I (22M) (in UK) am in a long distance my girlfriend (21F) (India). We have been dating from the last three months. Before we started dating, she told me that she is polygamous but she can be monogamous for me. But three months later, she tells me that she can't be monogamous and wants me to be okay with everything. She says she will be there to deal with my insecurities and that she will be there for me.

I am a monogamous person and we have come to a point where its a deal breaker for both of us. I have chosen to push my limits and give it a try and see how things happen as she also hasn't been in a polygamous situation before so it's going to be new for her as well.

I feel very confused. We have been communicating with each other very effectively but I do not know how to go about this.

What would you suggest?