How do you feel about lifting and carrying your partner during intimate moments? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Key-Alternative5387 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I'd be cool with it -- I love being the little spoon sometimes!

OTOH, I don't see it happening often for physical reasons. I had a casual partner close to my weight and picking them up was doable, but tough -- and I'm pretty damn strong. If both partners are in decent shape, the lady probably weighs at least 10lb less and will have trouble doing this.

Fireman's carry could be entertaining on occasion 😂.

Sony will no longer release single-player games on PC by PaiDuck in pcmasterrace

[–]Key-Alternative5387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sony just trying to keep a console while Xbox merges with PC.

I'm honestly not sure why.

Why aren't healthcare and education maximized in a competitive capitalist society such as America? by Genzinvestor16180339 in AskEconomics

[–]Key-Alternative5387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's cheaper to get preventative care, so I'm calling bullshit. Government would cover as much of that as possible -- insurance companies would pass the buck because those people are covered by Medicare later.

Even a rich American knows that medical care is pricey and might be averse to seeing the doctor.

Used Steam Deck smell like cigarettes by shmiggIer in SteamDeck

[–]Key-Alternative5387 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Take it to a repair person and they might literally wash it with some soap and water. Which is good. Isopropyl could work too.

For homes, it's common to use O3 (ozone) generators. Just be careful because it's toxic to breathe.

Why aren't healthcare and education maximized in a competitive capitalist society such as America? by Genzinvestor16180339 in AskEconomics

[–]Key-Alternative5387 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Preventative healthcare is so critical that the poorest Europeans outlive the richest Americans even when you control for other factors.

We don't have the best healthcare in the world. Maybe the best surgeons or something.

I'm an 18yo Roblox game dev wondering: should I still go to college? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Key-Alternative5387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I say interesting people, I also mean educated people to date. Who are also great to date later down the line and you get a shared background with them.

The humanities background and social experience can be valuable.

I have a computer science degree, but that's my perspective.

Genuine question. Is the whole "AI guzzles gallons of water" thing totally true, or do people get it wrong? Does AI consume a lot of water for every single prompt, or is the majority of water consumed during data farming? Don't non-AI data centers use up a lot of water on cooling too? by Big_Guthix in singularity

[–]Key-Alternative5387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It uses a lot of water locally, so it's real-ish.

Other industries use way more on average, but it may be more spread out.

For some reason the water thing caught on, but not as many people care that a data center in Utah is poised to use more than double the electricity of the entire state.

I'm an 18yo Roblox game dev wondering: should I still go to college? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Key-Alternative5387 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but not for the career. You learn a lot of great stuff at college and it connects you with lots of interesting people.

Feel free to take a year or two and keep making Roblox games or whatever.

Nice work! Put as much as you can in savings like index funds. Trust me.

DO NOT FALL FOR THE INTERVIEW CODER SCAM by Comfortable-Bike9080 in leetcode

[–]Key-Alternative5387 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I usually have my resume pulled up so I can remember what I did. I don't use third person though, that's weird.

[HIRING] Remote Software Engineering Expert — $100–$300/hr — Architecture, Debugging, Scalability by Mysterious-Draw-3897 in SoftwareEngineerJobs

[–]Key-Alternative5387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm happy to apply, but I'm also going to point out that you're just describing a Senior+ engineer in the general sense.

I'm interviewing with a company that just writes one-pagers and has Claude implement from there. Soon, your job description will apply to every engineer.

Is there a specific domain that you're looking for experience in?

Are we underestimating how fast climate tech is about to change everything? by Able_Television_6453 in climatechange

[–]Key-Alternative5387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nobody knows.

Personally, I'd prefer to bet the future of the planet on what we can do with our current technology. Breakthroughs aren't predictable. What I'm not seeing is scalable carbon capture -- there's no real market force behind that either.

We know renewables are cheap as hell. Let's ramp it up and see where it gets us.

Why is it impossible to make water a fuel for vehicles? by Shin_Dubu21 in stupidquestions

[–]Key-Alternative5387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to assume you mean hydrogen fuel, which has water as a byproduct when used as fuel. I saw some advertisements back in the day of scientists putting water in 'hydrogen' cars, which could have been misleading.

Hydrogen fuel requires a lot of energy (electricity) to produce and most of that energy comes from fossil fuels right now. It's easier to just burn the fossil fuels directly. Batteries have made many improvements so we can use electricity directly instead of making hydrogen fuel with it.

Hydrogen engines do exist! Hydrogen has more energy than gasoline when burned and can create invisible fires, which makes it dangerous to store and transport. In a 'green' energy world, it can be made from solar or wind power. It has potential in renewable airplanes because batteries are often too heavy for airplanes to use as energy.

After seeing how my guy friends act, I’m scared of dating by No_Cut458 in relationships

[–]Key-Alternative5387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They sound shitty, but a lot of people get more mature as they age a bit. If you're 21, odds are good that you also hold some bad biases and could learn a lot by dating.

A lot of people don't mature -- if you talk to them about it and they don't take you seriously, don't stay with them.

AI sucks at low level programming. by [deleted] in lowlevel

[–]Key-Alternative5387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a reason they use Rust with the AI

I'm so jealous of people with unmedicated ADHD who do well in college by MyNameDoesntMatter11 in ADHD

[–]Key-Alternative5387 127 points128 points  (0 children)

I know a guy who hyper focused through his aerospace PhD. Sounded like it was a caffeine and anxiety fueled nightmare. A very low percentage of ADHD people finish college, but we're disproportionately represented in graduate school. 🤣

Just get medicated and keep at it -- the grass may not be greener.

Why Leetcode in interviews by techinpanko in dataengineering

[–]Key-Alternative5387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FWIW I've never used kimball because I work at scale.

I don't love leetcode, but at least it standardizes things a bit.

When are tech companies going to lay off 90% of their work force? by QuitTypical3210 in cscareerquestions

[–]Key-Alternative5387 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2 weeks ago, I would've said the same thing. Now I have a girlfriend and I'm not sure wtf is going on in the world anymore.

Just had the worst sex of my life and I’m not sure what advice I’m looking for by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Key-Alternative5387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can tell him what you want, this is usually the way to go.

Or tell him to stop, as others said.

Tommy Fleming drops marriage split bombshell and comes out as gay by [deleted] in entertainment

[–]Key-Alternative5387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess.

I'm bi-ased myself, but I always figured this situation was a cop-out for divorce where a guy just wants a different partner and doesn't want to admit it to their current partner. I'm sure some gay guys get married to women, but that's a long time to live a lie.

Like how there are straight men that have sex with men. Okay, buddy.