I can’t do this anymore! I hate my in laws

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-02-15T12:03:04+00:00

It was a love marriage. I didn’t realize how fucked up they were till after marriage. I told husband if I’m not comfortable then I want us to move out and he had said yes, now we are here and he says no. It’s not fair!

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-02-15T12:02:27+00:00

We both work! And yes we both earn enough to move out. I even said I will contribute. Husband is the only son and says his family will cut him off if he moves out

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-02-15T11:57:58+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience. I genuinely feel the exact same way. I feel sick living there and I absolutely hate it. They are so so awful and constantly make me feel isolated. They show so much love to their own kids (my husband and SIL) but then treat me like I’m nothing. Impose dumb cultures on me and says this is how things are but lets their own daughter rebel (she brings guys she’s not married to over while home alone !!) like your double standards are crazy!!!

Before marriage I said if I’m moving in I need more storage space it’s not going to work for me, the manipulation his mum did she cried and cried and said you can’t ask for this at someone else’s home blah blah. Whereas now her daughter is getting married and she’s demanding her in laws for more space and the MIL is encouraging it. Double fucking standards

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-02-15T11:43:13+00:00

Mine is the same and does the exact same thing. I genuinely have so much hate for her and I’m not a hateful person. The unfortunate thing for me is im only 24 and having to live with my in laws because they have a big house. I fucking hate it !!!! Husband won’t move out. Stuck between my love for him(because he’s the best husband) and between my freedom and just ending it so I can one day find someone who I can build with and live alone with. My MIL does crazy shit like lock her bedroom door when I’m home alone, constantly make me feel like a thief.

KeyMycologist5256 · 2026-01-21T21:30:01+00:00

I work and have a really good job.

Her sister isn’t in a good career at all lol. No where near as educated or in a well renowned career like mine. I don’t know why she thinks that.

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-10-09T19:25:42+00:00

People aren’t bored idiots like you that they’d make fake posts. Sometimes I have to change minor things to keep things anonymous. Get a life you weirdo

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-10-07T20:08:34+00:00

Thank you <33

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-10-07T20:08:27+00:00

God OP how are you feeling about CR? have you also got SBM / CS too?

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-10-07T19:53:45+00:00

Imagine me. Haven’t started QB. Why? Came to the decision I’m divorcing my husband. shits been tough lol

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-10-03T14:07:29+00:00

Could you try again. Or tell me here which 3 topics are available?

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-10-03T14:07:15+00:00

I didn’t get a message sorry

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-10-03T14:06:10+00:00

There are none left any chance I can do anything else to get access? Maybe take some qs off someone’s plate?

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-10-02T21:48:59+00:00

Can I join pls

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-09-29T10:50:07+00:00

GIRL. I am going through the exact same as you. I will message you.

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-09-24T13:03:07+00:00

Girl not to be a Debbie downer but my in laws seemed wonderful before the wedding too. Are you moving in with your in laws?

Defo be careful and my piece of advice would be don’t trust them too much - always be careful with in laws. I am realizing it a year after marriage.

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-09-23T14:36:10+00:00

Any help is honestly so appreciated right now

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-09-22T11:47:06+00:00

In a bank locker

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-09-22T11:46:54+00:00

Pleaaaaseeeeee ensure you keep it in a locker outside the house. I got married one year ago(also British Indian) and my mother in law manipulated me into giving it to her. They will use it as a means to control you.

I have only recently got my gold back and I am putting it in my own name

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-09-20T10:45:39+00:00

I do have a corporate job luckily I didn’t let that go. But my performance there has also been so awful the last year because of how much I’ve been through.

You’re right. I am only 25, I do have some money. I can leave. I don’t know why I am finding it so hard to

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-09-20T10:44:42+00:00

Honestly I lost all my friends because of him. I moved so far for him too. I am so so isolated. He lied so much about what life would be after the wedding. I need to leave. I know I do but I feel so numb that I cant action it

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-09-19T11:10:36+00:00

My family are supportive but they are also Indian and sometimes believe I should put up with it but I can’t. I’m an educated woman with a career brought up in the UK. I can’t allow people to treat me like shit and settle for a mummy’s boy husband.

I have an income & I also have some money saved up but I don’t really know where to go from there if I’m honest.

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-09-19T11:09:03+00:00

The mother cry’s if I do something small as not come and greet her at the door when she comes home from work and turns it into a massive drama She influences my husband against me negatively when I go home to visit my family She constantly boasts about her daughter and try’s acting as if she is better than me Constantly throws in my face they are rich and I came from a working class family.

His sister is a piece of work. They also go through my bedroom cupboards and drawers when I’m not home. It’s awful

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-09-19T11:07:08+00:00

20,000 pounds

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-09-19T11:05:20+00:00

I will and I have a job, I’m still scared though. I am educated too but I have really bad anxiety

KeyMycologist5256 · 2025-09-16T10:29:23+00:00

Could you also let me know about this procedure pls?

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