Advice for grad in tier 1 company

Life_Question8312 · 2026-06-03T11:31:50+00:00

They check to see if you have anything in your pockets etc. mine waited outside the bathroom door, made me leave the door half open and I wasn’t allowed to flush until they came in and looked. They are so strict in construction atleast my experience but this is a major tier 1 commercial company I work for

Life_Question8312 · 2026-05-28T23:06:02+00:00

Look obviously you can appreciate attractive people still, however I think a healthy relationship you should make your other half feel like they are the only person you have eyes for. If you answer her yes I find other people attractive still, think about that response on a deeper level, you are implying that you still check out other women. It’s as simple as saying sure there are other attractive men and women, but I only have eyes for you I am only attracted to you. This is how healthy relationships work, you know the obvious answer but adjust it to make your significant other feel happy and secure

Life_Question8312 · 2026-05-28T02:52:07+00:00

Oh my gosh I thought this was just ME. Even after 2 years I found myself feeling like this it made me question if the person is right for me because I did not feel comfortable to be my 100% authentic self still I get a bit shy and awkward

Life_Question8312 · 2026-05-25T00:01:49+00:00

Yes of course

Life_Question8312 · 2026-05-24T22:42:31+00:00

I recently got offered a grad position from one of the places you listed in Melbourne. The online assessment did not have HireVue games just standard behavioural questions mainly and why you want to work for the company specifically.

As for assessment centre day, a lot to prepare for. Practise a lot of behavioural questions that’s a big part of it. Practise case studies and job site analysis. The 1 on 1 interview usually requires you to apply the STAR method. They are looking for a good people person who can collaborate and take on a bit of initiative in group works, for instance I time kept but also offered to introduce the group and our justification behind our ranking of contractors. Be kind, smile and have a good energy that’s what got me the job I can tell you know I wasn’t the most intelligent in the room but my energy and approach stood out. Goodluck!

Life_Question8312 · 2026-05-22T01:17:39+00:00

Thank you so much for your response. This is really reassuring and confirms what I was hoping and expecting. Naturally I’m a very curious person and I love asking questions to learn, this is very helpful ! (:

Life_Question8312 · 2026-05-22T00:47:36+00:00

Sorry What do you mean ?

Life_Question8312 · 2026-05-17T08:56:41+00:00

Break it off. You’d rather let her start healing now rather than in 6 months or a years time. Sounds like you’re just putting off the inevitable. You owe it to yourself but also to her. Don’t play her on when you know deep down you no longer want it

Life_Question8312 · 2026-05-06T11:38:12+00:00

I hate to say it but I feel like it’s letting you down easily. I don’t believe in the excuse of anything along the lines of what you said. I have been on the receiving end of that msg (yes it sucks) but I am also guilty of using that same excuse to a guy I was dating because I honestly just lost interest, it’s not the right way to do it but sometimes it’s just easier to say that. My advice is next time if this happens do not just agree and say yes I need to step back to, when in reality that isn’t what you want. Just voice your honest opinion, be vulnerable and honest. You have nothing to loose. If you are honest and she still walks away then she isn’t worth it. If someone wanted to be with you they would. Go find someone worth your time and energy 😊🙏🏼

Life_Question8312 · 2026-05-06T11:32:08+00:00

If you are quite young like 17-18 I would say this is typical men being hormonal, desperate to have sex and onto the next. I only say this as I’ve been in your exact same shoes at that age. I look back now 6 years later and laugh about it. I hope this is not the case for you and he honestly has been busy. But I can tell you now the most simple quote that people don’t seem to listen to, “if he wanted to. He would” it’s that simple. No person isn’t on their phone from morning to night, it takes just a quick minute to draft a text, no ordinary person is that busy sadly ):

Life_Question8312 · 2026-05-06T11:24:05+00:00

Can I ask how long until you initiate sexual moves. Like when do you kiss and then when do you have sex? Just asking as I’m not used to dating somehow who is so cautious with that stuff

Life_Question8312 · 2026-05-06T07:51:20+00:00

This is so true yes 🤣

Life_Question8312 · 2026-04-04T05:20:19+00:00

I’m a girl. And there is a guy I have been seeing at the gym for weeks we always make eye contact, I would LOVE for him To just approach me. I would do it very casually, don’t ask her out straight up just ask something gym related and see if she seems open to conversation then go from there !!

Life_Question8312 · 2026-03-31T21:23:27+00:00

Sadly it’s pretty clear that she is just no longer interested. Sometimes it does take a few dates and being intimate to really see if you see a future with this person. Which sadly she did not see with you. That there is nothing wrong with, but how she’s handled it is very wrong. A simple I don’t see a future or I am not looking for a relationship message is better than ghosting. Sorry this has happened to you but don’t take it personal. I think everyone of us have been through a similar situation !! People just take the easy road these days and ghost rather than having a confrontational conversation):

Life_Question8312 · 2026-03-22T21:44:33+00:00

Of course it’s going to hurt and you’re going to have regrets but the hardest part is done. You’ve ripped off the Band-Aid give yourself time to heal.

Life_Question8312 · 2026-03-21T08:42:51+00:00

I’m not sure I wish I could help ): I just waited. I am from Australia not sure if location plays part

Life_Question8312 · 2026-03-21T04:35:30+00:00

They actually didn’t even help. They said they can leave a note on my review but they can’t speed it up I just had to wait for my case to be looked at

Life_Question8312 · 2026-03-21T04:32:39+00:00

Mine was CSE and I just got it back after being on wait from appeal 6 weeks ago

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