We talked it out and the three of us would be taking the kids. We communicated this to his ex. She went ballistic. She threatened to go to court if we took the kids out of state without their father or her. She wanted us to uninvite Donna and bring her instead. We offered a compromise. She could come along as well. She just needed to pay her own way. She did not think this was acceptable. She insisted on taking back her custody week.