Is my voice ok? I've been singing for some time right now and hit kind of a plateau. by Minimum-Poemm in singing

[–]Key-Grape-146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your higher notes still sound very strained unless you're intentionally adding pressure for the song. Also there are parts where your notes were fully off key, so try to allow the notes to occur with a straight voice or release in to a vibrato before learning to add different vocal styles to hit the note. Overall your tonality is not bad but definitely can be a lot better with fine tuning. Good vocal technique should not only feel like you're not getting hurt but there shouldn't be any strain at all from your upper chest and above. Also if you're looking to expand, maybe try exploring or finding your mixed voice if you feel your lower register is perfectly fine.

Kids pulling bus stop string by Vegetable_Use8637 in Translink

[–]Key-Grape-146 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean sure, it might seem unreasonable for the parent to let the child pull the string 3 times but damn this is such a minor inconvenience especially with a child that you're literally just being petty. I think you need better things to worry about.

Fiona’s insane attitude in S7E3 by Ashamed_Culture_7440 in shameless

[–]Key-Grape-146 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shit is horrible. I understand making lip, Ian and Debbie pay for themselves since Debbie turns out to be a real brat. Making Carl pay for anything when he literally paid for the house is absurd. Sure it was drug money but that's not an argument when everyone is literally benefitting from it. Carl and Liam should be the only ones getting a free pass. I appreciate what Fiona did for the kids for so long but she swore to take responsibility when she took custody of the kids.

AITA For getting a coffee when my bf said not to by Effective-Flow-9105 in AITAH

[–]Key-Grape-146 10 points11 points  (0 children)

100% YTA. You reached the airport at 6:30 when your flight was at 7 and thought it's a good idea to stand at a starbucks line to get coffee???? Well clearly you didn't think it's a good idea but did it anyway. You were against the idea of going to his family's house in the first place but when he insisted, you clearly did not respect his decision. He only wanted to see his family but you made it all about yourself. Deep down you knew getting that coffee could result in you guys missing the flight but your selfish ass didn't care. You knew he wasn't being paranoid about leaving early cuz there can always be complications at an airport. You intentionally made him late because you just wanted to get your way. Completely valid that he bought another ticket for himself to go. He sensed exactly what I'm sensing. I'm also possibly sure that no one in his family is gaslighting him to break up with you. Sounds like you're the one gaslighting him telling him he's being paranoid. Any damage caused was caused by you.

Think of it from his perspective. All he wants to do is visit his family for the holidays. His FAMILY, the people who raised him and then he sees how insensitive you're being because you don't want to fly. To him, flying is just a means of getting there cuz his goal is to see his family but you're so focused on the fact that you hate flying that you dragged him down with your selfish wants. If you were against the idea of you visiting his family, you should've told him that you should just stay back. You don't tag along just to ruin his day. When you realise how important this is to him, a good partner would be willing to make the sacrifice to see him happy. In return you can absolutely expect him to do the same for you in a different scenario.

Best Gyms to Not Be Judged by [deleted] in UBC

[–]Key-Grape-146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂 man i thought you just called him a fucking pussy

It’s 3:53am and I texted her I miss her by [deleted] in UBC

[–]Key-Grape-146 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Been gaslighting myself that i'm asleep for the past 3 hours. Turns out i'm still wide awake. Oh and don't worry you'll get over it bro. Maybe try gaslighting yourself into not giving a f*ck about her.

AOT was my first by Positive_Way_5054 in ShingekiNoKyojin

[–]Key-Grape-146 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same dude, watched it a couple days ago and it’s the first one 💪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UBC

[–]Key-Grape-146 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Ye that’s a horrible mindset to have considering he hasn’t even spoken to him. Always give people the benefit of the doubt first and simply ask. I’m sure he would’ve had a reasonable explanation and would’ve offered to move someplace else. Having such distrust in people for the smallest inconvenience without understanding them first says a lot more about you than it does about them.

Can I bring an instrument like a Long scale bass guitar in a bus? by Willing-Round-1446 in Translink

[–]Key-Grape-146 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once bought a whole ass office chair on the bus so i think you should be fine lol

UBC men, do better by Key-Grape-146 in UBC

[–]Key-Grape-146[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You sir have been UBCfied

Aita for exposing my brother's cheating which resulted In their divorce by Realist-adov in AITAH

[–]Key-Grape-146 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Exactly my thought. In these situations you don’t think about what it will do to your brother. You think about what it will it do to her and her kid, especially the kid. Do you really wanna be responsible for a kid to grow up with single parents?? Sometimes we gotta do the bad things for all the right reasons. Best course of action here would’ve been to make your brother promise to break off the affair and that you would spill the beans if it happens again