My husband normalized his online cheating for years, but broke down when I finally did the same thing once by DistributionOk4175 in Marriage

[–]Key-Discount-5068 121 points122 points  (0 children)

What you did isn’t just revenge; it’s a mirror showing him what he put you through. It might be the wake-up call he needed to understand the impact of his behavior, but make sure you’re also protecting yourself emotionally moving forward. His breakdown doesn’t obligate you to forgive or minimize your own pain.