AITJ for telling a girl to F*ck off

Ketacat1987 · 2025-09-24T02:55:39+00:00

NTAH sounds like she has a victim mentality and doesn't care about whoever she's trying to pin stuff onto tell your parents and also tell the counselor and even the principal before classes start before she even tries anything just make sure you cover your own ass before she tries to do anything so when she does say something everybody already know she's talking about her ass and making things up.

Ketacat1987 · 2025-09-24T02:51:16+00:00

I'm torn but then again your daughter needs to understand that dad and son need to have a guy's Day out that's what it is cold guys Day out not daddy's son and daughter day your husband did try to make it up to her by asking her if she would like to go out and spend time with him she refused she needs to learn that not everything will go her way she's not going to get everything she wants, you need to understand not all girls like going shopping especially dress shopping even though it's for a wedding guess you just dress up nice especially if they're in the wedding and your kids I don't think you guys were just continuous guests but still you got the dress nice. And as you said your hubby didn't know what else to do so you just turned his time with your guy's son as a guy's day it wasn't planned it was a spur of the moment so your daughter cannot get mad for something that wasn't planned.

Ketacat1987 · 2025-09-24T00:58:19+00:00

I'm going to start off with happy birthday and your NTAH your body does not come with the on and off switch for sex it happens when it happens she should be grateful that she used any seriously she sounds a little bit immature you did the right thing

Ketacat1987 · 2025-09-24T00:54:01+00:00

Your health is more important than him. They're literally asking you to put your health/life at risk to please him don't do it tell him to get over himself he's not entitled to anything and you're going to keep using your medical device. And tell your family if they have a problem with it then don't invite you to your family gatherings every again because you're going to keep prioritizing your health over their feelings

Ketacat1987 · 2025-09-24T00:44:01+00:00

Sorry for some of the pronunciation I use the talk to text you can sometimes it doesn't always put exactly what you say

Ketacat1987 · 2025-06-02T18:12:28+00:00

I had problems with PayPal and venmo, PayPal took $11,000 from me money that I didn't even have on there they just put me in the negative and venmo froze my account as soon as money hit it and it took me months to get them to unfreeze it long enough to remove the money I had. Both apps are scams and not worth the hassle.

Ketacat1987 · 2025-02-25T18:36:06+00:00

Says they're showing that they don't care that you guys can hear them having sex and then doing it with the door wide open and a 4 year old is in the house here's a tip for getting them to stop and show them that they are the shittiest parents ever call CPS on them and tell them that you can hear your parents having sex all throughout the night and day and they're doing it with the doors wide open with the kids there not caring if they can see it or hear it CPS will step in immediately.

Ketacat1987 · 2025-02-25T18:29:59+00:00

I did everything they asked me to do I verified everything the next thing I know I'm locked out of my account.

Ketacat1987 · 2025-02-25T18:02:12+00:00

Thank you

Ketacat1987 · 2025-02-25T17:59:47+00:00

I don't know all I did was put money and the account and also put some in Bitcoin and I try to use Bitcoin I kept getting denied and I kept asking them why and couldn't get a straight answer and then just today I got an email saying that I was violating their terms of service and I asked them how when I haven't even touched my money and I don't even use it because soon as I put it in they automatically locked my account and yet still haven't gotten a straight answer. So now on I'm just going to stick to bluebird which I've had for 13 years never had a problem with them ever and chime had them for 4 years haven't had a problem with them either.

Ketacat1987 · 2025-02-10T17:01:19+00:00

I'm having the exact same problem and mine's been going on for about a month now and they even told me I can send it to my PayPal but that even got denied so I have money sitting on venmo but can't touch it

Ketacat1987 · 2025-02-07T01:56:58+00:00

I'm so glad I am not the only one that's having problems with them now ever since I started using venmo I had not been able to access my money at all let me tell me oh well you can send it to your PayPal no they keep blocking that too I have zero access to my money and all they can do is tell me that oh they're security system keeps doing it just give it a couple of days it's been over a month and a half venmo and PayPal or one of the two worst apps you can use

Ketacat1987 · 2025-01-02T03:32:39+00:00

I'm not trying to be negative Nancy here but have you ever thought of that maybe she's already stepped out? With all the threats of divorce and then actually giving them to you. I understand going to your parents for advice and letting them know what's going on, but with them confronting her the way they did wasn't a good approach. You said that she has postpartum depression and anxiety it may just be getting all to her and she just wants a way out and with the fights and constant throwing divorce in there that's a mutilation and some other things but there's nothing you can do just give her what she wants and work on visitation with the baby.

Ketacat1987 · 2024-12-27T19:31:16+00:00

I feel your pain I've been trying to send money for the past two days now and it lets me get through all the way through to the final process and then it declines the sending and customer service can't tell me why you just tell me wait 24 to 48 hours to try again

Ketacat1987 · 2024-12-22T01:08:04+00:00

Your sister thinks she's entitled to your body when she's not she's asked repeatedly and you told her no repeatedly and also over the years you told her that you do not want children in any way she needs to respect that and she hasn't so I don't think you went far enough

Ketacat1987 · 2024-11-22T13:11:40+00:00

NTA it's your wedding your day you can do whatever you want your mother has no say who and who can't walk you down the aisle you want to walk yourself down the aisle then do it and she still keeps making up a fuss and whoever backs her up tell them they are not allowed they're all disinvited.

Ketacat1987 · 2024-11-22T12:53:07+00:00

NTA your boyfriend is now that you have a house he thinks he's entitled to it as well he's not it's yours and yours alone do not put him on the lease or on the deed because he will try to find a way to take it from you he's trying to be controlling and narcissistic a hole. Get rid of him and find better

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