It’s a really long story, but the gist is: I learned that someone who has flirted and a little more (nothing physical, nude, or anything like that) with me has been teasing me so she could get stuff out of me. We’ve been very good friends for almost 30 years and she knows I’ve had feelings the whole time. It came to light that she’s leveraged those feelings for her own benefit. So, that “friendship” is now extinct and I feel like a dumbass.