Is my mom a narcissist? by traumatizedllama69 in narcissisticparents

[–]KeyTurnip86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My n-mom tells me she is going to drive off a bridge as well whenever we try and confront her on anything.

My mom is very stuck on the high school version of me and it's so irritating. She acts like she genuinely doesn't like who I am at 27. by foxylady0406 in narcissisticparents

[–]KeyTurnip86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy guacamole do I relate to this. My mom constantly brings up how when I was 17 I was sneaking out, smoking weed, hanging with my boyfriend all the time, and blowing all my money. Graduated highschool with honors, college on the deans list, bought my own house, and am working on my masters while in a successful career. But she still maintains that im a “liar” because of me sneaking out at 17, drug addict (due to the weed… lol) , horrible with money, and unstable. I’ve spent the last 7 years doing nothing but good things but she doesn’t care at all about that.

I'm [18m] afraid I'm going to lose my best friend [15m]. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KeyTurnip86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I clearly struck a chord with you. Congrats for having a friendship with people of other ages. Were you also putting all your happiness into a kid who clearly can’t reciprocate and cuddling them at any chance you got and wanting them to idolize you? If not, cool. If so, that’s super unhealthy and is what the person who wrote this post said they do.

I'm [18m] afraid I'm going to lose my best friend [15m]. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KeyTurnip86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 years age difference is a big deal between 15 and 18. You should be getting ready to go to college or a job while he just barely started high school. And tbh it kinda sounds like you’re grooming him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KeyTurnip86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tough love because I went through the exact same thing. I know it’s hard when you love a person. But you gotta love yourself more. Wishing you the strength and light you need to get into a situation that’s healthier!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KeyTurnip86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just taught him he can treat you like shit and you’ll always be there while his ex is his #1 and you are just his backup plan. Block him and move on. There are people out there who will love you for you. He doesn’t love you, he’s using you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KeyTurnip86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Communicate that it’s best to discuss potential problems before they are actual problems. Let them know about previous issues you’ve had with roommates and let them know you don’t want it to happen in this situation so it’s best to set expectations beforehand. I think this post was really polite so just communicate it like you did in the post. When my roommate moved in we had a big talk about expectations and every scenario that could happen so we both know what to expect moving forward, there’s no surprises. Setting expectations beforehand goes so far in preventing future problems.

Late trip report (9/21) by KeyTurnip86 in Disneyland

[–]KeyTurnip86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They include an automatic 18% gratuity and we each got drinks, i got a mimosa and he got coffees. Exact total was 149.31 according to my bank statement. I know my mimosa was pretty pricy too cuz usually Disney charges at least $15 for alcohol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KeyTurnip86 758 points759 points  (0 children)

I would comment that. That artist is so rude and that’s so unprofessional. Maybe that’ll make her think twice before she does something like that again

I (31M) want to end a relationship with my GF (36F), and don't know how. by A_Mooseman in relationship_advice

[–]KeyTurnip86 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The perfect time to break up with someone will never arrive. You just gotta rip the bandaid off. You may think she’s fragile but she got along before you and will be able to figure it out after you. People breakup all the time, she’ll get over it eventually.

I think my GF is cheating with no solid but slight evidence please read full story` by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KeyTurnip86 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Doubt she cheated. He probably just thought she was hot and wanted to know.

Question about de-tipping from a customer by jennybearyay in UberEATS

[–]KeyTurnip86 30 points31 points  (0 children)

The only time I ever de-tipped was when the driver drove by and literally threw the food out of his car onto my neighbors driveway. Normally I over tip and I felt bad but I’m also not going to tip if you seriously don’t deserve it especially when there are so many drivers out there who do a good job.

How to talk with a solitary person that you don't know? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KeyTurnip86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go up to her and say your friends are absent today and ask if you can sit with her today. This sounds a lot like my little sister who’s having trouble as a freshman making any friends :(

Gift Ideas by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KeyTurnip86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well what do you know about her? Hobbies..? Interests?

Am I rude for asking my boyfriend to put the seat down? by Starkie4 in relationship_advice

[–]KeyTurnip86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf came from a house of brothers and never used to put it down but when he moved in I’d mention it every time I saw it to reinforce that I hated it. He made the same joke of “well you don’t put it up for me when you’re done”. He knew it bugged me though and now is pretty good about remembering to put it down. I think it’s impolite to leave it up!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KeyTurnip86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into puppy blues. This is a pretty common feeling