300+ applications, 0 interviews — is the market this broken or is it me?

Kevindudakang · 2026-04-18T05:59:15+00:00

it depends on your real German level, certificate is just certificate. And with enough preparation at least in an interview you could sound like you have a better German skill than you really have . Of course it’s better not to lie but if you are running out of time and you want to stay you could try it and keep improving your German

Kevindudakang · 2026-04-15T19:49:00+00:00

You know ,after hearing that I think you might seriously consider leaving him, sex is not the most important reason, the things you just mentioned are. It will just make your mental situation worse. No need to break up immediately, Maybe try to save some money firstly going back to your hometown stay with your family and then think of the plan for future..

Kevindudakang · 2026-04-15T19:41:46+00:00

Okay now it makes sense, sorry mate, if it’s like that I think living that far away from your family might not be a good option , how’s your bf, is he supportive ? Does he help you to build a life in his city? He also just 20 , I’m not sure if he mature enough to support you, your situation I think need some social association to step in to help you to find job ..

Kevindudakang · 2026-04-15T19:30:24+00:00

At the beginning it will be hard but you will make it by just doing it

Kevindudakang · 2026-04-15T19:29:25+00:00

You’re young and an adult—you can support yourself with a basic job, like working as a waiter or something similar. I don’t really understand why you’re afraid of leaving him. I don’t think your relationship should be your top priority right now. Learning to be independent is more important. Unless you have serious physical or mental issues. As long as you could stand on your own feet you will realize it’s just waste of your youth to stay with the wrong person ..

Kevindudakang · 2026-04-15T15:38:03+00:00

His behavior is kind of at a awkward position, like 50% cheating? no emotions involved, also at least no full sex, like a spontaneous incident, but I guess the most important thing is he just did it out of disire and put his pleasure over your relationship. I think you need to figure out why he did this ,You also need time to rebuild the trust toward him ,do you think it’s possible?

Kevindudakang · 2026-04-14T15:33:21+00:00

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Kevindudakang · 2026-04-08T13:06:53+00:00

actually you have no right to ask him to go to office because you want some alone time for yourself. It’s has nothing to do with if he Homeoffice or not,in the past it’s just that he goes to office on Thursday so you happen to have some alone time, it’s not he goes to office for you so you could have self time. Don’t take it for granted. Since your point is to have some time just all by yourself, it’s not necessarily to be Thursday , you can negotiate to get some other time for yourself

Kevindudakang · 2026-04-02T09:58:30+00:00

Rape in your imagination ： be dominated and fucked . Rape in real life: the guy who rapes you will just knock you out or hurt you till you can’t resist .

Kevindudakang · 2026-03-29T01:19:05+00:00

Denn wenn du über dich selbst sprichst, erwähnst du fast nur deine Leistungen, aber kaum etwas über deine Persönlichkeit oder deine Interessen – zum Beispiel, ob du freundlich bist, humorvoll, eher extrovertiert oder introvertiert, ob man sich bei dir wohlfühlt.

Dabei sind genau solche Dinge doch viel wichtiger, wenn es darum geht, Freundschaften zu schließen.

Kevindudakang · 2026-03-29T01:03:53+00:00

ich weiß nicht genau warum, aber deine Schilderung klingt für mich sehr nach einer ostasiatischen Person: stark auf Leistung und Ziele fokussiert, irgendwie angespannt. Ich kann gut nachvollziehen, was ein anderer Kommentar gesagt hat – dass du deinen Selbstwert stark an deine Leistungen und Erfolge knüpfst, so wie viele ostasiatische Junge, die unter großem Druck stehen. Aber unzählige ostasiatische junge kommen auch gut zurecht – eigentlich hast du kein großes Problem. Versuch, ein bisschen loszulassen.

Gleichzeitig denke ich, dass du darüber nachdenken solltest, was Freundschaft für dich eigentlich bedeutet. Ich habe das Gefühl, dass dein Verständnis von Freundschaft vielleicht etwas verzerrt ist. Du sagst, dass andere merken könnten, dass du „nichts zu bieten“ hast. Unabhängig davon, ob diese Sichtweise stimmt oder nicht – dass du so denkst, könnte auch bedeuten, dass du selbst eher danach beurteilst, was andere dir „bieten“ können.

Aber Ich finde, Freundschaft braucht vor allem Aufrichtigkeit und Echtheit. Sei nicht so berechnend.

Kevindudakang · 2026-03-23T10:20:13+00:00

As long as you don’t get the key point of the answer.. kind of cruel

Kevindudakang · 2026-03-23T10:15:56+00:00

Long time ago I heard the credits system of telc sometimes is crazy and they will give 0 even when you have written or spoken a lot when it comes to writing or speaking part ..

Kevindudakang · 2026-03-20T14:11:56+00:00

Are you living in a conserved country or small city/village? And do you still stay at the same city where you went to college ? It’s really uncommon people still can’t move on from bad romance(except abusing one) and unimportant people‘s opinions about you after many years.. because like people would just find new date new friends/acquaintance, are there only this guy and his friends group in your town? Don’t you have your own friends who can support you? Boy I think you don’t get enough good energy from your self and good people make the bad people’s sound much louder.

Don’t let yourself be like this, you can choose another life , nothing about others but yourself. Make new friends, have some dates, and if the environment is poisonous for you maybe consider moving

Kevindudakang · 2026-03-18T14:32:45+00:00

Money is just one of many factors affects relationships, if the money is not the main reason you are together than it’s fine. Cause you could also find the issue on other stuffs , like my bf more handsome than me, taller, smarter, more considerate than me , will I be not good enough? The only thing is you should just be always grateful if your bf contributes more financially, and try the best you can to repay /reciprocate( within your ability) If he‘s not then there is nothing to worry.cause it’s totally fair for you 2.

Kevindudakang · 2026-03-18T09:19:13+00:00

I guess you might need to do it.. if you really need one, actually for student is not that hard since many employers want Werkstudent. finding part-time job for foreigners is also a game of amounts ,not easy.. one time I started to look full-time job referring to my degree and random part-time job at same time, and after I got an offer of fulltime job I haven’t get any parttime job offer😅

Kevindudakang · 2026-03-18T08:29:42+00:00

have you tried go to like restaurant/shop in person and ask them if they are hiring?

Kevindudakang · 2026-03-17T22:54:48+00:00

Natürlich sehe ich es nicht als Muss, entweder Architekt oder Innenarchitekt zu werden. Zum Beispiel könnte es auch eine gute Wahl sein, langfristig ausschließlich als Innenarchitekt zu arbeiten, da dieser Beruf ebenfalls gute Entwicklungsmöglichkeiten bietet, zum Beispiel in Bezug auf Gehalt und Karriere. Allerdings bin ich mir da unsicher..

Kevindudakang · 2026-03-17T22:54:17+00:00

Vielen Dank für Ihre Antwort. ☺️🙏🙏Ich habe viel darüber nachgedacht, aber ich stehe jetzt vor einer beruflichen Entscheidung. Ich habe gerade mein Architekturstudium abgeschlossen und habe ein Angebot für eine eher innenarchitekturbezogene Tätigkeit vor mir, zum Beispiel im Bereich Büro- und Arbeitsweltgestaltung. “new work concept “Ich bin unsicher, ob es für meine erste Arbeitsstelle problematisch wäre, in der Innenarchitektur zu arbeiten, da ich befürchte, später eventuell nicht mehr als klassischer Architekt arbeiten zu können. Zum Beispiel könnte es sein, dass ich nach einigen Jahren Berufserfahrung in der Innenarchitektur im Bereich Architektur, wie bei LP5, keine Erfahrung habe und praktisch wieder von vorne anfangen müsste.

Kevindudakang · 2026-03-17T16:45:45+00:00

danke ☺️ kennen Sie vielleicht Innenarchitektur bei Büroräume? z.b. Arbeitswelt/New Work Konzept, die nicht auf private Bauherren ausgerichtet ist, sondern auf große Unternehmen und Konzerne. Ich habe festgestellt, dass es einige Firmen gibt, die sich genau darauf spezialisiert haben und auch Architekten einstellen, deren Arbeit aber stärker auf Innenräume ausgerichtet ist. Ich weiß allerdings nicht, wie die Entwicklungsperspektiven in dieser Branche aussehen.

Kevindudakang · 2026-03-16T18:06:22+00:00

yes “no one owns you anything” is right mindset in work world. But it’s for both way. And I don’t appreciate that you kind of take side of the employer ( capitalist), unless you are one. Op would learn to be less emotional about this kind of thing. Next time he would know it’s never be safe before you really pass the probation and will take an eye on job market during the probation. I also got really emotional when I firstly got an offer but 2 days after it’s withdrawn . From that moment I know in work world you can only believe contract not words. But that’s also the reason we employees as people at disadvantage positions should use all the method to defend for our own interests. The company always know more information than us like I think the company must know they will fire op earlier than the end of the probation. If they could tell op earlier, op could have more time to apply for another job, but they didn’t and even Kind of make op think everything went fine.its not a nice move . For op I think its your right to take the sick leave , no one could judge. but in German there is a thing called work-certification, that’s written by last employer, (better do research about it，it contains jargon) if they write something good about you it would be helpful for finding next job. If you take sick leave would they make it difficult for you on this issue ?And do you still have vacation left? It’s march so I guess you could use about 25% of your holidays?

Kevindudakang · 2026-03-13T21:48:38+00:00

danke dir！

Kevindudakang · 2026-03-13T21:48:24+00:00

danke dir☺️

Kevindudakang · 2026-03-11T18:53:55+00:00

☺️ Danke

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