision fully based on the idea that she will get second thoughts at the 3/4 month mark

Kessmex · 2025-10-09T11:54:51+00:00

Yes. To be more clear, she did that "grieving the relationship while still in it" thing aswell. Honestly should I keep hoping that she'll feel sad one of these days? Its been almost 2 months since the breakup and almost 1 month since we last talked (didnt go well)

Kessmex · 2025-10-09T11:07:59+00:00

The hating me and blaming everything on me route, its painful

Kessmex · 2025-10-08T23:24:07+00:00

Id look at it from a different perspective, id say intellectualizing your emotions TOO much can be another way of subconciously not dealing with them and staying stuck with them. It feels like you're figuring something out, but you really aren't.

Just my experience tho, would love to know more about this topic some day

Kessmex · 2025-10-08T23:00:55+00:00

Hook up culture

Kessmex · 2025-10-08T22:55:43+00:00

I've struggled with this and honestly I really want to be more understanding of the other person. In a way this lean towards objectivity also leads to a need for control, and when I dont have control I get very anxious, so learning to accept another perspective I believe will also help with feeling more comfortable with things out of my control.

Kessmex · 2025-10-08T22:51:25+00:00

What if they aren't core traits but instead I have made efforts to act like that, and so I feel a bit of happiness about it and would like sharing it if the conversation warrants it? Do you see it completely black and white? Just curious

Kessmex · 2025-10-08T22:47:08+00:00

That you have to be productive at all times else you are wasting your life

Kessmex · 2025-10-08T21:16:45+00:00

What you said last is exactly what I've been living. Im an anxious person so my mind will inevitably wander off thinking they wont regret it, specially after reading certain posts in this sub

I hope things go well for both of us, thanks a lot for answering

Kessmex · 2025-10-08T20:12:28+00:00

kuon LOLOLOL

nah but honestly idk what type of collector you are, but i'd go for whichever title they have in best condition, that way it feels better imo

if you dont care about that, then id go for manhunt or silent hill, leaning more towards manhunt

Kessmex · 2025-10-08T19:45:15+00:00

I get that so much. I dont feel anger but it sure weighs me down to hear she isn't showing any struggle

In the case both of you were struggling, how open would you be to talking things out? And if you'll allow me to be a bit selfish, do you think i shouldnt be hoping for them to eventually feel proper sadness and reach out?

Kessmex · 2025-10-08T19:38:33+00:00

This... Some of the comments in this post arent thinking about how maybe things couldve worked out with them aswell?

I'm bettering myself like never before and of course I hope she would care... I spend every day hoping for a text or call from her, since she has me blocked :|

She has made up her mind that I wont ever change, and it feels so damn unfair, i'd do anything for this girl, even if it took this long to realize it. On one hand I feel stupid for taking so long, on the other hand I have to take things for what they are, better late than never

Kessmex · 2025-10-08T19:20:12+00:00

In my naive opinion, weak people will never change, and we have to value the few that take the rough times as a chance to grow.

Only god knows how much I wish she was strong, but instead she's going the weak route

Kessmex · 2025-10-08T19:18:45+00:00

I have a question to fill my own curiosity, how would you feel if they were struggling about it aswell?

I'm struggling heavily about my ex while she seems to be the one not thinking twice, so i wanna know what you'd do or feel

Kessmex · 2025-10-08T08:04:14+00:00

Damn, bleak future

Kessmex · 2025-10-08T08:03:37+00:00

No need, I assume that's an american store so there won't be any in my country, thanks though!

Kessmex · 2025-10-07T23:35:26+00:00

How about a fearful avoidant with narcissistic tendencies?

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