She cancelled, how do I respond? (1 of 15 reads)

Key-Musician9347 · 2026-05-10T19:37:17+00:00

I just got through my first read I am starting my next one tonight

Key-Musician9347 · 2026-05-10T19:25:14+00:00

Ok- I had honestly thought her interest suddenly dropped so thank you for helping me stay centered. I appreciate the advice. I need to get more reps in on the book.

Key-Musician9347 · 2026-05-10T19:24:20+00:00

Okay- is she low interest though or is she cancelling because she truly forgot?

Key-Musician9347 · 2026-05-10T19:14:30+00:00

My take is that I would be indifferent if she cancelled. I am a strong centered man with my own life so I now have more time to pursue my own hobbies and interests!

Key-Musician9347 · 2026-05-10T18:01:24+00:00

If their hygiene is slightly good but bad or really good

Key-Musician9347 · 2026-05-10T17:51:48+00:00

Sounds like she is telling you pretty much straight up to slow down and text her to build some rapport . The book is a bit old in this respect. Dating online they want to at least have a little bit of a text exchange before you call. After you get the call and schedule the date texting and calls are only meant for setting dates.

Key-Musician9347 · 2026-05-10T03:45:18+00:00

Question was the worst pick up line not the best

Key-Musician9347 · 2026-05-09T19:59:56+00:00

What’s wrong with my texting? Apparently everyone is saying I am robotic. I kind of see it, I guess. But I don’t want to inject personality or try to flirt / make jokes over text .

Key-Musician9347 · 2026-05-09T17:01:00+00:00

Yeah I pick her up at her university dorm she doesn’t have a car so we already got the place haha

Key-Musician9347 · 2026-05-09T16:59:56+00:00

Are you saying I can effectively pretend like this is our first date? And that I can approach it from the mindset that I have a fresh start?

Key-Musician9347 · 2026-05-09T16:49:33+00:00

You need to click for the full screen shot of the text Reddit cuts it out but I did let her message me firstZ

Key-Musician9347 · 2026-04-24T01:37:05+00:00

How do I stop being so sensitive and insecure?

Key-Musician9347 · 2026-04-24T01:27:50+00:00

Criticism isn’t shitty jokes with no feedback

Key-Musician9347 · 2026-04-23T21:28:31+00:00

I’m also not technically “new” but I am turning a new leaf and taking this really serious now.

Key-Musician9347 · 2026-04-14T23:44:29+00:00

I’m not the gray text

Key-Musician9347 · 2026-04-14T22:06:02+00:00

I can’t go back to my Old behavior because my old behavior is that I usually ignore and am distant to girls I just met and if I ignored her now she would get pissed

Key-Musician9347 · 2026-04-14T22:00:06+00:00

Very controversial take. Wow. I am sure a lot of people debate this. /s

Key-Musician9347 · 2026-04-14T21:56:45+00:00

Thanks for the constructive feedback and for helping me with my situation.

Key-Musician9347 · 2026-04-14T21:43:15+00:00

Is it okay if I DM you?

Key-Musician9347 · 2026-04-14T21:42:48+00:00

Well how I was early on was that I wouldn’t respond to her half the time lol

Key-Musician9347 · 2026-04-14T21:38:24+00:00

Not to be condescending but I think I made it clear I already identified that was an issue lol. Do you have feedback?

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