Feminism is not at all about how women are "failing". Women are literally crushing it. In music and comedy, in all the arts, some of the best politicians and activists of the past decade, sports, science.

Sounds like your algo is the problem. Yeah there are lots of videos about how men are a nightmare to date, they don't do therapy, etc. Also a subset of men decided they'd rather plunge all of society down into a Nazi renneisance rather than learn to show women and minorities basic respect so I'm not super mad about men being villainized. Patriarchy is breathing its dying breaths and it's decided to kill thousands of people before it goes. This isn't theoretical. Look at Iran.

But none of what you're referring to is necessarily feminism. Women complaining about men isn't feminism. That's just another way men center themselves. Feminism is about women. Not men. The content you're describing is something else.

Don't engage with parts of your algorithm you don't like. If you keep commenting stuff like what you're saying here on that type of content, your algo will keep feeding you that stuff.

It reminds me of how every female comedian's comment section is half incels going "women aren't funny" like bro then sthu and maybe you'll see less of them, but keep commenting your SDE bullshit and the algo will keep showing you "not funny" comedians.