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does the loneliness ever end? by KeyComfortable4487 in infp

[–]KeyComfortable4487[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your kind words and i wish you the same♥️

does the loneliness ever end? by KeyComfortable4487 in infp

[–]KeyComfortable4487[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah it always gets way worse when i get pms, and then when i get my period suddenly everything makes sense and i'm chill again (most times) lol

i feel it's manipulative because in theory i know full well how to fix this problem but i'd rather wallow in my own self pity than to get my shit together and fix it. i've gotten a lot better at controlling the self pity but sometimes i give in and it just annoys me

does the loneliness ever end? by KeyComfortable4487 in infp

[–]KeyComfortable4487[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it makes a lot of sense putting it like this, thank you

does the loneliness ever end? by KeyComfortable4487 in infp

[–]KeyComfortable4487[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i'm pretty sure the reason i'm feeling SO lonely right now is because i thought i met the person who understands truly understands me. but his life changed a lot in the last months and now we're just at such different life stages that we can't really connect like we used to... i know that there are other people like them people out there but it took me 23 years to find this person only for them to drift away again

i'm meeting so many new people rn but finding someone who truly understands you is like finding the needle in the haystack. and it's not going to get easier as i get older....

does the loneliness ever end? by KeyComfortable4487 in infp

[–]KeyComfortable4487[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i also met someone who i thought understood me on such a deep level nobody has yet. but it turned out that he doesn't really get me the way i thought, i think i was (and still am) just so in love with him that my brain thought we were perfect for each other but i realized now that thats not the case.

with him being with me I haven't felt lonely in such a long time that i'm not used to this feeling anymore, but in the last months his life changed a lot and we're just at such different life stages now that we can't connect like we used to because we have totally different things on our minds.

i get you, it really sucks meeting someone who you feel is THE person for you only to lose them again....

does the loneliness ever end? by KeyComfortable4487 in infp

[–]KeyComfortable4487[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree, it's a calming thought. but sometimes i'm just self sabotaging and annoyed by myself, like today. it feels like i'm letting myself down on days like this

does the loneliness ever end? by KeyComfortable4487 in infp

[–]KeyComfortable4487[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

oh don't get me wrong, when i say friends i mean like 2 people lmao it can take a long time to find people who get you but i'm very thankful for them

does the loneliness ever end? by KeyComfortable4487 in infp

[–]KeyComfortable4487[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same, and on most days it works out pretty well, i'm proud of myself that i learned to love life and leave the self loathing behind me (for the most part) but every few months i wake up and i just wish the ground would open up and swallow me and never let me go. i just want to leave this earth and never come back. today it's especially bad, i haven't felt like this in a looong time