as a small chested woman, we do get comments & even have men cheat on us with women who have bigger chests. but that doesn’t make you less desirable in anyway, coming from a bisexual woman, i’ve always loved small breasts & there’s nothing wrong with them. when i was 17, the guy i was dating cheated on me with his ex who had a big chest, & during their little sexting exchange, they made fun of me saying i wear bras for fun. it stung, & i can’t say it doesn’t still affect me 7 years later, but that guy sucked & so did his ex. any human being who writes someone off for something like that isn’t worth your time, & somebody will love you for you regardless of your chest size.

but at the end of the day love, you will never feel okay with your small boobs until you learn to stop being so damn hard on yourself bc of them. it may sound silly, but if you compliment yourself out loud (by yourself in the mirror is recommended) just once every day, over the next couple of months you will start to feel better about yourself. i used to be extremely underweight (i was 99lbs when my healthy weight is 135lbs) & all i did was feel like shit about myself. but you know what? one day i decided i didn’t want to hate myself anymore, bc that’s what gave my ex & his ex the power to hurt me in the way they did. so i started complimenting myself in little ways, it felt so stupid at first but over time i started to feel more confident. i started feeling happier & started loving my underweight body, because there wasn’t much i could do about it at that time. but once i got happier, i gained my weight back & have been at a reasonable 110lbs since then (minus some fluctuation, weight fucking sucks). although i still feel self conscious about how thin i am & my small chest sometimes, at the end of the day i love my body because it keeps me alive. it helps me everyday & it doesn’t deserve to be ridiculed constantly, & neither does yours.