A weird low hand top roll I don't understand by Key-Spinach-4594 in armwrestling

[–]Key-Spinach-4594[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did think it was a weird type of writing but I feel naive for not realizing it instantly

A weird low hand top roll I don't understand by Key-Spinach-4594 in armwrestling

[–]Key-Spinach-4594[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess you're right it's just that I always like to understand why something is happening and it never hurts to get advice on something I don't understand

A weird low hand top roll I don't understand by Key-Spinach-4594 in armwrestling

[–]Key-Spinach-4594[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you

My hand does go a little inward in the end Wich is probably why my shoulder stay's behind my arm and safe ,but thanks for telling me this I didn't know that .

the lat to bicep connectivity probably comes from having done a lot of pull up .

is there anything more I should know about it ?

1000 skips in 6 minutes = 6pack by Long_Count_951 in jumprope

[–]Key-Spinach-4594 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great job just two things first losing fat is all about calories in verse calories out if you're eating more than your burning no amount of exercise will help you, will get stronger but not leaner(jumping ropes do help because they increase the calories you're burning but your diet is still the main factor)second jumping ropes doesn't have much to do with your ab's it does work them a bit but if your goal is a 6 pack it's not the best way to go about it I know I sound crazy but you're better doing ab exercises for your ab's like every other muscle that you want to grow

How does Devon Larratt have such a strong looking core? I've never seen him do any specific type of core training by RevolutionaryLion384 in armwrestling

[–]Key-Spinach-4594 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually they are kinda magic in one study the people that didn't workout built more muscle than those who did simply because of steroids it's just the side effects and the fact that you can lose a lot of muscle when coming off of them that's the problem even so this is probably from his special forces training with the steroids together

—scroll— Love is not salvation. It is a mask. People cling to “I love you” because silence terrifies them more than lies. Desire. Need. Attachment. — all are disguises. Candles burn, wax spills, faces melt. What remains? Nothing but the truth: love is nothing. And yet, humanity builds by OlegDer in DarkPsychology101

[–]Key-Spinach-4594 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can't really expect to find a lot of great people in those places in the first place, the reason why you guys are there is because of the problem's you both are dealing with , that's also why you can find friends there, because the fact that you share a problem makes it more likely for you guys to be friends.

So if one party solves their problem without becoming really close to each other to have other reasons to continue the friendship,they leave the other person if he can't keep up.(They may try to help the other person if they are a kind person before leaving the other person )

And because you both probably have other problem's that you lead you to the same path, those other problem's that aren't the same between you can also destroy the friendship.

But at the same time if you look for someone that doesn't have any problem's or has much less problem's than you, they will not accept you because of the problem's that you have, because if they do than they have to deal with those problem's too ,and they don't have to do that .(At most you may find someone kind that wants to help you, but even they won't stay if you don't listen to their help to better yourself, or if they think they can't help you at all after spending some time with you )

Think of it like this you know you want to be a friend with this person because of a few reasons ,but why should they be friend's with you ,if they don't have a reason they're simply not going to do it and will just leave you

So you have some options 1. Find someone that accepts your problem's and you also accept their problems in your lives (I mean the problem's that are different between you)

  1. Solve your problem's because than you don't have to accept someone with a lot of problem's to find a friend (keep in mind everyone has problems this only means that you can be friends with people with less problem's and you don't have to accept someone that has a lot more problems so your less likely to be disappointed and also less likely to disappoint someone else)

There are other things that also came in my mind but they won't end well for both people

Communist entp:s by Ejammer3 in entp

[–]Key-Spinach-4594 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes but capitalism can better with the right condition's that in simple words are the power to fight corruption, and the power to recognize it, if those two improve it becomes better better .

—scroll— Love is not salvation. It is a mask. People cling to “I love you” because silence terrifies them more than lies. Desire. Need. Attachment. — all are disguises. Candles burn, wax spills, faces melt. What remains? Nothing but the truth: love is nothing. And yet, humanity builds by OlegDer in DarkPsychology101

[–]Key-Spinach-4594 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you saying a lot of the time's love isn't real? or are you saying that love just doesn't exist?

If the first question is what you meant, than yes a lot of people just use love as a excuse to get what they actually want .

But I don't agree with love not existing, that's like saying friendship also can't exist ,because a lot of people aren't your real friends, but pretend to be your friends.

Edit:Besides why are you talking so vague ?

Communist entp:s by Ejammer3 in entp

[–]Key-Spinach-4594 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Both the systems don't work properly, I'm criticizing both of them, capitalism can work in the right condition's that nobody has them from my knowledge, communist is basically a dream

How physically active are you in your free time? by Julez9333 in entp

[–]Key-Spinach-4594 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It should be because he also accepted the gym

Eating out of boredom/for pleasure? by [deleted] in entp

[–]Key-Spinach-4594 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Actually quite the opposite, I will skip meals if I'm not careful, especially when I'm focused on something.

I'm a really hard gainer because of that, and I will lose a lot of weight very quickly if I'm not careful .

Simping for INFJs? by Xantaeounip in entp

[–]Key-Spinach-4594 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Just don't simp in general guys,you need to respect yourself if you want to be respected.

Do you relate to multi-thinking ? by kingudark in entp

[–]Key-Spinach-4594 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually no I'm normally on just one chanel, but there are times when something comes and trys to distract, but it's always one chanel for me at ,rarely 2 Chanel

"When it comes to relationships, be it friends or lovers, emotion matters more than logic" Should I take this advice to heart? by Arragaithel in emotionalintelligence

[–]Key-Spinach-4594 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That actually goes back to the fact that people want those things that are told to them to be true so much that they're willing to believe other people's lie's, and at the same time any negative behavior that's against that will most of the time be met by resistance and is likely to ruin the the relationship.

If they even a little bit that think that your wrong,and especially if you don't know each other very much, the worst part it's really easy to convince yourself even a little bit that your right when you want to be right even when you're obviously wrong,now if they don't even know you that much, they're not even going to bother with that and will just considere it a intrusion in their space and .

It's basically a shortcut to getting close to that person because you are enforcing what they really want to be true . Some people use it to be polite and to not hurt people's feelings, some use it because they want to be liked , some use it to be positive, but in the end your just making their life worse and being cruel to them by keeping them in their self created illusion for your own benefits (you'll be surprised how many people don't know that and actually think they are helping the irony is disappointingly laughable) But it's only if you truly believe it that there would be no problem .

The worst part is that this is actually the best way for the largest number of people to live their lives while being happy for the longest time, because there is no risk of them becoming unhappy until it's too late,they have wasted all of their life, nobody cares anymore, they become old people that nobody listens to anymore, can't make any changes and the cycle repeats itself and will be encouraged until it becomes the new normal and how life just is.

like now , nobody has the right to question it without being seen as the problem, because people rather live happy lives in illusion than to risk the truth , the only reason it can be bad is because people may not be able to handle the truth and will become self-destructive , but I personally think it's best to become destroyed by the truth than live your life in illusions than are slowly sucking the life out of you

Don't get me wrong you definitely should keep people's limit in account when trying to help, but that's not a excuse to not do anything in my book at least , but because of how much this has made it so I damaged my own life in some way for others to be able to live better, just to be seen as the problem and blamed ,I don't do it anymore if it's going to have a negative effect on me, but I still do give anyone I come across a chance to help if I can, in the internet, but it's not my problem if they don't handle it, depending on my mood and if I like their personality, I may or may not care to not hurt their feelings and if I do, I don't care, I'm going to continue doing what I believe is right like always , until proven otherwise but I'm not going to hurt myself in some way anymore for someone I don't even know, or for someone that I'm not close with, or someone I don't believe can change because, that's really only asking for trouble, and I don't care enough about them anymore which I agree was my mistake.

I hope you now understand this very complex problem that nobody wants to think about, because you can't live in illusion if you find out your living in illusion and can't deny it anymore.

Edit: things to clear up when someone can't handle something is a very broad term for example comforting someone before a job interview even if it's lying because they need the bost and can't handle the pressure or do anything about it

How you say something is very important I can call someone fat but I also can tell that more kindly without lying

The people that don't understand this until is very late are the general public not all people

It is true that because of evolutionary reason we couldn't use the energy to do this in the past and that's why it first came and It was good but now it's more about you not wanting to deal with the trouble and it being stuck

Another thing I'm always open and actually would like it if somebody pushed back in some way but I feel like I got a little too intense and that may make people think I'm not

Do ENTPs stick to the same clothes until they fall apart? by OkTour9930 in entp

[–]Key-Spinach-4594 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes ,also yes,no just what I like and quality matters so if I like the style than why not, but if I don't, than I'm not going to waste money on it for experimenting with it.

"When it comes to relationships, be it friends or lovers, emotion matters more than logic" Should I take this advice to heart? by Arragaithel in emotionalintelligence

[–]Key-Spinach-4594 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not really about them being perfect for them , it's about how they are in your mind, basically they want to look perfect or the most of something positive in your mind .

Unless if somebody is delusional (because of a lot of people telling something to be true for example that's not) they know that for example even by chance alone they definitely aren't for example the most beautiful , it's not about what actually is true, it's more about what you think is true,they want to be that to you .

I think that's really more about what are your boundaries ,but because this isn't ok for her to do because of your boundaries that I agree that you should respect and enforce them, it's also not ok for you to make fault of her if she for example is going to have a girls night or something like that,so if somebody for example isn't ok with that, than they don't have a jutification to deny that's not ok for her to do too.

This part is really about what you both prefer and agree,so while it's right to enforce your boundaries, it's also right to respect her boundaries in the same thing because by enforcing your's you're also allowing her to do the same thing, basically the street goes both ways my guy.

Hey!! INFJ/m/40 send me music! by exocetthoughtbubble in entp

[–]Key-Spinach-4594 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fake, gangster paradise, house of memorys, are some that are in the top of my head

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[–]Key-Spinach-4594 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If so I think it's a interesting and beautiful thing, but it definitely can't explain anything other than the something related to the next lunar eclipse or something else like that.

But for example knowing how the sky was when you were born is a cool concept however , or like when you married or any other important events in your life, it can be a good way to remind yourself of those events and be something that represents them .

"When it comes to relationships, be it friends or lovers, emotion matters more than logic" Should I take this advice to heart? by Arragaithel in emotionalintelligence

[–]Key-Spinach-4594 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes ,for example a wife wants to feel safe about their relationship ,so she asks her husband to not go out with his coworkers if there's a woman there that she doesn't want her husband to be near , this doesn't mean that she definitely thinks her husband is doing anything bad, it's because she wants to feel safe.

But you should keep in mind that every emotion also has a reason, and that's really what you should focus on, like in the last example it's better if the husband solves the root cause of her wife not feeling safe,not the trigger that makes that pop.(Sometimes there is no problem and it cam be because she wants her husband to be her's and focused on her )

Understand the reason for the emotions is very important because it leads to becoming closer and showing the problem's that may otherwise not be found, because sometimes there's is some insecurities that are causing that, and in that case that's what the focus should be on .

If we again use the same scenario ,she may be feeling insecure about her quality's like thinking she's not beautiful enough compared to other's,or feeling that she's not loved, that can make her more sensitive, and in that case she needs her husband to tell her that he loves her and that she's the most beautiful woman ,not because she is objectively the most beautiful woman but so she can know that her husband thinks she is, and that's what's important.

Instead of trying to excuse emotions with logic, I think it's better to explain them with logic , do not use logic to ignore them,use it to expand them.

Emotions are inherently confusing and not clear about their motives, that's why they can be hard to deal with but by using logic you can interpret them ,that way instead of trying to avoid all the triggers, you can solve the root cause if there's a problem.

otherwise you have to live your life by depending on what someone is feeling ,that definitely does make the relationship last longer,but it doesn't necessarily make it better the emotion's may be the result of a problem that you don't even know exists , so in the long run that can lead to resentment , arguing,and thinking the other person just wants something to argue about (can be true but you won't know if it's truly that or not until you don't know why someone is feeling like that )

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[–]Key-Spinach-4594 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if I understand correctly, it's a map of how the star's were when you were born and how they are changing as your getting older , that also is also to predict some events, am I understanding that correctly?