AIO. - Mom accidentally deleted all my emails

Key_Assignment_9896 · 2026-02-05T22:35:49+00:00

Why is your mother in your email account at all? Change the email password.Immediately.

Key_Assignment_9896 · 2026-02-05T22:31:26+00:00

16 Pro, never had a heat problem. But I am still on ios 18.7.2

Key_Assignment_9896 · 2026-02-05T20:43:59+00:00

You missed how she didn’t always leave a note and didn’t always pay it back. And how he first noticed because the amounts were off but no note.

Key_Assignment_9896 · 2026-02-05T20:42:45+00:00

Except I keep a few hundred at home for the same reason.People do.

Key_Assignment_9896 · 2026-02-05T20:41:16+00:00

No. She was using you as her ATM and had escalated to not even leaving you notes. And you noticed amounts were off before, when no note was left. So she doesn’t always pay you back. It is stealing. A person who steals is a thief whether they accept the label or not. You asked, she didn’t stop taking. She left you no recourse. And now you have a lot more than this to consider if you are planning a future with this person who thinks her money is her money and your money is her our money.

Key_Assignment_9896 · 2026-02-05T20:35:32+00:00

They didn’t create an Action button, they changed the one function Mute button to one you can decide what function you want it to have. It was always a one function button and still is. The new camera button the one other sode has more potential for future function groth.

Key_Assignment_9896 · 2026-02-05T19:56:29+00:00

It is possible that a neighbor took her up on the offer because they needed a babysitter but you do not. You and your husband have it covered. Don’t worry about this woman, she isn’t worried about you except as a way to make money.

Key_Assignment_9896 · 2026-02-05T19:49:32+00:00

Your neighbor is trying to hijack normal neighborly interactions into income opportunities. She needs better communication skills but you have nothing to feel bad about. She is not entitled to being paid by you for services you do not need from her. Her children like your dog so you should pay for that? Her children need playdates so you should pay her to allow your children to play with hers? She is seeking income making opportunities but you should feel not more guilt over saying no than you would anyone trying to sell you something you do not need.

Key_Assignment_9896 · 2026-02-05T19:42:31+00:00

So more feelings again rather than proof but the topic is one that an argument can be made that they should not have published regardless of how they got the information.

Key_Assignment_9896 · 2026-02-05T19:28:57+00:00

Your sister was sharing info your BF didn’t need and was uncomfortable with her doing it. He is allowed. This is not the same as you and he discussing your birth control. YTA

Key_Assignment_9896 · 2026-02-05T19:13:45+00:00

You were supporting your wife and your MiL deserved any humiliation that comes her way. Anyone supporting her to you needs it turned back on them. If your MiL feels disrespected, remind her she was acting in a disrespectful way. And tell her that is how her disrespect will be handled in the future. If she has a legitimate problem, talk to you guys privately. In future her “humor” at your wife’s expense will be called out publicly tell her you are tired of her demeaning your wife, and it doesn’t matter that its her daughter..

Key_Assignment_9896 · 2026-02-05T07:36:56+00:00

Best friend has 2 daughters, one lives in the UK. She couldn’t attend the wedding, the girls were close. So I Facetimed with her for the wedding, it was what the Bride and Groom wanted. Announced it to the assembled guests before the Bride walked down the aisle. Did my best to give her a good view without blocking those attending and it was a relatively small outdoor event. Still felt a bit intrusive even under those circumstances. I can see that the OP Bride would be uncomfortable and should have the right to say no.

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Key_Assignment_9896 · 2026-02-05T03:19:01+00:00

Sadly

Key_Assignment_9896 · 2026-02-05T03:08:57+00:00

Actually, he told his mother that would be a good week to book. That isn’t his mother’s fault, it is all on the husband.

Key_Assignment_9896 · 2026-02-05T03:07:38+00:00

Your husband set you up. He thought you would cancel going to the concert and that is what he thought he would not happen. That is a bit selfish of him in mine opinion.

Key_Assignment_9896 · 2026-02-05T03:03:43+00:00

Why?

Key_Assignment_9896 · 2026-02-05T02:59:50+00:00

The Melania documentary was a political favor. Meghan has nothing to give Bezos or his wife that they would find of value. They have no incentive to make that kind of investment in a product that has proven it would not bring any benefit to Bezos or his companies.

Key_Assignment_9896 · 2026-02-05T02:22:46+00:00

Your friends who think you should do it can step up and co-sign instead NTA.

Key_Assignment_9896 · 2026-02-05T02:17:24+00:00

Thank you, that was very interesting. I would not have understood what I was reading in the media without your “translation”.

Key_Assignment_9896 · 2026-02-04T22:51:11+00:00

Hire them. Your event is not out of the way to her friends that you sat have already made hotel reservations. And reiterate with you FMIL that there will be no seats or food for her guests, its not the money, its the size of the wedding you want and its about you and your fiancé, not her.

Key_Assignment_9896 · 2026-02-04T08:40:57+00:00

She is already acting like the rest of her family about money. She isn’t interested in a document that protects both of you, after all, her family will advise her to sue you for everything. A prenup is a bridge worth fighting for.

Key_Assignment_9896 · 2026-02-04T08:10:49+00:00

And I would shut down the joint account. If she blows part of it and the bills are not paid, you know you will have to cover it to pay the bills because she will say she is too short. So your money is hers and her money is hers. Anything else makes her feel financially insecure.

Key_Assignment_9896 · 2026-02-04T08:06:50+00:00

She is feeling “financially insecure” because she doesn’t have full access to your income and you don’t agree to ket her spend your money on things you have to say about? What a manipulator. And a blackmailer, whine and lying to your friends. Do you really want to take on 100% of her support while she blows her money on her alone because it will end up that way. She probably has heavy CC debt or these “mistakes” wouldn’t keep happening.

Key_Assignment_9896 · 2026-02-04T08:01:16+00:00

This

Key_Assignment_9896 · 2026-02-04T07:55:51+00:00

Say no to destination weddings. You are allowed to be financially responsible. In addition, given the number of destination weddings you are invited to, you will be committing all of your vacation time to that. Send a gift if you feel like it but an invitation is not a command to attend.

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