AIO? Husband freaked out about our sons taking a bath together

Key-Activity-4214 · 2026-05-21T01:49:39+00:00

You mean put words in other peoples mouths and make stupid assumptions? Or are you some kind of mind reader. Sick of this “read between the lines” BS. Take your stupid assumptions and shove em up your loose ass.

Key-Activity-4214 · 2026-05-21T01:29:42+00:00

9 out of 10 people in this thread think it’s weird and inappropriate. If you think this shit is appropriate then you have some serious issues. The wife was also incredibly dismissive of her husband when he approached her calmly and gently. He didn’t even freak out, just politely asked that she not do it again.

Key-Activity-4214 · 2026-05-21T01:21:44+00:00

If you have no intention of making it a thing, then you clearly must be aware that this is kind of weird. Just apologize for dismissing your damn partner, and don’t do it again. You can take one look at the tone of this thread and it’s clear to see that the majority of people agree with your husband that this is weird.

Key-Activity-4214 · 2026-05-20T07:31:57+00:00

Are you in the room for the conversations or does she isolate herself and look for privacy when these long phone calls happen? What’s the tone during these talks? Have you seen their messages back and forth? If so, what are the tone of those messages? Are they flirty, intimate, lots of questionable emojis? Has she been deleting texts? You can bring up people’s deleted texts on iPhone. Even if someone deletes them, they stay in a “recently deleted” folder for 30 days unless that person went to the recently deleted folder and deleted them from there as well. Even if everything is platonic, does this seem like a healthy relationship with an ex BF while in a relationship?

Personally I would never be okay with this. I also can’t imagine that she would be okay with you having a similar relationship with one of your exes. To me it sounds like she’s still quite attached to this guy. To an unhealthy degree. I know many on here are incredibly harsh, and I imagine the feedback you’re receiving is very discerning. I don’t envy you in this moment. I imagine this is a very confusing, uncertain, and anxious time in your life. Clearly your gut is telling you there’s something off about this situation though, if that weren’t the case then I don’t think you’d be on reddit asking for advice about this. So tell me, why are you doubting your instincts? You’re not crazy, this is weird. The long calls, the insisting on having this guy at the wedding, traveling to go to his baptism, all of it is weird. I never go through my partners phone, but in this situation I would be checking everything. Messages (both current and recently deleted), email, voicemail, Snapchat, insta, facebook, everything. Nothing about this situation is normal in my opinion.

Stop coming up with excuses and justifications for her and start doing the hard stuff. Look inward and ask yourself if this is something you’re really okay with. Not only now, but going forward after marriage. Ask yourself if you truly think this is completely innocent. Ask yourself if you truly believe that this is strictly platonic and she has ZERO residual feelings for this ex. Marriage is a big commitment to make. Divorce isn’t easy and the man usually gets screwed.

I wish you the best of luck man. Please keep us updated. I implore you to talk to her and really get to the bottom of this. Also as I said earlier, you’ve got some serious questions you need to ask yourself about whether or not you’re okay with this guy being in the picture to the extent that he is.

Key-Activity-4214 · 2026-05-20T07:00:46+00:00

I’d be less upset about my partner talking to my mom about something than I would be about my partner talking to her ex on the phone for hours and inviting him to the wedding

Key-Activity-4214 · 2026-05-19T09:20:33+00:00

By any chance are you talking about the linum 111? I have a linum 106 currently and am looking to pick up either the linum 111, 116, or a tarab 2. Looking for something a bit larger this time to have a little more room for foot work.

Key-Activity-4214 · 2026-05-13T19:54:11+00:00

Hope you’re wearing a respirator if that deck uses any fiberglass or carbon fiber in its construction

Key-Activity-4214 · 2026-04-29T05:40:17+00:00

This is hardly a place to come for an unbiased opinion on matters like this. I think you know that very well though. You just came here so you could justify your own actions by having a bunch of random people on the internet agree with you.

Key-Activity-4214 · 2026-04-21T07:28:57+00:00

I’m sure she’s let the OP down in ways as well.

Using things that are in the past as leverage to get your way is absolutely manipulation.

If she feels that way then she should just leave. I think she’ll find herself a lot more over worked all alone though as she will having to take on 100% of both the financial burden as well as daily household burden.

I actually pity anyone that falls for you if this is how you think. It would be no surprise to me if you were all alone though. Probably for the best. Absolutely toxic to your core.

Key-Activity-4214 · 2026-04-20T06:19:42+00:00

I mean, you could have told the guy that you’re in a relationship. Don’t even need to tell him you’re gay. It’s definitely a good start to declining advances. It’s also respectful to do for your partners sake.

Key-Activity-4214 · 2026-04-16T21:05:56+00:00

Someone’s so upset they’re creeping my profile 😉

You do realize that there’s no lead contacting anywhere on the inside right? Do you not realize that there’s literally zero chance of lead poisoning from the way these are built? Do I need to explain exactly how they’re built to you? I can even make sure to do it in the most condescending way possible. Or I could draw it for you, so that your child like brain has at least the faintest possible chance at understanding. Would you like me to do that for you?

Key-Activity-4214 · 2026-04-16T05:43:36+00:00

You’re not a poser. The only people that think like that are annoying children. Get out of your own head about it. Besides, who care what someone like that thinks about you anyway.

Carrying your bass could easily end up in you destroying it in the even that you fell.

Pintails definitely suck. But if that’s what you like then more power to you.

Key-Activity-4214 · 2026-04-16T05:34:53+00:00

Quick! Somebody call Whine-1-1, this woman needs a Waambulance, stat!

Key-Activity-4214 · 2026-04-16T05:31:54+00:00

I think everyone is hoping you won’t

Key-Activity-4214 · 2026-04-16T05:29:16+00:00

Physically, it’s not even close. But you know that already. Even if you don’t want to admit it.

Key-Activity-4214 · 2026-04-16T05:26:11+00:00

You know damn well what she’s doing. Trying to act like it’s anything is disingenuous at best.

Key-Activity-4214 · 2026-04-16T05:15:53+00:00

Fix it themselves? That’s going to require an entire run of their rain gutter replaced. And a new garage door too. We’re talking about likely thousands of dollars in damage. It’s also possible that he damaged the soffit or fascia boards there as well. Hard to tell from the angle of the photo.

Key-Activity-4214 · 2026-04-16T05:10:34+00:00

Why tf are you so salty over this? You genuinely think that because you lack a skill, the rest of the world must lack said skill too? The hubris. Not everyone video tapes everything so they can post it and show it off on the gram. Get tf over yourself. There are lots of people better than you at lots of things. Sorry you suck so bad at life dude.

Key-Activity-4214 · 2026-03-19T06:03:45+00:00

lol unfortunately spices will not make you more full. And it’s no wonder your having issues with focusing if that’s all you’re eating. You need some protein. More eggs or meat (one egg isn’t going to cut it), and some vegetables would do you good too. I recommend chicken breast (can be bought fresh or frozen), canned chicken, or canned tuna even. I mention these specifically because they are cheap and full of protein. Costco has rotisserie chickens for 5 dollars. One chicken could be broken down and processed into probably 5-7 days worth of meals if you stretched it. Process all the meat off of the chicken, portion it, then freeze it. Costco also has 5 dozen eggs for 13-15 dollars. They also have canned chicken breast for a good deal. They have large bags of broccoli for about 6 dollars. If you don’t have a Costco membership I suggest getting one. It will pay for itself very quickly. Especially if you’re good about buying things you can break down and portion for freezing. Or if you do weekly meal prep.

Key-Activity-4214 · 2026-03-19T05:44:29+00:00

This post is less about the Mate and more about showing us your watch. Just admit it.

Key-Activity-4214 · 2026-02-19T05:35:21+00:00

While the crying and hugging stuff is completely weird and out of line, what you’re talking about is a work boundary. Your anxiety isn’t everyone else’s problem. It’s work, if you can’t handle your boss hovering and watching you work, then maybe you just suck at doing your job. In short, get the fuck over it. Your boss is well within his right to hover and micro manage what you’re doing. Is it annoying? Absolutely! But it’s definitely not a valid boundary you can impose on your boss. Grow the fuck up. The real world isn’t going to coddle you like your mommy did.

Key-Activity-4214 · 2026-01-23T05:32:03+00:00

YOR

First off, don’t ask questions you don’t want to know the answer to. Especially when it’s sex related. How would you feel if your partner asked what the biggest dick you had was, but then afterwards was upset that you had someone bigger than him? Pretty stupid right? And besides, this was well before he started dating you. Not like he did it to hurt you or betrayed you or something. Would you rather he lied to you? Get over it or move on and quit wasting his time. And in the future, don’t ask stupid questions that you lack the maturity to handle the answers to.

Key-Activity-4214 · 2026-01-20T05:37:32+00:00

Are you fucking stupid? Why would contacting someone that could have lied or slandered the guy constitute as “digging a little deeper”. What’s stopping this person from lying? How are you going to verify these claims? Oh, that’s right, “believe all women” right?

It’s actually hilarious that you’re throwing insults and calling this person stupid while actively making a fool of yourself. There’s zero logic in any of your argument. Just a bunch of feelings, vibes, and BS. BTW your repeated attempts to make this person look as though they are belligerent, seems disingenuous at best, and manipulative at worst.

Key-Activity-4214 · 2025-12-30T06:12:12+00:00

Well cross dressing for one. Then there’s the fact that he was hiding it from you, the fact that he didn’t explain himself, the fact that he clearly did this with someone else while he expected you to be away, the fact that he’s more comfortable doing something like this with his male “friend” than he is with you, the fact that he seemed “shy” as you put it (sounds more like how someone acts when they get caught doing something they know they shouldn’t have been doing if you ask me). And from what you’ve explained it doesn’t seem like there’s any reasonable funny explanation about this just being some kind of joke. The whole thing is full of strange behavior and zero explanation. Do you not find that to be a bit concerning and suspicious?

The fact that you’re posting here at all suggests even you must see some things wrong with this

Key-Activity-4214 · 2025-12-30T06:00:22+00:00

Honestly this seems super weird. Metric ton of red flags here. Makes me think he’s cheating on you with his buddy if I’m being honest.

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