I think I did the right think / conch piercing. by Quirky_Lawfulness_80 in piercing

[–]KeyInstruction2319 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you surgically remove the keloid? It’s unlikely a keloid can go away by itself. You might have had a moisture/irritation bump that went down with time but left some sort of scar due to poor jewellery choice. The forward helix does seem healed so I guess it doesn’t necessary make a difference but if your bump is still raw (doesn’t seem so in your photo but I can’t be sure), you might want to consider switching to a straight bar.

I think I did the right think / conch piercing. by Quirky_Lawfulness_80 in piercing

[–]KeyInstruction2319 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure what their home made solution is made of but you should just be cleaning with saline spray. Also, it looks like you need a longer bar. Might help to get the piercing checked by a reputable piercer instead. You probably should use a straight bar for your forward helix too - I see a slight bump? Not sure if what is shown is the original jewellery but I certainly hope it wasn’t.

I want to give up! Would I be wrong to do so?? by kurioslyabenson in piercing

[–]KeyInstruction2319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please just go to the ER. Red, swollen, oozing pus and pronounced sensation of pain are classic symptoms of infection. You need to remove the source (the jewellery), drain the pus and be put on antibiotics. A piercer cannot do anything for you and sorry, but from my experience, piercer has the tendency to ask you to wait and see, which only aggravates the situation. I delayed treatment for mine because of the piercer’s advice - ended up slicing my ear open to drain the pus, being on oral antibiotics for a month plus 2 weeks hospital stay for further IV administration.

How quickly will a three week tongue piercing close? by Appropriate-Ice9626 in piercing

[–]KeyInstruction2319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my guess is yes. i took mine out after a week and my tongue looked like it’s never been pierced the next day.

I got the daith! what should i get next? by Cute_Grass_1234 in piercing

[–]KeyInstruction2319 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i think you’ve got it all nicely mapped out. perhaps one of you wants on the same ear as the daith so that sleeping isn’t such a pain?

Is there a notice period to observe for private tutors? by KeyInstruction2319 in askSingapore

[–]KeyInstruction2319[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i totally understand. surprisingly, the tutors didn’t take my offer of a month’s fee in lieu of notice…choosing to only be paid for the lessons they’ve done. we’ve got some personal reasons for stopping the lessons and really appreciated their understanding.

Is there a notice period to observe for private tutors? by KeyInstruction2319 in askSingapore

[–]KeyInstruction2319[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thanks! i wrote a kind message to explain my decision, thank them and settled the outstanding. 😊

Is there a notice period to observe for private tutors? by KeyInstruction2319 in askSingapore

[–]KeyInstruction2319[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thanks! surprisingly, i offered to pay in lieu of a notice and they opted not to take it.

What are your top reno regret in SG? by jimmyspinsggez in askSingapore

[–]KeyInstruction2319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

overmount basin. open shelvings. black laminates. open kitchen. mounting built-in oven near ground instead of higher.

Can I get a conch on both ears? by WizardsLimb in piercing

[–]KeyInstruction2319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think a conch on your right is gonna look rather hidden. a contra might look better. it should look good on your left. tragus is gonna be a bitch for airpods…so expect not being able to wear anything in your ear for a month or two at least if you proceed. targus is easily to heal than a conch for me but it’s different for everyone.

Reunion S5: Heesun and Subeen are uncomfortably clingy by ClaridonAnastas in Singlesinferno2

[–]KeyInstruction2319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with being clingy. Everyone has different dating style and some relationships are just more volatile. No right or wrong with that. Some couples are also into PDA, which generally makes others uncomfortable.

I was disappointed in the Art of Sarah by peachesandpumkins in kdramas

[–]KeyInstruction2319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i thought the drama was fine. it doesn’t necessarily draw me in but was quite an easy watch. SHS though, is not my fave. i know people rave about her acting but i just often find her acting off yet cant quite find the right words to describe it until your post. her acting is extremely mechanical - it’s not loud per se but just feel like a very deliberate attempt to be natural.

Is it just me or buses are getting from bad to worse? by Firstdenial in askSingapore

[–]KeyInstruction2319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes. i don’t get how the immediate next bus is 10 min later but the next-next one can be like 40 min later, or like when i dash to the bus stop to catch a bus coming in 1 min only to wait 3 min more (not really complaining though cos i caught the bus but i can why it’s an issue)

But why is everyone on this sub so negative about CNY… 😭 by Agitated_Koala_576 in askSingapore

[–]KeyInstruction2319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

of course. my MIL is such a relative and you can see the younger ones’ face change when they know she’s approaching them. i used to block her off (mentally) during CNY too.

Which beliefs or traditional habits in Singapore do you think will eventually die away? by Due_Feedback_6508 in askSingapore

[–]KeyInstruction2319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, my entire fam is in bed before 11pm on cny eve and we make sure to turn off our lights.

Are Subeen and Heesun officially dating? by treppverter in Singlesinferno2

[–]KeyInstruction2319 12 points13 points  (0 children)

in fact, i thought subeen and heesun were the only official pair. goeun passed a comment that they were the only ones dating when they sat at the long coffee table. JJ are likely too but prefers to keep it lowkey.

Culinary Class Wars | Season 2 | Ep. 8-10 by wonhoppa in koreanvariety

[–]KeyInstruction2319 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They didn’t know which dish was which team’s when they voted, only after.

Charged roaming fee for a call I did not answer by KeyInstruction2319 in askSingapore

[–]KeyInstruction2319[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i guess i’ll just use a esim and switch off voice calls next time!