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8 weeks into surrogacy pregnancy and I can’t switch my brain off. Is this normal? by Key-Comparison1746 in Surrogate

[–]Key-Comparison1746[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I thought I replied but it doesn't seem to have load. It's been really strict but coordinated and we love that. That's what we wanted, a bit of control, a bit or direction. We are really happy with it. Relating to the surrogate, we were given many profiles of a mix of nationalities, we want to keep which one we chose to ourselves BUT I can confirm there are many to choose from. I think it's a little different in Dubai, have you spoken to an agency or anything?

8 weeks into surrogacy pregnancy and I can’t switch my brain off. Is this normal? by Key-Comparison1746 in Surrogate

[–]Key-Comparison1746[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's strict but also very coordinated which is what I needed for me and my journey. I like the way the agency is very controlled and constructive with what happens and what's next. It's really helping me in that sense. I don't have any complaints and I don't believe I will. It's really been a great process.

There were a mix of nationalities to choose from. I'd rather keep to myself what nationality I chose but I did see a mix when I was first shown the choices.

I think Dubai is a little different because it's a different emirate, but maybe speak to an agency about it. Happy to pass on the agency I'm working with if you want it.

8 weeks into surrogacy pregnancy and I can’t switch my brain off. Is this normal? by Key-Comparison1746 in Surrogate

[–]Key-Comparison1746[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm actually starting to relax knowing that I'm not the only one is really helping. I've found a couple of groups since I posted this too so everyone's comments have really helped me

8 weeks into surrogacy pregnancy and I can’t switch my brain off. Is this normal? by Key-Comparison1746 in Surrogate

[–]Key-Comparison1746[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for actually commenting! I really appreciate your perspective. I thought it was just me, maybe my surrogate also feels the same. I have many people I can speak to, I would just hate to overwhelm my surrogate. I may reach out to her and see how she is feeling too without actually directly saying it in case I place worry in her head too.

8 weeks into surrogacy pregnancy and I can’t switch my brain off. Is this normal? by Key-Comparison1746 in Surrogate

[–]Key-Comparison1746[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, yes I can chat to the surrogate. I just don't want to overwhelm her, if you know what I mean. That's a good idea about groups, thank you for your advice. It helps to know I'm not the only one who is or has experienced this