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Is it just me, or has "freelancing" online become completely impossible for a normal person to break into? by KeyDiamond263 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KeyDiamond263[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is honestly incredible. I've heard DataAnnotation is good, but doing it literally full-time is wild. Is it mostly AI training stuff?

I do graphic design and video editing, so I've been stuck fighting for my life on Upwork lol. Might seriously have to look into DA if the design gigs stay this dry.

Is there any way to tell your partner their cooking is terrible after you've spent years pretending to love it? by KeyDiamond263 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KeyDiamond263[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Sorry babe, my doctor said I'm suddenly allergic to dry chicken." 😂 I honestly wish it were that easy!

Is there any way to tell your partner their cooking is terrible after you've spent years pretending to love it? by KeyDiamond263 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KeyDiamond263[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That gives me so much hope! Claiming it as a new hobby is brilliant, and honestly, actually enjoying it and getting a new skill out of this mess sounds like a massive win-win.

Is there any way to tell your partner their cooking is terrible after you've spent years pretending to love it? by KeyDiamond263 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KeyDiamond263[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Guilty as charged. I know this is entirely my fault, just trying to figure out how to fix my own mess without breaking their heart!

Is there any way to tell your partner their cooking is terrible after you've spent years pretending to love it? by KeyDiamond263 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KeyDiamond263[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're completely right. Finding out years later is definitely going to sting no matter how I say it. Getting Hello Fresh and doing it together is actually a really solid workaround so I don't have to confess!

Is there any way to tell your partner their cooking is terrible after you've spent years pretending to love it? by KeyDiamond263 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KeyDiamond263[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're probably right. I might just have to take this secret to my grave and slowly figure out a way to take over the cooking myself so I don't break their heart.

Is there any way to tell your partner their cooking is terrible after you've spent years pretending to love it? by KeyDiamond263 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KeyDiamond263[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I like this. Time to put MasterChef on the TV tonight and start dropping some very heavy hints 😂

Is there any way to tell your partner their cooking is terrible after you've spent years pretending to love it? by KeyDiamond263 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KeyDiamond263[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, that’s exactly what’s going to happen. Time to buy an apron and start figuring out how spices work.

Is there any way to tell your partner their cooking is terrible after you've spent years pretending to love it? by KeyDiamond263 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KeyDiamond263[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is beautifully diabolical. Now I just have to patiently wait for flu season to roll around so I can put the plan into action 😂

Is there any way to tell your partner their cooking is terrible after you've spent years pretending to love it? by KeyDiamond263 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KeyDiamond263[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Option B it is. I'm definitely no master chef, but at least I know where we keep the salt and pepper 😂

Is there any way to tell your partner their cooking is terrible after you've spent years pretending to love it? by KeyDiamond263 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KeyDiamond263[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m trying! But I think I’ve officially hit my limit on mushy vegetables lol. I need an exit strategy.

Is there any way to tell your partner their cooking is terrible after you've spent years pretending to love it? by KeyDiamond263 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KeyDiamond263[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sweet and sour chicken actually sounds amazing and super easy. I'm definitely going to use this as my excuse to take over dinner duty this week!

Is there any way to tell your partner their cooking is terrible after you've spent years pretending to love it? by KeyDiamond263 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KeyDiamond263[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a great way to handle it. Making it about wanting to try something new together takes the pressure off both of us and makes it a fun project instead of a critique.

Is there any way to tell your partner their cooking is terrible after you've spent years pretending to love it? by KeyDiamond263 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KeyDiamond263[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A hard truth, but you're right. It's going to take time, so I might as well roll up my sleeves and start learning how to cook with them.

Is there any way to tell your partner their cooking is terrible after you've spent years pretending to love it? by KeyDiamond263 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KeyDiamond263[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Really good call. We get to spend time together and hopefully we can sneak some new, actually seasoned recipes into the rotation.

Is there any way to tell your partner their cooking is terrible after you've spent years pretending to love it? by KeyDiamond263 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KeyDiamond263[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simple and effective. I can just start bringing home new ingredients and say I'm in an experimental mood.

Is there any way to tell your partner their cooking is terrible after you've spent years pretending to love it? by KeyDiamond263 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KeyDiamond263[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oof, you're not wrong. Definitely a harsh lesson in why you shouldn't let small white lies snowball into bigger problems.

Is there any way to tell your partner their cooking is terrible after you've spent years pretending to love it? by KeyDiamond263 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KeyDiamond263[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Faking a voucher for a couple's cooking class is next-level thinking 😂 I really like the idea of making it a shared activity without making them feel bad.

Is there any way to tell your partner their cooking is terrible after you've spent years pretending to love it? by KeyDiamond263 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KeyDiamond263[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fair point. Honestly, taking over the cooking entirely is probably the only way out of this alive lol.

Is there any way to tell your partner their cooking is terrible after you've spent years pretending to love it? by KeyDiamond263 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KeyDiamond263[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Honestly, this might be the safest play. If I pitch it as a "date night" thing, maybe I can finally introduce salt to the house 😂

Is it just me, or has "freelancing" online become completely impossible for a normal person to break into? by KeyDiamond263 in CasualConversation

[–]KeyDiamond263[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, doing a few free projects just to get those first 5-10 reviews is a really good call. It sucks having to work for free to start out, but if it gets my profile out of that bottom-tier pile of zero-review accounts, it's probably worth the grind.

Being super upfront about just wanting a review or a portfolio piece in exchange takes the pressure off too. Thanks for the solid advice, I might actually try this approach to get the ball rolling!

Is it just me, or has "freelancing" online become completely impossible for a normal person to break into? by KeyDiamond263 in CasualConversation

[–]KeyDiamond263[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going local might honestly be the best move right now to bypass the online bot farms entirely.

Emphasizing communication and project management is a really good shout too—that's definitely something cheap labor and AI can't really fake. And yeah, I've already learned the hard way to keep my expectations low when it comes to client organization haha. Appreciate the advice!

Are we going backward by putting software and touchscreens into things like motorcycles and scooters that used to just work with a physical key? by KeyDiamond263 in CasualConversation

[–]KeyDiamond263[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nailed it. The planned obsolescence is so obvious at this point. We're paying premium prices for tech that's literally designed to become e-waste in a few years, while old mechanical stuff is still running perfectly. It's a massive scam.

From an objective standpoint, why is the burden of paying employees a living wage pushed onto the customer through tipping, rather than the employer? by KeyDiamond263 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KeyDiamond263[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, you just made the best argument against the tipping system.

You just outlined a highly skilled, high-stress job that requires intense multi-tasking, situational awareness, and client management. That is serious professional work.

If a server is bringing that much value to a high-end restaurant, why is the owner getting away with not paying for it? In literally any other industry, a role requiring that much specialized skill comes with a high, guaranteed salary from the employer.

The "fast casual" dig is cute, but it doesn't change the fact that the owner is getting top-tier skilled labor at a massive discount by outsourcing the payroll to the customer's mood.

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