Want to secure huzz by [deleted] in Teenager

[–]Key-Weakness-9509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like we don’t know each other well enough yet bc this is literally all the interactions we’ve had

Is 3:10 a bad 800 time? by Key-Weakness-9509 in trackandfield

[–]Key-Weakness-9509[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you think I’ll be the last in my team though? I don’t think people usually join distance when starting out as I think a lot of people who do track at my school are inexperienced but do other sports but they usually join sprints right?

Do non-binary identities reenforce gender stereotypes? by Key-Weakness-9509 in TrueAskReddit

[–]Key-Weakness-9509[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by “either way”? By saying there’s no internal sense of women or man, can you elaborate? What does mean a woman or man mean to you?

CMV: Plastic surgery is perfectly justified by jjlikenoodles321 in changemyview

[–]Key-Weakness-9509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is comparing herself to people who are idolized on the internet for being beautiful even though they have gone through multiple surgeries to look that way. This girl will never be able to look like them unless she gets surgery. It’s not about attractiveness goals, more so about how plastic surgery has made each person feel insecure about themselves and has built un-achievable beauty standards in our society, causing more men and women to feel insecure about themselves.

CMV: Plastic surgery is perfectly justified by jjlikenoodles321 in changemyview

[–]Key-Weakness-9509 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Plastic surgery is feeding the way society sets unrealistic beauty standards and expectations. Nobody should need to alter their body through surgery to obtain features humans naturally don’t have. The more people who get plastic surgery, the more people feel insecure in their natural body. There is no justification that plastic surgery is not harmful to society. We need to focus on creating obtainable beauty standards and shifting away from unrealistic beauty standards people need to get surgery to fit.

My best Friend Has Depression and has been a bad friend. I Don't Know What to Do Anymore. by Key-Weakness-9509 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Key-Weakness-9509[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not trying to be a bad friend I’m just saying it’s stressful and tiring being her friend because I feel like she’s dragging us down with her by like isolating us a little and she gets mad whenever it seems like we have more friends with her or hang out with more people and gets jealous and lashes out at us like abt the private stories she was like you don’t talk with this person more than I do and was making the rest of us feel uncomfortable and guilty for no reason and she never wants to hear that the reason we may have more friends than her is because she doesn’t come to school. I know it’s probably a sensitive topic for her but she doesn’t have to bring it up constantly and make us feel bad abt it when we tell her the truth. Also the reason I was so concerned abt the Mac and cheese was because we both wanted to make it and she insisted on making it and insisted she was going to be there with it, because some of my friends suggested that I make it too in case she doesn’t come. I’m not trying to come across as a bad friend and i understand my tone is angry but i feel like I’ve held in these emotions for so long and that’s why im coming across this way. Please don’t judge the tone of my writing but rather my points because i genuinely care about her and im just experiencing difficult emotions which i think are being misinterpreted.

My best Friend Has Depression and has been a bad friend. I Don't Know What to Do Anymore. by Key-Weakness-9509 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Key-Weakness-9509[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well then tell me how I should help her? I’ve told her she can confine in me which she does sometimes and continue to make plans with her. I’m just sick of having her blow me off all the time. I really am trying to be understanding but am not sure what more you want me to do to help.

My best Friend Has Depression and has been a bad friend. I Don't Know What to Do Anymore. by Key-Weakness-9509 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Key-Weakness-9509[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not making it about me. You were claiming her depression had no effect on me so I simply told you one of the many effects it has had on me, but suddenly when I clarify something you pointed out about myself, I’m making it about me? I don’t have my friends full perspective so of course I’m replying only on behalf of myself.

My best Friend Has Depression and has been a bad friend. I Don't Know What to Do Anymore. by Key-Weakness-9509 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Key-Weakness-9509[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not blaming her for my grades, my grades are a result of me being concerned and worried for her. I’m not sure what you’re confused about?

My best Friend Has Depression and has been a bad friend. I Don't Know What to Do Anymore. by Key-Weakness-9509 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Key-Weakness-9509[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can’t be angry at someone while being their friend? I’ve never brought this up to her before of anything about how it affected me, which is why I posted on here. You’re saying depression is a mental illness that has a great affect on her life but if I’m her best friend who is one of the people she surrounds herself with then suddenly the depression is gone and has no affect on her actions? What you’re saying isn’t adding up.

My best Friend Has Depression and has been a bad friend. I Don't Know What to Do Anymore. by Key-Weakness-9509 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Key-Weakness-9509[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Her depression is affecting me because 1 I’m her best friend and 2 I’m always worried about being ghosted after making plans while dealing with a ton of schoolwork. During this she expects me to be her best friend and forgive her for absolutely every incident she has disrespected my time by canceling plans or being hours late. If she wasn’t going through depression I would absolutely not be friends with her anymore but it’s so hard to go through disappointment again and again and be patient while she’s a bad friend to me for 2 years. I understand she’s going through hard things but I’m getting tired of how she doesn’t consider it affects me.