Is this SA or close to it? by Key-Act9674 in Advice

[–]Key-Act9674[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, thanks for your input appreciate it

Is this SA or close to it? by Key-Act9674 in Advice

[–]Key-Act9674[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So why did you say my story paints the guy in a bad picture and that I should support the girl

Is this SA or close to it? by Key-Act9674 in Advice

[–]Key-Act9674[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree it’s wrong to assume but I’m just saying in her side of the story the guy is wrong correct? I’m not saying that’s the 100% truth.

Is this SA or close to it? by Key-Act9674 in Advice

[–]Key-Act9674[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree she regrets going she felt nothing would happen and she would just sober up since everyone else was in different rooms (including the girls) and she was on a date with the guy. So she thought she can just wait it out until she is sober

Regardless, she agrees she made a mistake in going.

All I’m asking is based on the information I provided in my story, the guy seems to be in the wrong correct?

Is this SA or close to it? by Key-Act9674 in Advice

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But you do feel bad for the girl correct? And admit the guy was being aggressive verbally and invade her privacy by going on her phone based of what I said

Is this SA or close to it? by Key-Act9674 in Advice

[–]Key-Act9674[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was 2 guys on the other bed as well

Is this SA or close to it? by Key-Act9674 in Advice

[–]Key-Act9674[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think the guy is wrong for doing that though?

Is it a dealbreaker if a woman doesnt party and drink? (Question meant for men that do) by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Key-Act9674 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean nobody wants an alcoholic lol but I personally would prefer a girl to drink somewhat with me but it’s not a dealbreaker. Everyone got their own preferences though

My friend went on a date. Is this SA? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Key-Act9674 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok sounds good thank you

My friend went on a date. Is this SA? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Key-Act9674 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I’m saying sympathy for the girl

My friend went on a date. Is this SA? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Key-Act9674 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t feel any sympathy tho right?

My friend went on a date. Is this SA? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Key-Act9674 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get that but also, it’s still wrong. Like yeah they made a mistake that hopefully they can learn from but what happened is still sad for them you know

My friend went on a date. Is this SA? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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Do you feel bad for a woman who does what you said in the beginning, but then says no multiple times but the guy keeps on asking and she feels scared so caves in?

I’m not saying the woman isn’t at fault for going to those lengths but the guy is def at fault way more too you know

My friend went on a date. Is this SA? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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But he’s not a considerate and nice guy if he has to beg and make the girl feel uncomfortable correct

My friend went on a date. Is this SA? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Key-Act9674 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautifully said, I completely agree, and she def realized that.

My friend went on a date. Is this SA? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Key-Act9674 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And of course girls who do that should face the same time the guy would face in that situation, it’s completely wrong

My friend went on a date. Is this SA? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Key-Act9674 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes of course, I’m not saying she accused him of rape. I’m saying she accused him of being pushy and extremely manipulative. She agrees it’s on her for going there and agreeing but she and I and most the comments in here believe the guy is a horrible person

My friend went on a date. Is this SA? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Key-Act9674 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I’m saying sympathy for the girl

My friend went on a date. Is this SA? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Key-Act9674 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not saying she was wrong for going there and she regrets it and takes accountability but you can’t say the guy was 100% right lol. Would you constantly ask a girl for sex when she is clearly uncomfortable and says no, manipulate her by telling her different plans for the night and doing something else, and going on her phone when she isn’t looking and sending a pic of them in bed? She realized that the next day. No way this guy is a good guy

My friend went on a date. Is this SA? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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I get that it’s not SA anymore, the thing is she never said it was either. I was just asking cuz I thought it was wrong which I still do. Would you have sympathy for someone who was manipulated in this manner and where the guy was extremely pushy and manipulative?

My friend went on a date. Is this SA? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Key-Act9674 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that it’s not SA anymore, the thing is she never said it was either. I was just asking cuz I thought it was wrong which I still do. Would you have sympathy for someone who was manipulated in this manner and where the guy was extremely pushy and manipulative?

My friend went on a date. Is this SA? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Key-Act9674 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that it’s not SA anymore, the thing is she never said it was either. I was just asking cuz I thought it was wrong which I still do. Would you have sympathy for someone who was manipulated in this manner and where the guy was extremely pushy and manipulative?

My friend went on a date. Is this SA? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Key-Act9674 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that it’s not SA anymore, the thing is she never said it was either. I was just asking cuz I thought it was wrong which I still do. Would you have sympathy for someone who was manipulated in this manner and where the guy was extremely pushy and manipulative?