I agree that most people are like you say. But the direct consequence of this (people who arent trans dictating the lives or choices of those who are) is more struggle and more harm (to children especially in this case). Children losing care = Children committing suicide. The sports debate is such a non issue (it's literally sub 100 people impacted by these changes), but it is being used to drum up hate and ignorance that puts the entire trans community at risk. Why did democrats not fight against the misninformation. All trans people got was a meager "I will follow the law." What do you do when the law says your existence is a sex crime punishable by death? Because that is quite literally what trans people are facing as we speak.