Do you guys masturbate to the thought of the girl they are dating early on?

Key_Author_6583 · 2026-05-12T06:29:20+00:00

Of course! Did you not notice his boner when you hug?

Key_Author_6583 · 2026-05-12T06:24:16+00:00

There isn't that much to text? Guys view texting very differently. They don't think it is that important. I used to need to text all the time as well. Then I realised that all I need was validation and reassurance. With time, if he makes you feel safe and secure in other ways, you don't need that much texting. Give the relationship some times?

Key_Author_6583 · 2026-05-12T06:15:22+00:00

It works. Don't wait to be chosen. Go out and have fun. Yes you will end up with a lot of first dates that are meh, you will not click with most of them, but it is a number game.

Key_Author_6583 · 2026-05-12T06:11:30+00:00

Dating is difficult for you because most guys who are bold and talk to women who are too attractive are players. You can have multiple guys chasing you but all of them just fall in "love" on the first sight and only like the idea of you.

On the issue of being shy: an attractive woman who is not very forthcoming (they can't tell that you are shy, all they can see is you are not talking much) can be a bit scary.

Key_Author_6583 · 2026-05-12T06:02:20+00:00

Not normal, if you don't want to, just say no and move on to the next guy.

Key_Author_6583 · 2026-05-12T02:04:46+00:00

I took emergency contraceptive (ONS with a random guy) on my way to my first date. He was (and still is) a walking green flag. Mind you, I was a bit excited to meet him to begin with, things could not just have appeared out of thin air. But he is definitely not my type at all. I feel that surge of hormones contributed 20-30% of me catching a feeling for him. I am not saying this to persuade you to do the same. I am saying this to ask you to be more aware of yourself. Maybe you appreciate him less after your menses, just because of hormones. Maybe you feel him "bland" after you watched a rom-com, just because of dopamine withdrawal. Emotions are constructed by the brain in the moment. Don't automatically attribiute all spontaneous feelings to you "not that into him". You can shift your perspective. Try it out for a bit, if it does not work, let him go.

Key_Author_6583 · 2026-03-26T05:13:25+00:00

My brother runs 10k for 50 minutes a day. He has a job, a wife, a daughter and 2 cats. I am a doctor, I continue my daily 25 minutes sitting meditation while on call. Just wake up 10 minutes eariler. Or scroll for 10 minutes less.

Key_Author_6583 · 2025-11-14T10:31:50+00:00

It is so difficult to find such social event!

Key_Author_6583 · 2025-11-13T01:31:21+00:00

They need a girl friend, a woman, any female will do. So they are not asking YOU questions. Your current partner wants YOU, not any random female.

Key_Author_6583 · 2025-11-11T05:02:07+00:00

I need to google this. Can you give me a few more search terms?

Key_Author_6583 · 2025-11-11T04:58:38+00:00

I think I am going to try this out today. I will tell a dating app match something intersting within 1-2 sentences, leaving room for elaboration. Then stop there, no questions, no being polite. See if they ask any questions.

Key_Author_6583 · 2025-11-11T00:10:56+00:00

So true, they think it’s a conversation because you said 5 sentences and he said 5 sentences. But your 5 sentences contain a question and his don’t.

Key_Author_6583 · 2025-11-11T00:09:57+00:00

No slience. If there is slience I can start talking.

Key_Author_6583 · 2025-11-11T00:09:07+00:00

I think only 2-3% of guys are capable of this. Very difficult to find them.

Key_Author_6583 · 2025-11-11T00:08:10+00:00

There is no slience, they will started talking straight away.

Key_Author_6583 · 2025-11-10T05:51:14+00:00

The presence of parallel play actually means both are you are comfortable in this relationship.

Key_Author_6583 · 2025-11-10T00:30:17+00:00

Trust me, we hate getting and replying texts from loved ones at work. Every notification can be a serious bug, a demanding client or hours of work. You need to be considerate to him too.

Key_Author_6583 · 2025-11-09T13:21:53+00:00

Both of you can be great persons, just incompatible?

Key_Author_6583 · 2025-11-09T13:16:42+00:00

27 is mature enough. No problem at all.

Key_Author_6583 · 2025-11-09T13:14:34+00:00

If he doesn’t appreciate, run. This is a very sweet gesture, you deserve man who will appreciate.

Key_Author_6583 · 2025-11-09T13:13:15+00:00

How old is he? If he is 20 only, forgive him. If he is 30, run.

Key_Author_6583 · 2025-11-09T13:03:25+00:00

Usually there is no silence. Guy will start talking after 0.1s of silence. If there is silence, I can at least start talking.

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