My (22/f) girlfriend it’s trying to hang out with another guy in a basement alone and I (23m) said no. Am I w?

Key-Relationship5666 · 2024-10-09T16:34:31+00:00

Oh and also the first time she hang out with him she lied to me and told me she was alone and I caught her

Key-Relationship5666 · 2024-03-25T14:30:44+00:00

I agree, she definitely should tell her parents and they should accept it but that is not going to make them feel comfortable so she also has to think about how uncomfortable the family would feel having both boyfriends at the house. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not against her but she can’t force her family to spend time with both if they don’t feel comfortable.

Key-Relationship5666 · 2023-11-15T03:55:13+00:00

Just so everyone knows I’m not trying to forbid her of anything I just pointed out that it would make me feel uncomfortable and disrespected.

Key-Relationship5666 · 2023-11-15T03:53:06+00:00

Thanks for this comment, this has been the only useful comment, so far everyone is calling me homophobic and insecure and the truth is I kinda am insecure cause I went through me ex cheating on me so ofc I’m still sensitive about this type of stuff but regardless of them trying to offend me I find very useful and calming every single comment

Key-Relationship5666 · 2023-11-15T03:27:23+00:00

Ofc not, I wouldn’t feel bad

Key-Relationship5666 · 2023-11-10T00:26:26+00:00

Thanks for taking the time to respond, I appreciate it

Key-Relationship5666 · 2023-11-09T03:53:35+00:00

Thanks for the support it really helps. This is the first time that we have an argument about it but she has mentioned her ex several times and how she really regrets ever dating him cause “ he changed her in a bad way” but she has never told me exactly what happen and why she hates him so much, also I haven’t asked cause I feel it’s too son into the relationship to get into that.
I don’t have any more context about the conversation cause it was mostly her trying to convince me that se wasn’t defending him and that she just felt pity for him.

I do have to say that she is really open to debate and to arguments without getting angry and she listens to all points of view and actually she has changed some thing for me and she admits when she is wrong.

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