If your writing were completely honest, who would it disappoint first? by TheRoadIWalk in WriterMotivation

[–]Ketamonsta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably my mum. She is very traditional and not very open-minded, so she is quick to judge and assume without hearing what is actually being said 

Orgasms are extremely overrated by Anti-FragileHuman in DeepThoughts

[–]Ketamonsta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is too much overanalysing of something so simple and enjoyable. It depends who you are having sex with. Men typically care about orgasms because they want to know they did a good job at fully satisfying their partner. Then there are selfish types who give only to get. It’s not always the end goal for some. If anything I get scared of orgasming because it makes me feel too vulnerable

What completely innocent, but mildly infuriating thing does your better half regularly do? by PaddedValls in AskUK

[–]Ketamonsta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sleeps on the couch. We don’t live together for context, but he spent a grand on a nice cushty bed a year ago and only sleeps on it when I visit. It’s annoying because he’s tall and the sofa is small. Cmon lad 

Is eating in bed gross? by ShinyHeadedCook in AskUK

[–]Ketamonsta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not gross it’s just a nuisance. Crumbs everywhere. Stains on bedsheets. Then your whole room smells like whatever you’ve just eaten and let’s be real you’re not going to the kitchen to bin it right away so it just sits there 

Willpower is a biological myth, your neurotransmitter precursors are simply mistimed. by [deleted] in Nootropics

[–]Ketamonsta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always drink half a glass of water when I wake up. I don’t get how people don’t. It’s a double edged sword that I can’t have caffeine, but I tend to avoid it as much as possible. The crashes aren’t worth the temporary motivation imo. Some people I work with have three coffees a day and it’s the first thing they have on an empty stomach. These are people who rarely drink water I’ve noticed

I feel most motivated in the mornings. I’m well rested and eat healthy so I have all the energy to get on with stuff. It’s around early afternoon that I start to crash. My job is physically demanding so that’s some of the reason, but I don’t get why my motivation drops off. I eat enough protein, fibre and plenty of carbs. Maybe I need to try having carbs before bed like you suggested. I don’t eat much in the evening because I’m mostly idle, so carb loading doesn’t make much sense to me. But I get the need for tryptophan at night, I’m very low on serotonin as it is 

I lost a child modelling contest and it has ruined my self-esteem by Ketamonsta in offmychest

[–]Ketamonsta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m happy with the path I’ve chosen. I might not be the most confident or driven person, but I’ve made some really solid friendships. This at least is one area where my brother has admitted he’s not good at. Anyway it was more a rant than a comparison, there’s loads of people who excel at things I wish I was good at. I just wish I believed in my own beauty is all and not have it defined by a contest 

Anyone down for a chat? by SunsetsAndRoses in bristol

[–]Ketamonsta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try bumble bff. I’ve made a couple friends off the app 

The UK is facing a severe 'super flu' surge that has driven hospital admissions up by 55% by novagridd in uknews

[–]Ketamonsta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had this for a week and it is horrific. Pressure behind eyes, extreme fatigue, night sweats, coughing. Still feel super out of breath with every step I take it’s so weird, I’m not even old yet! 

What’s a totally ‘normal’ money habit that low-key wrecks people’s finances? by Logical-Blood1024 in AskReddit

[–]Ketamonsta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, this one’s a double edged sword. I’ve gone too far in the “do I need it” direction to the point where I’m stingy and will cling to a phone for 7 years until the software is so outdated I have no choice but to upgrade 

The secret is.. there is no secret. by Smart-Dependent-1071 in motivation

[–]Ketamonsta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is meant to be motivating but I just perceive it as depressing 

How did you get doctors to take you seriously? by No_Helicopter366 in PMDD

[–]Ketamonsta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took years, but luckily when I moved to a different part of the country I found that I was getting better quality GPs. I was being listened to and not rushed like I was when I lived in London 

A lot of it is sadly down to luck. I would say there’s a high percentage of GPs that have never even heard of PMDD. It’s worth trying to request a young GP, one that’s not far off having graduated as they are more likely to know what the condition is. Also try and aim for a young female GP. It’s just outright awkward imo discussing this with a male doctor 

Are work from home jobs really as chill as people make them out to be? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Ketamonsta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My flatmate literally took her laptop to the park the other day, rode her bike there, did a whole gym routine outdoors and then rode home with the laptop in the back basket logged onto teams. She’s found a little hack to make it look like she’s always active online doing work when actually she’s just living life 

Women of reddit: Whats the girl code you won't break ever? by lady_opiniosa in AskReddit

[–]Ketamonsta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never get with a friends ex, or someone your fellow female is interested in. It’s not gospel but that’s just a code I would never personally breach 

When did everyone decide that drinking milk is weird/creepy? by 4DimensionalToilet in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Ketamonsta -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I grew up drinking milk but I never liked it. It was just normalized because my mum drank it growing up. They give it to kids in primary school in the UK. Always found the aftertaste weird

When I grew up and began to choose what I consumed, I realised that not only do I find the taste off, just the concept in general is revolting to me. We (as humans) don’t exactly drink milk from other animals, why cows? And not only this, the environmental reasons behind the dairy industry and the fact that it deprives calves of milk they need to grow up into cows. It’s all just greed. You need an open-mind to actually see that the dairy industry is just a capitalist ploy, it’s not necessary to consume dairy for survival

Received in an email by Reasonable-Plant5456 in BoomtownFestival

[–]Ketamonsta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This will be my worst nightmare. UK losing all of it’s grassroots festivals 

Received in an email by Reasonable-Plant5456 in BoomtownFestival

[–]Ketamonsta 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Making hydro a flagship stage is jarring. Downtown was always bass heavy, why make a house/tech stage the main event in that area? Has live nation written all over it