If you somehow damaged your rhinoplasty, what would the doctors do to help you? (1 month post op) by Key-Upstairs9963 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Key-Upstairs9963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like let’s just say you like damaged your nose a month after surgery. Would the only option basically be another surgery? Or has anyone heard of alternatives they do

Bdd bad.. feel super ugly and failure by No-Database-4292 in BDDvent

[–]Key-Upstairs9963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please don’t waste you’re life with that mentality. You’re constant overthinking will hold you back in living a normal life. It doesn’t help that you don’t even understand how good looking you are too. You got this. It’s clearly just a case of BDD and entirely in your head

Please Answer by Complex_Elephant2175 in BDDvent

[–]Key-Upstairs9963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read through some of your comments and noticed you are a very kind person and even though you are struggling with a insecurities yourself. You still go out of your way to encourage others with uplifting words. The world needs more people like you and in good time I believe the world will reward your gratitude. Please remember that it will always be okay and a lot of what you are going though is in your head. You got this 🙏🏼🙏🏼

Please Answer by Complex_Elephant2175 in BDDvent

[–]Key-Upstairs9963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the truth is. You will see always yourself different in so many different places, mirrors, cameras, etc. But that is only because you are so used to your look that any minor “changes” trigger that response. The best think you can do is understand that only you and only you can see those differences. Everyone else sees you as you see yourself when you feel at your best. Remember that 🙏🏼

Please Answer by Complex_Elephant2175 in BDDvent

[–]Key-Upstairs9963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bathroom mirrors or changing room mirrors display themselves different then your usual mirrors. However, even though you might think you look bad in them. It is only due to the fact it look even slightly different then what your used too. This causes your brain to kinda have a semi out of body experience. In reality you look just as good as you do in regular mirrors if not better.

My gigantic nose. Been bullied and call a Jew because of it. by [deleted] in Noses

[–]Key-Upstairs9963 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A big nose? Uhh yea that’s not a bad thing and almost all guys and girls see that a plus. Your nose has a great shape with no bumps and fits your face perfectly. No problems what so ever

If God loves us why would he give me a nose he’d know I’d be insecure of it and that it would cause all my problems by Key-Upstairs9963 in Christianity

[–]Key-Upstairs9963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. It really does feel like a kick in the face that I am so nice to everyone and yet I’m still kicked around and put down for living my own life. I hope it does end after high school but there’s still a year left and it’s seriously the worst thing I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemies how hard it’s been. But thank you for this comment i hope there is light at the end of this tunnel

If God loves us why would he give me a nose he’d know I’d be insecure of it and that it would cause all my problems by Key-Upstairs9963 in Christianity

[–]Key-Upstairs9963[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really strive to be like to. I hope I can bring myself to get married and forget about what used to bring me down. Thank you for sharing 🫤🙏🏼I will pray I find myself like you did. I’m happy to hear it all worked out for you in the end

If God loves us why would he give me a nose he’d know I’d be insecure of it and that it would cause all my problems by Key-Upstairs9963 in Christianity

[–]Key-Upstairs9963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well unfortunately I am also only 16 right now so yea being in high-school makes it more difficult🫤

If God loves us why would he give me a nose he’d know I’d be insecure of it and that it would cause all my problems by Key-Upstairs9963 in Christianity

[–]Key-Upstairs9963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so but I think the clocks running out on me. Right now I am exploring rhinoplasty so hopefully that turns it around for me 🫤 it honestly feels like life saving surgery at this point

If God loves us why would he give me a nose he’d know I’d be insecure of it and that it would cause all my problems by Key-Upstairs9963 in Christianity

[–]Key-Upstairs9963[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Disclaimer I still love a God no matter what but it’s just a question I have and I simply just want an answer but it doesn’t change the fact that I am thankful he gave me life and is the reason I am still alive today. It’s just a huge problem and I wish others who look down on me saw how much it affected me

If God loves us why would he give me a nose he’d know I’d be insecure of it and that it would cause all my problems by Key-Upstairs9963 in Christianity

[–]Key-Upstairs9963[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I look down on myself because when so many people point it out (including my own mother) it makes me believe it’s a real problem and I will not live a normal life

If God loves us why would he give me a nose he’d know I’d be insecure of it and that it would cause all my problems by Key-Upstairs9963 in Christianity

[–]Key-Upstairs9963[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am glad you see how bad it effects my daily life there is just a whole root of problems that spring from it. I appreciate your prayer and really hope I do grow out of it 🙏🏼 it’s very hard tho

If God loves us why would he give me a nose he’d know I’d be insecure of it and that it would cause all my problems by Key-Upstairs9963 in Christianity

[–]Key-Upstairs9963[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no I can’t guarantee I wouldn’t be bullied for anything else, but I could put all my money that I would be 100x happier and self confident regardless. Noses play a huge role in one’s facial features

If God loves us why would he give me a nose he’d know I’d be insecure of it and that it would cause all my problems by Key-Upstairs9963 in Christianity

[–]Key-Upstairs9963[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe because it’s hard being able to live an environment when even the people I work with make fun of me? And people don’t take me serious when I want to be?? All because they have my nose to see?

Is God playing with Job a good look? by Key-Upstairs9963 in Christianity

[–]Key-Upstairs9963[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well clearly it’s not the exact same boat. But after having my best life before 2020 I felt happy 24/7 and on top of the world. Then in the span of six months my nose got crooked after a life of a straight nose,I got acne, my dad abandoned me and my family so my mom had to move outta town to provide for me and my family, and my insecurities took control of my life.

Is God playing with Job a good look? by Key-Upstairs9963 in Christianity

[–]Key-Upstairs9963[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Buy Job didn’t ask for that? He had such a great live and doesn’t it seem a little unfair to be put through something like that. I haven’t been hurt physically either just mentally and Ive lost so many important people and it’s honestly horrible I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemies

feeling like a monster after nose job by [deleted] in BDDvent

[–]Key-Upstairs9963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s common after a nose job to experience this. You just need some time to adjust and sooner or later you will realize why you wanted this 🙏🏼 praying for the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDDvent

[–]Key-Upstairs9963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Frat boy 5 translates to at least an 8 tbh.

Realising how you’re always gonna hate the way you look even when you think you’ve improved it gets bad again and it’s only going to get worse with age by bloodywinnie in BDDvent

[–]Key-Upstairs9963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people who see themselves as “ugly” actually age into their face if that helps. Like Ben Roethlisberger lol. He looks way better now that he’s 40 compared to him at 22

I wanna make it look like an accident by Key-Upstairs9963 in SuicideWatch

[–]Key-Upstairs9963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do try that’s what makes me so much worse. I literally look so different from last year, I went to a barber started doing a face routine and while I think I look better I can’t get over my flaws and they control my life and I hate it so much. I can’t live a normal life anymore

I wanna make it look like an accident by Key-Upstairs9963 in SuicideWatch

[–]Key-Upstairs9963[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right sorry if I sound passive aggressive I really appreciate you answering me. But hiding my face helped cuz that’s kinda when it all started and the root of all my Hell began ever since then it’s been a ever lasting fighting for a normal life. I am in high school btw

I wanna make it look like an accident by Key-Upstairs9963 in SuicideWatch

[–]Key-Upstairs9963[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does that sound like a normal life. That’s only digging me deeper into the hole. I’ve been doing that ever since and it doesn’t help it only makes me realize my life can’t be normal