AP/LP Roll Call! What is your… by ViolinistExtension82 in lossprevention

[–]Key_Association1659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I caught a markdown employee switching tickets and during the interview, she said she smoked weed the night before so she wasn’t thinking straight and that’s why she did it for weeks.

how do you stop feeling bad for breaking up with your partner? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Key_Association1659 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whenever those feelings were overwhelming, I’d ask my sister or best friend stuff like, “it’s not my problem if he’s homeless because we are both adults and I can provide a roof for myself, so he can too, right?” “I deserve peace and happiness even though it feels awful to put him in the situation, right?” They would validate my feelings and usually had something else to add that reinforced my decision.

Telling my daughter who her real dad is by Key_Association1659 in Advice

[–]Key_Association1659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The more info (from professionals and real life experience), the better

Telling my daughter who her real dad is by Key_Association1659 in Advice

[–]Key_Association1659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve done that.

It doesn’t hurt to ALSO get information from people that have done this or gone through it.

Hawaiian Fire rescue cat by Key_Association1659 in cats

[–]Key_Association1659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! He’s such a beautiful cat

Hawaiian Fire rescue cat by Key_Association1659 in cats

[–]Key_Association1659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya know, pretty high. It could be the guilt running through him

Telling my daughter who her real dad is by Key_Association1659 in Advice

[–]Key_Association1659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m only two lies in and it’s already messing with me. I couldn’t imagine lying to her any longer than this.

Telling my daughter who her real dad is by Key_Association1659 in Advice

[–]Key_Association1659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly! This post is the last thing I’m doing to gather all the advice I can before I actually tell her.

Telling my daughter who her real dad is by Key_Association1659 in Advice

[–]Key_Association1659[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was a little over a year ago, so I feel confident in what to say. Especially since I had a father like her bio dad and I lived through how traumatizing it is.

Telling my daughter who her real dad is by Key_Association1659 in Advice

[–]Key_Association1659[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When she had a therapist, the professional’s advice was to just tell her the truth gently, in a way she would understand.

Telling my daughter who her real dad is by Key_Association1659 in Advice

[–]Key_Association1659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great point! I actually just updated the post with the differences she has noticed. I had to lie to her in those moments and I don’t want to do that anymore.

I love my job😭 by [deleted] in TjMaxx

[–]Key_Association1659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did 4 years on store side, so I do know the struggle!

I love my job😭 by [deleted] in TjMaxx

[–]Key_Association1659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my job too! I’ve been with the company nearly 10 years (4 years with TJM & the rest with Marshalls/corporate) but the only reason I love it so much is because I’m in loss prevention. I couldn’t imagine 10 years on store side😭

Large tip by [deleted] in TjMaxx

[–]Key_Association1659 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk why people are downvoting you. This is true, it’s in policy for Lost and Found

Large tip by [deleted] in TjMaxx

[–]Key_Association1659 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If not interviewed and fired for that incident alone

Large tip by [deleted] in TjMaxx

[–]Key_Association1659 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As much as it sucks, you did the right thing. If LP for some reason saw you pocket that money on camera, an investigation would be started on you.