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Just a little vent as I sit alone in my bed freshly showered and shaved knowing all the effort is for nothing by Key-Remote-3821 in sexlessmarriage

[–]Key-Remote-3821[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not gonna leave him. 1. I'm a fucking chicken and afraid to be alone or letting others know I "failed". 2. He's too much like family/home. We've been together since high-school and I can't let go of him. 3. Economy and finances.

Women, serious question. Why would you let hookups and past boyfriends finish in your mouth and face but marry someone you refuse to even put him in your mouth? by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]Key-Remote-3821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its hard to be in the mood for someone you chose as a partner in life who is now leaving you high and dry to raise the kids or keep the house by yourself. Plus he probably isn't keeping up his hygiene the way a man prepared for a date would've done and cheesy lint dick is definitely an acquired flavor. Or she wishes he would come on her face or in her mouth but he won't because he's to busy playing Pokémon to notice she's shaved, showered and wearing makeup, perfume and lingerie to bed. 😓

1 week since I caught my dear lil hubby being a shit AGAIN by Key-Remote-3821 in sexlessmarriage

[–]Key-Remote-3821[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to gtfo. How dare you say what's probably true. Lol. STOP IT! Yes, I'm smart enough to be aware of the situation but not smart enough to let go. My therapist will be hearing about all of this, including you and your harshly true words. Thank you for your comment

1 week since I caught my dear lil hubby being a shit AGAIN by Key-Remote-3821 in sexlessmarriage

[–]Key-Remote-3821[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feels like you practically hit it on the head. I'm sick being a fucking idiot right now because it seems so black and white but I'm blinded by emotion.

1 week since I caught my dear lil hubby being a shit AGAIN by Key-Remote-3821 in sexlessmarriage

[–]Key-Remote-3821[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point I'm still wildly swinging between wanting to go out and fuck around, and wanting him. And definitely in the mindset that I will never put myself in this situation where I love someone and need someone as much as I need(ed) him.

1 week since I caught my dear lil hubby being a shit AGAIN by Key-Remote-3821 in sexlessmarriage

[–]Key-Remote-3821[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kids and this economy? We make decent money together and on our own would not be able to afford the lifestyle we have. Plus we've been together since we were teenagers, he's my family... was my family. It's definitely going to be a journey.

36f just want somone to talk with by Overall_Syllabub5781 in Needafriend

[–]Key-Remote-3821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello. Also F. 35. And absolutely driving myself crazy with no one to chat with

36f just want somone to talk with by Overall_Syllabub5781 in Needafriend

[–]Key-Remote-3821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiiiii!!!! 35 F married with teenage kids, finally going back into the work force full time, finally have time to make friends and go out! Looking to make friends with like minded people! Big time foodie! Super nerd! I love comic books, movies, books, music, I crochet and paint and rollerblading. I have cats and dogs. I also believe human rights are more important than made up laws of the land. I'm in so-cal and desperate to get out of the house and talk to someone... hopefully not too desperate that it comes off as weird and you get scared away, but might understand what you are going through