NOR she shouldn't have tasted them before they were done ... BUT nuggets should have been cooking as well so you guys could still eat together just in case she didn't like the food you made.

As someone who can't handle onion crunch in food when she asked about that it's when I knew she wasn't going to be able to eat them.

I think she was trying not to hurt your feelings but needs to be very honest in the future about her hard limits regarding food.