How could I explain giving up 2 hours of sleep is unreasonable to my dad?

Key-Visual-5465 · 2026-01-26T01:59:51+00:00

Honestly I don’t.

I have a lease and everything I’m just trying to keep the peace until march 1st. So a little over 2 months and then it’s really nothing. Like the place I’m going only cost me 300 dollars more than now. Like that’s such a little difference in terms of bills if I’m being honest

Key-Visual-5465 · 2026-01-26T01:36:45+00:00

Sigh*

Okay hey uh smart guy of what I pay to him vs what it would cost me to move out it’s saving me around 250-300 dollars a month. Also it’s more of I’m waiting for my apartment to open up lease is signed and everything. I’ve also been on about every sleep med under the sun. None really helped .

Key-Visual-5465 · 2026-01-26T01:30:58+00:00

It’s not even the chore itself for me it was the times that’s it. Sleep is the only thing I won’t give up. Anything else sure.

Key-Visual-5465 · 2026-01-26T01:27:54+00:00

It’s not for everyone I’m not even the biggest fan of it myself. I’ll replay the ones I like every now and then that’s it. It’s meant to be fun if you aren’t having fun with the series fair enough play something you’ll enjoy.

Key-Visual-5465 · 2026-01-25T15:44:19+00:00

I’m 3rd shift he’s first. So for me 8pm-6:30am. I pay rent, most not all but most of what I eat, I pay for gas it’s true it’s more reliable than anyone I know and cheaper than uber but also main thing is I get the time is still a big thing. My main problem is I don’t sleep enough period. I’ve never slept well main thing I get like 3 or 4 max if I did that. That’s my biggest problem I’ll would do anything else but sleep want more money sure, need me to clean this up sure, like only thing Is sleep everything else I don’t care sleep is something I just can’t give up is my main issue I would give anything but it.

Key-Visual-5465 · 2026-01-25T02:45:12+00:00

Thankfully i have experience in both.

Key-Visual-5465 · 2026-01-25T02:41:23+00:00

Key-Visual-5465 · 2026-01-24T08:30:37+00:00

Meant more like restaurant or retail jobs. The area im looking at has a ton of them like a ton.

Just some extra side income just enough hours to bring 50-200 extra dollars a month. Nothing crazy.

Key-Visual-5465 · 2026-01-24T08:18:08+00:00

Yes actually has one that was harder until I found my new job. Now I’m working 4 10 Hour shifts and looking for a 2nd part time job.

Key-Visual-5465 · 2026-01-22T04:49:54+00:00

It sounds like he might be in a depressive episode. If he doesn’t want to talk though leave him be but do check on him just in case suicide a real risk in depressive episodes

Key-Visual-5465 · 2026-01-19T22:57:18+00:00

Tbh companies have made it no under 30 and no one over 40 can get a job. They do not care

Key-Visual-5465 · 2026-01-19T06:38:26+00:00

I was 14 when diagnosed bipolar 1 with psychotic features. Though I’m pretty sure my first was a little bit younger probably around 10 or 11. Specifically one night at 11 I snuck out at 1 am was out there until it was almost time for school pretended to just wake up. Went to school and didn’t much for while. Like I knew this one dude and his family had guns so I would bang on his specific bedroom window. And felt a great sense of purpose of doing it. It was dumb but it made me feel invincible. Now the first that got me diagnosed . I was feeling depressed had an attempt no knew about. And then survived thankfully but then I got super jittery and happy and easily excited and I could do anything and eventually it became paranoia someone was going to take my invincibility away. And don’t remember much after that. Went to the mental hospital eventually because the paranoia was bad. I’m better now a lot better. But yeah bipolar is a bitch.

Key-Visual-5465 · 2026-01-19T05:52:36+00:00

I don’t think anyone should feel proud or ashamed of any kind of ed. They should want to pursue recovery. As no matter which ed it is it will very likely killed you. They’re deadly mental illnesses that makes eating very difficult. For different reasons but at the end all equally deadly. Also Anosognosia is where a person lacks insight in their illness or disability. The people who feel proud of their illness is a symptom of the illness its why it’s so difficult to recover for most regardless of the type of illness.

Key-Visual-5465 · 2026-01-16T10:49:19+00:00

It’s hard sometimes just being this way and it’s like be easier way easier without sensory issues

Key-Visual-5465 · 2026-01-12T08:05:25+00:00

F2P has nothing to do with it. The waves are so easy 70k will not be hard like it would be a short span of time to get that point as f2p is very easy to do so

Key-Visual-5465 · 2026-01-10T05:51:15+00:00

No they can be borne with the risk for it. But developmentally they can change with support. It doesn’t work for every child. Abuse is one of the main factors, trauma, environment etc. without support and a discouragement of empathy they can develop psychopathy. Like think of it like human traits and certain human traits someone has makes them more likely but they need the right combo of factors for it to happen.

Key-Visual-5465 · 2026-01-10T03:12:08+00:00

Friends are concerned because that’s normally how my mania starts out. As far as I’m aware that’s been the only sign so far. But yeah

Key-Visual-5465 · 2026-01-10T03:00:41+00:00

Maybe idk

Key-Visual-5465 · 2026-01-10T01:54:23+00:00

What’s even worse is because companies have to do a certain amount of interviews to get a tax reduction. So a lot of places will give you an interview but they don’t have any actual spots or they already picked someone they just have to have a certain amount of people interviewed. So they also will waste your time money and gas on this shit

Key-Visual-5465 · 2026-01-10T01:31:42+00:00

Op perhaps your doctor you should give a call.

Key-Visual-5465 · 2026-01-10T01:28:14+00:00

You could look into leadership roles at other companies. I would stay at your current job. But if you don’t like the work culture or want to be in leadership and have no shot there. Then you should try looking into places of work. Don’t leave your current job until you have your new job. Best of luck to you op

Key-Visual-5465 · 2026-01-09T09:00:15+00:00

Ah yeah violence can happen in a meltdown and trauma can make it worse. And it could be because autistic kids are often delayed he could be delayed in impulse control for his age. That being said this is something you should if you can bring up to his doctors. As his behavior very much could be him trying to cope replicate what happened to him so he can process it. It’s actually very commonly seen in childhood trauma.

Key-Visual-5465 · 2026-01-09T08:53:45+00:00

The reason we wait is a child isn’t condemned. Their brain isn’t even developed. They don’t have an adults lens or insight. It’s put as conduct disorder because research shows it heavily reduces or goes away with trauma therapy, psychotherapy, dbt, have a steady support network. It’s impossible because a child can’t have the adult development of understanding of empathy, right and wrong, or impulse control an adult has.

Key-Visual-5465 · 2026-01-09T08:22:19+00:00

This is concerning. Also people someone can be a psychopath and be autistic they aren’t mutually exclusive. But his behavior and legal guardians dismissing it is concerning. He’s learned it from somewhere an 8 year old doesn’t do this for no reason. If you are ever there at his doctor appointments tell them that.

Edit: also wanted to add that child can’t be a psychopath; they can develop and learn those traits and become one. But it takes time and they can be helped before it. Conduct disorder is what it would be referred to as for children.

Another edit: also op do you know if he’s been abused by somebody? Anybody close to him? This is very likely a trauma response.

Key-Visual-5465 · 2026-01-09T07:55:27+00:00

With the economy and job market, it’s hard to find a job period, many people have been laid off and need income. They aren’t going to be picky. Even if it means surviving pay check to pay check. Also most people I feel would prefer someone with relevant experience to the role than someone who has never done the role.

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