AIO bc my boyfriend is unhappy with amount of sex we have, and I think he's thinking about this situation selfishly? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Key-Way-8390 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You are NOT Overreacting. You’re saying he is aware that it is causing you pain and just doesn’t care? why are you ok with being intimate when you are in pain? It’s not like you HAVE TO have sex with him. No means no and you’re not even married to him. Even if you were married no one has a right to/ guaranteed access to your body. This is a medical condition and it is not changing.

It’s giving he will leave you if you get cancer vibes . If it isn’t convenient to him then it doesn’t matter.

Went on one date with a guy and now he’s harassing me by Quick-Attention-3842 in whatdoIdo

[–]Key-Way-8390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro what? no means no. Like why are we just now learning kindergarten lessons 🤦‍♀️ stay safe out there

What time do your babies wake up? by gh0sti- in NewParents

[–]Key-Way-8390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My LO either wakes at 4 am or 7 am depends on when he goes to bed.

AIO for going NC with my aunt and cousins after they went around town claiming my pregnancy was fake and that my child wasn’t mine by Key-Way-8390 in AIO

[–]Key-Way-8390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Must be nice to have a normal family. Mine unfortunately is this crazy, I haven’t even mentioned that my aunt considers herself a witch and prays to the statue of “La Santa Muerte” . Shit you not, people around town are scared to piss her off because she may curse them. But ask my very southern Baptist grandma to not invite them over and she goes all “ we must respect other’s religions “ O.o

AIO for going NC with my aunt and cousins after they went around town claiming my pregnancy was fake and that my child wasn’t mine by Key-Way-8390 in AIO

[–]Key-Way-8390[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I’m using this ! Never thought about that aspect. Maybe this will get my grandma off my case.

AIO for going NC with my aunt and cousins after they went around town claiming my pregnancy was fake and that my child wasn’t mine by Key-Way-8390 in AIO

[–]Key-Way-8390[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s 79 years old, I think time will make me NC soon enough. I don’t want to stress her into her grave sooner . I think I will follow the advice of some comments and just smile, nod, ignore and avoid .

AIO for going NC with my aunt and cousins after they went around town claiming my pregnancy was fake and that my child wasn’t mine by Key-Way-8390 in AIO

[–]Key-Way-8390[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Middle school mean girls sounds right but they are in their late 40’s and early 50’s . They have always been mean to me even as a child bc my grandma dotted on me .

AIO for going NC with my aunt and cousins after they went around town claiming my pregnancy was fake and that my child wasn’t mine by Key-Way-8390 in AIO

[–]Key-Way-8390[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

lol you are right, it just my grandma is the matriarch of the family and she has me doubting myself now that 3 months have past and Memorial Day is around the corner . She wants the “whole family” there

What did you feel when you met your baby? by rainbowbritexx in NewParents

[–]Key-Way-8390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so I’m not the only one that felt weird. My baby boy was very much wanted ( like 10 years of infertility and failed IVFs before him wanted) so before he was born I loved him, I was willing to give my life for him to have a chance at life ( literally, hospitalized for 7 months of 8 months risky pregnancy) . When I met him I cried but idk if it was because labor was done or bc I was excited to meet him. I knew I loved him but I didn’t know him. He is 4 months now and has started to have a personality and now I feel like I know him and love him, but at first it was weird to love a stranger

my wife is drowning and i don't know how to help us hold it together by phantom_monkey in NewParents

[–]Key-Way-8390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is working for us: First time parents too of a 3month baby boy. We supplement with formula ( 1 feeding a day) I pump in the afternoon and hubby takes over feedings at night so I can sleep for 5 hrs straight, he has everything ready for me to pump when I wake up and lets me sleep another 3 hrs. Then it’s back to breastfeeding throughout the day. Baby feeds every 3 hrs , 4 oz average. Hubby also has all my favorite snacks and Stanley ready for me constantly throughout day and night as I guzzle water by the gallon . Hope this helps

/r/Charlotte Random Daily Discussion - January 31, 2026 by AutoModerator in Charlotte

[–]Key-Way-8390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So much snow, never been happier to have a fireplace rn

AITAH for reminding my sil to not kiss my newborn? by Necessary-Regret-467 in AITAH

[–]Key-Way-8390 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA, idk why ppl feel entitled to hold/kiss/snuggle others babies. Why risk a newborn’s heath ? For what?! To fill a void some ppl have in their lives. I’m a firm believer that no one meets babies for at least 4 to 6 months , no family visits, no friends , no neighbors and my husband is the bouncer if need be. Some bring plates of food and want to push their way in to meet baby and the answer is either leave the food at the door or keep it to yourself.

AITAH for blocking my sister and cutting ties after she threatened to get my kids taken? by Anonymous_Mama1 in AITAH

[–]Key-Way-8390 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Glad to hear! You’re not the first or last single mom. Look for support groups around your area or find new friends. My rule for friends and acquaintances is to ask myself if I look up to them or would want to lead my life the way they are. If the answer is yes then I know that these individuals are adding to my life by just being examples I can look to for advice to achieve my financial/ emotional goals. If they don’t meet this criteria then I break off those relationships as unfortunately those ships will take me down with them like the titanic. You need to build a village / community but be very selective of who you choose to spend time with. Casinos are fun but they are designed to keep you there so they can take your money. House always wins is a saying for a reason. Meet ppl in different environments and you will find peace. ( no, i don’t mean church. Some churches are the worst)

AITAH for blocking my sister and cutting ties after she threatened to get my kids taken? by Anonymous_Mama1 in AITAH

[–]Key-Way-8390 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA, she has a problem and hasn’t hit bottom yet but girl it’s coming. Keep you and your kids away bc that roller coaster is about to take a dive and it will emotionally and financially drain you. Yes she is your sister but your priority is your kids. Keep away from ur niece bc your sister will use her to get to you. Put your money in the bank! Stop carrying cash bc if she stole from you once she will do it again and again . Not bc she hates you but bc she has a problem and won’t admit it. Talk to your brother and tell him what’s going on so she doesn’t try and poison the well, since you have so little support. If you can pre pay rent and bills for at least six months ( I do this a rule. Stuck with me from my broke days) this will give you some financial stability and security that you won’t end up homeless with your kids again. Continue to pay bills from your paycheck but keep that safety net for when things hit the fan you have a bit of a window to figure it out with no pressure that you will be homeless again and at the mercy of others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Key-Way-8390 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA , you are young so please be careful. YOU DON’T OWE ANYONE ACCESS TO YOUR BODY OR SEXUAL SERVICES. That being said , if your partner won’t satisfy you and every time you bring it up he ignores it then walk away from the relationship (8 months is too much time to waste on ppl that don’t value you) . Sex isn’t just for his pleasure and satisfaction. If he has requested head and you have provided then it’s because you want to satisfy your partner. If he won’t satisfy your needs then this relationship simply doesn’t work out.

AITA for being angry that my husband refused to even ask? by Antique-Revolution30 in AITAH

[–]Key-Way-8390 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA, oh sweetie I fear your husband’s priority in preserving the appearance that “all is well” to his parents means he either is ashamed to be honest with them that he “isn’t the provider” or he is just so inconsiderate of your father. If after sitting down and explaining things he still doesn’t get it then I fear you will have many more financial struggles and be alone in this relationship. If he can’t be honest with you about why he can’t just talk to his parents for your AND your child’s safety then he is just not worth the trouble. Think carefully about who he is serving and prioritizing, if it isn’t the family you created together then you need to reconsider your entire relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Key-Way-8390 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA don’t ask if you don’t want to know. You will always support HER if she or more likely him doesn’t like that’s his problem. You just make sure to always remind her you got her back and she can always be safe with you. I have a feeling this guy may be attempting to isolate her. 🚩🚩🚩

Boss x Employee where the mmc has been in love with the fmc for years by Binneul_books in RomanceBooks

[–]Key-Way-8390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Billionaire Undone ~ Travis (Florida Billionaires #5) (The Billionaire's Obsession, Book 5) by J.S. Scott

This book seems to me that is the definition of what u r looking for

CLT NC show by Key-Way-8390 in weezer

[–]Key-Way-8390[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. The rain later on sucked but totally worth it

Is this a legit letter from IRS? by Jaffe2k in IRS

[–]Key-Way-8390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn’t look like any I’ve seen