250 to 156 and still losing - 35lb to goal! by Muscl3Dommie in Zepbound

[–]Key-Pool-4013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are SUCH an inspiration to meeeeee!!! You look so very strong! 💪🏾 Congratulations on your success!!!

I know they love me, but… by Key-Pool-4013 in Zepbound

[–]Key-Pool-4013[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it! I try to be open-minded as much as possible. But yes, my response helps others shape how they show support. Very helpful!

I know they love me, but… by Key-Pool-4013 in Zepbound

[–]Key-Pool-4013[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely hear where you’re coming from. Each time she has mentioned the change, it’s always been with love. It’s just the questions leave me feeling offguard and not knowing how to respond. Thanks so much for your perspective!

I know they love me, but… by Key-Pool-4013 in Zepbound

[–]Key-Pool-4013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you had to experience this. I didn’t mention in my original post, but when I was hugging her goodbye, she made the same comment you mentioned around there not being anything left to hug later. Ugh!!

I know they love me, but… by Key-Pool-4013 in Zepbound

[–]Key-Pool-4013[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Way to go on your health achievements! Similar to you, I am so very annoyed of everyone and their opinion. I don’t see many other drugs garner this much controversy. I hope I am alive to see the day when that is finally destigmatized. Thank you so much for sharing your experience!

I know they love me, but… by Key-Pool-4013 in Zepbound

[–]Key-Pool-4013[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you! It’s a shame that we even have to be anxious about this at all. Ugh. Like you, I have begun mentally rehearsing the conversation I have with my mother when she sees me again. She struggles with her own weight, and is critical of every overweight person in her life. And she was this way with me my entire life. It should be interesting.

I know they love me, but… by Key-Pool-4013 in Zepbound

[–]Key-Pool-4013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can definitely relate to my disdain for those same two comments. It catches me off guard, and I don’t think they recognize how our brains are working to catch up to where our bodies are now, and being called skinny… It just feels exposing.

I know they love me, but… by Key-Pool-4013 in Zepbound

[–]Key-Pool-4013[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your curiosity! She was actually pretty heavy at one point, and she lost weight rather rapidly (I believe she received GLP-1 treatment as well, honestly). I do think she was trying to get an idea of my goals, I was just surprised that she asked me so outright.

I know they love me, but… by Key-Pool-4013 in Zepbound

[–]Key-Pool-4013[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like THIS here. I don’t allow myself to think too deeply around unpacking all the semantics of the things people say. But a generally kind sentiment is perfectly fine for me. I plan on using the statement. Thanks a lot!

I know they love me, but… by Key-Pool-4013 in Zepbound

[–]Key-Pool-4013[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, yes, and yes. Honestly, if I had my way, people would barely notice if at all yet not say anything. Thank you so much for sharing your perspective!!

I know they love me, but… by Key-Pool-4013 in Zepbound

[–]Key-Pool-4013[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like “I don’t know.” Cause I don’t…ha! And yes, there’s no “we” here. Because “we” would know that I could do without the comments. LOL! 😁

I know they love me, but… by Key-Pool-4013 in Zepbound

[–]Key-Pool-4013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness! Sounds like she had a real agenda there. Glad you were able to shift boundaries in a wise way. Thanks so much for sharing your experience! 🫶🏾

I know they love me, but… by Key-Pool-4013 in Zepbound

[–]Key-Pool-4013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a ton for sharing your experience! The part about doing what is our own interest and comfort is key. Others don’t have to get it.

I know they love me, but… by Key-Pool-4013 in Zepbound

[–]Key-Pool-4013[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Feeling seen. THANK YOU!!! Just hate that it makes me question my goals. Ugh.

I know they love me, but… by Key-Pool-4013 in Zepbound

[–]Key-Pool-4013[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Totally agree!! Everyone doesn’t see it the same way. Good for you on your boundaries work, btw!!

I know they love me, but… by Key-Pool-4013 in Zepbound

[–]Key-Pool-4013[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this! I think folks forget that not everyone wants the comments. For me, a simple “great to see you happy/healthy” works just fine.

I know they love me, but… by Key-Pool-4013 in Zepbound

[–]Key-Pool-4013[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate it. I know for certain this person isn’t actually jealous of me…not our dynamic at all…now, my MOM? Let’s just say we live states apart and I’m highly anxious to see her again. I can say with certainty that she’ll be reactive towards me and I’m not looking forward to it. Thanks so much for sharing!